So, I texted girl who thought I was following her the other day, and we shot the shit a bit (though she wasn't as responsive as she was prior to our date). Texted her today, she got back to me saying she reconnected with an old friend and things are going well, though she did have fun on our date.
Since I got a hug at the end of the date, and an actual response from her, both of which haven't happened in a while, I'll chalk this up as a win.
I'm trying to set something up with this 35 year old crossfit/runner type chick now. A bit hard since my schedule for the next few weeks is pretty booked (wine tasting, friend's bday party, Electric Zoo). After that I'll probably try Cupid, I think that tends to attract a nerdier/more hipster demo who are usually more into me, and I had much better luck there last time I dated.