Hello again. I'm going to post again, because in the end I probably won't ever stop.
Is it worth talking to a girl after she basicly said no? Is it ok to just drop them? I have a current situation that I don't see the point of continuing.
A girl who I use to have a crush on from my job, but since left actually came back into my life. She was at a friends party and I guess I got drunk and talked to her. Nothing special or anything, but I guess I asked if she still had a boyfriend which she did back then.
Anyway, later on my friend was talking to her and I guess he decided to ask her on my behalf. She said she didn't and assumed I was the one who wanted to know. So he gave her my Snapchat and she decided to add me.
Which to me was a positive.
Anyway for the next two weeks we talked back and forth everyday. Nothing special. Just talking about each other I guess. She's very nice and very down to earth. The last girl I talked to was very erratic and would post memes and just other stuff. This girl seems very chill, somewhat nerdy, and quaint.
But I mean I workshop everything with my friends and elders and they said everything sounded positive and just keep talking and be light and casual. Except some of the older guys said you know you have to make a move and make your intentions clear. Which I mean I already thought they would be after how this came about.
So I don't know how Justice League come up but she said she wanted to see it and while no I don't want to see that movie again I asked her if she wanted to see it.
She said
"Yeah sure, whenever I got a chance. I work a lot"
Which at first seemed to be good, but then I overthought it and said oh that was really a send off. Espically since she didn't bring it up. Other people said it was nothing so complicated and I decided to keep going with it.
Eventually I just told her I was intersted to which I got a polite no basicly. She never specifically said she wasn't intersted. But what she said is that she likes talking to me but right now she just got of a serious relationship and wants to focus on herself. Which I mean I belive her. I mean I know she did and it was at least a 3 year one.
Anyway after that it kind of jus resumed normally. We haven't stoped talking. She responds to my messages and it's not like they a one word simple replies either, but I wouldn't say she's flirting.
But I mean to be honest I wasn't trying to be her friend either. I mean she's cool and I guess that would be fine, but that wasn't my intention clear. I mean I wasn't looking to deep dive into a relationship either. I really just want a casual female to hang out with possibilities later.