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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2880 on: October 22, 2012, 08:58:45 PM »
Tell me more sensei before I take the plunge.

I think the main thing is that she has to be someone with whom you can speak honestly. Communication is the absolute foundation of any relationship, not fun, hobbies, sex, taste in music or movies or anything.

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« Reply #2881 on: October 23, 2012, 10:41:22 PM »
Chatting with this cutie on OKC who's into bondage. >_>

Why is it always the sweet and innocent looking ones that are into some freaky stuff?
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« Reply #2882 on: October 25, 2012, 11:30:20 PM »
Hung out with the girl from comic-con again and damn, girl is really amazing. Been a loooong time since I've liked a girl like this, I've been so jaded with dating lately. Really hoping it goes somewhere.
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« Reply #2883 on: October 27, 2012, 03:27:17 AM »
Fml


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« Reply #2884 on: October 27, 2012, 03:41:03 AM »
Dating trouble?

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2885 on: October 28, 2012, 11:19:05 AM »
Girls are a waste of time.. I'ma go play some MMOs or something  :'(
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« Reply #2886 on: October 28, 2012, 08:47:21 PM »
Damn, invited her over for my housewarming party, she had prior plans with her sister but she said that she was kinda hoping her sister cancels (I said, bring the sister too :P), but then didn't hear anything from her for 2 days... I hate this kinda stuff. I'm gonna call her tomorrow and see about making plans to see "Cloud Atlas" or something.

The problem with younger, busier girls are they are pretty flaky. The problem with older girls is I find a lot of them to be very stuck in their ways (the last few girls I dated were 1-3 years older).
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« Reply #2887 on: October 29, 2012, 11:05:10 PM »
lmf

I love how life is so totally random.  You never know when bad things will destroy on you and likewise when good things will smack you in the face.


Today's been a neat day  ;)

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« Reply #2888 on: October 30, 2012, 08:36:26 AM »
Damn, invited her over for my housewarming party, she had prior plans with her sister but she said that she was kinda hoping her sister cancels (I said, bring the sister too :P), but then didn't hear anything from her for 2 days... I hate this kinda stuff. I'm gonna call her tomorrow and see about making plans to see "Cloud Atlas" or something.

The problem with younger, busier girls are they are pretty flaky. The problem with older girls is I find a lot of them to be very stuck in their ways (the last few girls I dated were 1-3 years older).

Find an older girl whos ways are a good match with yours :)

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« Reply #2889 on: November 03, 2012, 05:15:22 PM »

tips for the thread
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« Reply #2890 on: November 03, 2012, 06:57:22 PM »
What's an Iraqi doing in SA?
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Phoenix Dark

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« Reply #2891 on: November 03, 2012, 07:08:24 PM »
Few years ago, what about you
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« Reply #2892 on: November 11, 2012, 09:09:07 PM »
Went on a date with the redhead I met at Comic Con speed dating. She's also a fan of Dragon Age... very sweet girl, very big into comic books (specifically DC), she was talking about all this obscure DC stuff that went so far completely over my head (my comic book knowledge begins and ends at Batman/Superman/Spider Man/X-Men) but we also checked out a game store in Babylon village and she likes games as well. Still haven't gotten together again with the girl I'm gonna be on the show with, our plans last week got a bit messed up due to the noreaster we had up here... but there's a good chance we'll get together this week. Now to also set something up with the redhead.
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« Reply #2893 on: November 11, 2012, 10:10:34 PM »
You're really hoping she has carpeted floors, huh?

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« Reply #2894 on: November 11, 2012, 10:23:14 PM »
Next Tiesto post:

Turns out the redhead I met during Comic Con speed dating is a saleswoman at a car dealership. I'm looking for someone more professional so I had to cut it off. Luckily I got a nice brunette's number at an anime store. I'll call her next weekend and see how things go.

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« Reply #2895 on: November 11, 2012, 10:33:04 PM »
Next Tiesto post:

Turns out the redhead I met during Comic Con speed dating is a saleswoman at a car dealership. I'm looking for someone more professional so I had to cut it off. Luckily I got a nice brunette's number at an anime store. I'll call her next weekend and see how things go.



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« Reply #2896 on: November 12, 2012, 09:49:59 AM »
nintenho: OH GOD YES

PD: you bastard!!!  :lol
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« Reply #2897 on: January 18, 2013, 07:27:27 PM »
I got an email from OKC that they're trying out a new blind date thing where you just put a day, a location, and you get a date with someone whose profile picture you can still kind of see enough to get their picture but you can't get any info about them.  Or you can search through girl's suggested dates and respond that you're interested in meeting up.

Gonna give it a try and see how it goes.  I think it'd be better if it didn't show a picture at all and was a true blind date because then I'd be less picky browsing through available dates and it'd be more exciting because I'd know absolutely nothing about them; but I guess they gotta protect girls from overweight guys.


As for me, well, been doing fine over the last couple of months.  Can't complain; life's ridiculously busy.  Don't have time to date, so more short-term stuff lately and it's tough keeping long-term interests going.  But then again I haven't met anyone that's really grabbed me for a while; so if that happens I'd prioritize. 

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« Reply #2898 on: January 18, 2013, 07:34:16 PM »
that just screams "awful experiences" to me
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« Reply #2899 on: January 18, 2013, 09:53:45 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.  With online dating I find so many times that you hit it off with your initial message, then spend a day or two or three messaging and things seem good, and then you go on a date a few days later and there's no chemistry, no interest at all.  At least with blind dating you find out right away if there's any interest on either side.

But yeah, their version of its not going to work.  Had 3 "dates" for tonight all fall out when the girls see my picture and cancel or decided they don't really want to go through with the blind date.  The only way real blind dating would work would be with no pictures, no info, just a location/time and then it lets you chat on your phone 20 mins before so you can find each other.

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« Reply #2900 on: January 18, 2013, 09:57:03 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.



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« Reply #2901 on: January 18, 2013, 09:58:10 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.  With online dating I find so many times that you hit it off with your initial message, then spend a day or two or three messaging and things seem good, and then you go on a date a few days later and there's no chemistry, no interest at all.  At least with blind dating you find out right away if there's any interest on either side.

But yeah, their version of its not going to work.  Had 3 "dates" for tonight all fall out when the girls see my picture and cancel or decided they don't really want to go through with the blind date.  The only way real blind dating would work would be with no pictures, no info, just a location/time and then it lets you chat on your phone 20 mins before so you can find each other.

What happened to that fine young asian girl in that picture you posted?

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« Reply #2902 on: January 18, 2013, 10:09:56 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.  With online dating I find so many times that you hit it off with your initial message, then spend a day or two or three messaging and things seem good, and then you go on a date a few days later and there's no chemistry, no interest at all.  At least with blind dating you find out right away if there's any interest on either side.

But yeah, their version of its not going to work.  Had 3 "dates" for tonight all fall out when the girls see my picture and cancel or decided they don't really want to go through with the blind date.  The only way real blind dating would work would be with no pictures, no info, just a location/time and then it lets you chat on your phone 20 mins before so you can find each other.

I actually went on a couple "blind" dates with girls on that site who didn't want to upload pictures because the high creep/normal ratio of messages. They were actually pretty (showed a picture right after setting up the date so we could find each other).

A real truly blind date would be so weird because let's be honest, both parties would be super scared that the other will be really fat or a slob or something. I mean can you even see what's on their profile to get an idea what you have to talk about beyond how was your day/what's your favorite color bullshit?

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« Reply #2903 on: January 18, 2013, 10:12:31 PM »
My favorite color is blue, though, sometimes, when I'm looking deeply into my own soulful eyes, it's green.  :-*

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« Reply #2904 on: January 18, 2013, 10:28:48 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.  With online dating I find so many times that you hit it off with your initial message, then spend a day or two or three messaging and things seem good, and then you go on a date a few days later and there's no chemistry, no interest at all.  At least with blind dating you find out right away if there's any interest on either side.

But yeah, their version of its not going to work.  Had 3 "dates" for tonight all fall out when the girls see my picture and cancel or decided they don't really want to go through with the blind date.  The only way real blind dating would work would be with no pictures, no info, just a location/time and then it lets you chat on your phone 20 mins before so you can find each other.

What happened to that fine young asian girl in that picture you posted?

lol, that's one of my best friends.  She's taken :P

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« Reply #2905 on: January 18, 2013, 10:36:42 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.  With online dating I find so many times that you hit it off with your initial message, then spend a day or two or three messaging and things seem good, and then you go on a date a few days later and there's no chemistry, no interest at all.  At least with blind dating you find out right away if there's any interest on either side.

I forget which pop psych guy they were interviewing on NPR  (:tophat) but he was saying pretty much this.  All the different variables (occupation, interests, looks) mean very little when it comes to the psychology of who we click with, so dating sites are inherently broken when it comes to "matches".  I guess it's kind of an obvious point but yea.

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« Reply #2906 on: January 18, 2013, 10:45:48 PM »
I dunno, when I run into a random person in the street, more often than not I find I enjoy talking with them and sometimes meet cool people.  With online dating I find so many times that you hit it off with your initial message, then spend a day or two or three messaging and things seem good, and then you go on a date a few days later and there's no chemistry, no interest at all.  At least with blind dating you find out right away if there's any interest on either side.

But yeah, their version of its not going to work.  Had 3 "dates" for tonight all fall out when the girls see my picture and cancel or decided they don't really want to go through with the blind date.  The only way real blind dating would work would be with no pictures, no info, just a location/time and then it lets you chat on your phone 20 mins before so you can find each other.

What happened to that fine young asian girl in that picture you posted?

lol, that's one of my best friends.  She's taken :P

"Taken" as in married? Don't friendzone yourself too early, now  :P

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« Reply #2907 on: January 18, 2013, 11:11:18 PM »
I'm having shitty luck.  I just can't find any good opportunities anywhere.  At a restaurant, there was this one server chick who had a little "baby fat" (she was in her 20s but you know what I mean) but with nice (read: big) cans.  Since hitting on people in the service industry is pretty lecherous if you're a customer, I had to hold off but she was pretty much my type.  Then that one chick I hit it off with at work but can't date due to HR policies (I blame Devolution's people) was walking around with some kind of ultratight getup.  She stopped by my office to flirt around and I had to try my hardest not to look her tits.

These days I just jack it to lots and lots of porn to ward off the tension.  This is what it must feel like to be a gaffer.  No wonder they're so outraged at everything.
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« Reply #2908 on: January 19, 2013, 01:55:46 AM »
Hey, don't feel bad EXP and Bebpuu~, I haven't really had much going on with dating myself, since the last time I posted in this thread... sending out messages here and there, but it never goes anywhere, the conversation always dies down. Thought I had one that was a good match - a Jewish girl from Queens who had near-identikit taste in movies and asked me if I knew Katamari (what, me, be into niche Japanese games?)... but then I haven't heard from her in like a week. Some Chinese girl who is a foreign exchange student here at Stony Brook (state school near my house, where most students are asian or indian) gave me her # but he pic is blurry and hard to make out so I don't know what I'm gonna get... plus if our emails are anything to go by she sounds like she is quite fobby.. perhaps I'll give her a call tomorrow and see if she's around.

When I finish the last of the unpacking and I beat Persona 4 ( :lol ), I'm gonna try my luck at Match again. I figure this would be a good time to start, with v-day coming up and all :P

Watching the geek love video again makes me upset that things never really went anywhere with Brittany. Especially now that I have friends on FB who have seen that video and asked me if I still see her :P
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« Reply #2909 on: January 19, 2013, 03:09:54 AM »
Hey, don't feel bad EXP and Bebpuu~, I haven't really had much going on with dating myself, since the last time I posted in this thread... sending out messages here and there, but it never goes anywhere, the conversation always dies down. Thought I had one that was a good match - a Jewish girl from Queens who had near-identikit taste in movies and asked me if I knew Katamari (what, me, be into niche Japanese games?)... but then I haven't heard from her in like a week. Some Chinese girl who is a foreign exchange student here at Stony Brook (state school near my house, where most students are asian or indian) gave me her # but he pic is blurry and hard to make out so I don't know what I'm gonna get... plus if our emails are anything to go by she sounds like she is quite fobby.. perhaps I'll give her a call tomorrow and see if she's around.

When I finish the last of the unpacking and I beat Persona 4 ( :lol ), I'm gonna try my luck at Match again. I figure this would be a good time to start, with v-day coming up and all :P

Watching the geek love video again makes me upset that things never really went anywhere with Brittany. Especially now that I have friends on FB who have seen that video and asked me if I still see her :P

After seeing that episode you posted, tiesto...did any alarm bells go off in your head during the date? Something about her in the video, and the libertarian thing, and the flakiness with returning texts...it's just a gut feeling, but maybe you dodged a bullet on this one after all.

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« Reply #2910 on: January 20, 2013, 10:05:15 AM »
First-time poster, long-time listener. Pretty much for all of 2012 I was getting over a two-and-a-half year relationship. This year I'm all but over it and truly meeting women again. I asked a really pretty girl out today!
She works at a bakery near me, and so I went and got a blueberry muffin and a roll. After I paid, I gave her some nice flowers with a note attached that says, "Hi, I'm $$$. I would love to get something to eat with you sometime." She's just my type, dark, pretty face, thick brunette curls, beautiful eyes and smile, the pure kind where you can just tell he or she is a good person. Gonna roll by next weekend and see if she's game. Trying to bring something positive to the 'bore.  :burgerking

Oh, the reason I didn't try to get it all done on the spot was it's a busy bakery, and more than one girl works the counter at any given time. There were three today, and I was lucky to draw her! There were customers waiting after me too, so tried to hasten it up a bit, just told her that these were for her, she said thank you and gave me a kind of flustered half-smile, I said of course and smiled back and walked out the door. I hope it was endearing.

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« Reply #2911 on: January 20, 2013, 07:32:44 PM »
Damn, that's slick.  I'm totally gonna start introducing myself as "$$$".
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« Reply #2912 on: January 20, 2013, 08:42:53 PM »
 :lol :lol :lol
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« Reply #2913 on: January 20, 2013, 08:59:30 PM »
Girls are a waste of time.. I'ma go play some MMOs or something  :'(

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« Reply #2914 on: January 21, 2013, 12:06:57 AM »
Never give up

Had a bit of a weird weekend. My best (female) friend invited me to dinner so we could catch up. I made some baked ziti lol and we had a good time. I got the impression she was subtlely trying to prompt me to make a move, and I kind of just pretended I didn't realize what was going on. A few weeks ago I told Wrath that I planned on finally admitting that I like her, and seeing where she wants it to go; she's liked me for some time, I turned her down twice in the past (high school era, basically) but we have really moved apart over the last few years. I probably should have done something.
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« Reply #2915 on: January 21, 2013, 02:10:26 AM »
I'm not giving up but I'm not looking actively either.  About twice a year I'll look actively for a couple of months and sometimes that'll lead to something.  The rest of the time I don't think about it or let it bother me and nothing really happens. 

One difference between this year and previous years is that I have a handful of female friends for the first time in my life.  But they're taken, or I'm not interested, or I've asked them out and been turned down; so I don't know if that necessarily changes the dynamic or chances this year.  It has however at least made me more comfortable talking with the opposite sex casually since I do it all the time now.  But meeting people of the opposite sex to get into those conversations outside of meeting through online dating is still at a rarity.  And honestly I don't think online will ever lead to anything.  I don't want to sound too shallow, but because of my height, attractiveness, flirting ability or something, the only girls online who actually show up on real actual dates in person with me are stocky overweight girls and since I work out and try to keep myself in decent shape, for a long term relationship I'd rather date someone who tries to stay in at least "ok" shape as well.
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« Reply #2916 on: January 21, 2013, 02:24:28 AM »
Also there's been a recent trend in that every girl I go on dates with/hook up with from online dating's idea of a good time is to go back to their place and smoke weed with their weed buddies.

Now I've got nothing against the 420 and people who smoke it.  But it's not something I dig and I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who smoked like EVERY DAY.  Once and a while is fine, but yeah, maybe I'm just having bad luck but I'm feeling like every girl age 25-30 who is online dating is a pothead these days and that's :\ for me.
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« Reply #2917 on: January 21, 2013, 02:45:56 AM »
Also there's been a recent trend in that every girl I go on dates with/hook up with from online dating's idea of a good time is to go back to their place and smoke weed with their weed buddies.

Now I've got nothing against the 420 and people who smoke it.  But it's not something I dig and I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who smoked like EVERY DAY.  Once and a while is fine, but yeah, maybe I'm just having bad luck but I'm feeling like every girl age 25-30 who is online dating is a pothead these days and that's :\ for me.

I agree 100%

The plus side is that those chicks tend to be rather fun. But if you're looking for anything meaningful, it's the wrong scene to be in.
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« Reply #2918 on: January 21, 2013, 04:07:21 AM »
So like, what's the consensus on getting involved with someone that you live with? I know it's generally considered to be a bad idea... One of my new flat-mates is pretty cute and I'm sure she has a bit of a thing for me. Kinda getting mixed messages from her, though she is (usually) really friendly with me, and she does glance at me a lot. Can't resist her English accent, goddam.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2919 on: January 21, 2013, 04:24:40 AM »
If you're cool with maybe having to move out if things go wrong, great. Otherwise probably not a great idea.

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« Reply #2920 on: January 21, 2013, 04:54:07 AM »
I'd say probably its a good idea.

You're young, enjoy that. Shit goes wrong who cares. You'll look back at it and laugh.

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« Reply #2921 on: January 21, 2013, 05:26:04 AM »
If you're cool with maybe having to move out if things go wrong, great. Otherwise probably not a great idea.

Yea, that's pretty much what I was thinking.

I'd say probably its a good idea.

You're young, enjoy that. Shit goes wrong who cares. You'll look back at it and laugh.

Also true... Oh well, I'm going to a Mount Eerie concert next month. Ground zero for cute hipster girls.  :pimp

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« Reply #2922 on: January 21, 2013, 05:30:19 AM »
Look you think youll ever look back on this in 20 years when youre a crustean and think "oh man Im so happy I didnt bang that cute housemate back when I was 20".

Unless she gives you crabs or warts.

Or her boyfriend calls you up and tells you he will kill you.

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« Reply #2923 on: January 21, 2013, 05:35:25 AM »
You've given me a lot to think about duder (Her facebook relationship status is single, that's good enough for me.)

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« Reply #2924 on: January 21, 2013, 11:34:17 AM »
Also true... Oh well, I'm going to a Mount Eerie concert next month. Ground zero for cute hipster girls.  :pimp

I find a lot of hipster girls cute (especially those who go for the Zooey Deschanel look with thick-rimmed glasses and bangs), but for some reason I always bomb TERRIBLY with them. I have better luck with guidettes for chrissakes  :-\

Anyways pickle, go for it as long as you can handle some awkwardness if things don't work out entirely, or as long as you don't mind moving if shit REALLY hits the fan..
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Barry Egan

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2925 on: January 21, 2013, 11:37:07 AM »
you're not ironic or pretentious, so it kind of makes sense why you would bomb with hipsters. 

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2927 on: January 21, 2013, 12:39:00 PM »
Never give up

Had a bit of a weird weekend. My best (female) friend invited me to dinner so we could catch up. I made some baked ziti lol and we had a good time. I got the impression she was subtlely trying to prompt me to make a move, and I kind of just pretended I didn't realize what was going on. A few weeks ago I told Wrath that I planned on finally admitting that I like her, and seeing where she wants it to go; she's liked me for some time, I turned her down twice in the past (high school era, basically) but we have really moved apart over the last few years. I probably should have done something.

I can't believe you give people relationship advice. :lol

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2928 on: January 21, 2013, 01:20:20 PM »
this girl has given me the run around for 2 years now. shes very friendly to me and everything, she even flirts and brings up super sexual topics like what kind of nips she has (she did this the other day) and im not even that interested in her, but whenever I offer to hang out with her as a friend its always "yes" and then when it's time to go she cancels. then she'll make no hesitation of telling me how she's hanging out with some other random guys tho. oh she swings the other way btw. so i dont really know what her deal is. am i being used as a "emotional tampon"? I have never made any indication that I dig her but i've heard from several people that she had a crush on me when we worked together over the summer. it just sucks cuz shes genionely a cool person and i miss my friend please help. I dont mind being there to listen to her and talk about music and shit but I dont understand why she doesnt want to hangout ever. I imagine if she was getting creeped out she wouldve stopped talking to me after I asked her to hang out but for what its worth I NEVER start talking to her shes always igniting conversation via facebook or text message, so I just assume that shes still in love with me and afraid shell make do on those actions if we ever did hang out or thats my confidence playing off my weakness ugh please help
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2929 on: January 21, 2013, 02:28:16 PM »
Maybe she's just a flake? 

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« Reply #2930 on: January 21, 2013, 02:47:45 PM »
i hope so. she has some negative...past history with men so i dont blame her for flaking, it just hurts to want to hang out and she says no only for her to go a week later "oh im hanging out with blah blah blah" its like...ok thanks.
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2931 on: January 21, 2013, 02:49:18 PM »
I could never have sex with a female roommate, because if the sex sucks or she becomes really clingy afterwords, then you have nowhere to go. It becomes a coyote in a beartrap situation.


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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2932 on: January 27, 2013, 09:59:33 PM »
Does okcupid actually work?

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2933 on: January 27, 2013, 10:17:09 PM »
I live in a rural area with a very sparse selection of girls so I haven't had much success with OKC but according to your Bore profile you live in Chi-Town so your chances of finding someone with similar interests are definitely greater.

Also, I've seen your pic and you're not ugly or bald so you have that advantage as well. Haha.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2934 on: January 27, 2013, 10:23:18 PM »
Not bald yet.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2935 on: January 27, 2013, 10:45:05 PM »
Rax, just barely.

this girl has given me the run around for 2 years now. shes very friendly to me and everything, she even flirts and brings up super sexual topics like what kind of nips she has (she did this the other day) and im not even that interested in her, but whenever I offer to hang out with her as a friend its always "yes" and then when it's time to go she cancels. then she'll make no hesitation of telling me how she's hanging out with some other random guys tho. oh she swings the other way btw. so i dont really know what her deal is. am i being used as a "emotional tampon"? I have never made any indication that I dig her but i've heard from several people that she had a crush on me when we worked together over the summer. it just sucks cuz shes genionely a cool person and i miss my friend please help. I dont mind being there to listen to her and talk about music and shit but I dont understand why she doesnt want to hangout ever. I imagine if she was getting creeped out she wouldve stopped talking to me after I asked her to hang out but for what its worth I NEVER start talking to her shes always igniting conversation via facebook or text message, so I just assume that shes still in love with me and afraid shell make do on those actions if we ever did hang out or thats my confidence playing off my weakness ugh please help

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2936 on: January 27, 2013, 11:22:25 PM »
Does okcupid actually work?

One of my friends met his fiancee off of it, and another friend met a woman 15 years his senior that he's been dating for about 2 years off of it... I've had plenty of dates but none went past 2-3 dates... yet. I've definitely had more success off Match, since OKC is free the girls tend to be a lot more flaky/picky. It's worth a shot though.

Talking to this Chinese/Italian girl who seems really awesome. She's pretty cute and she had a pic of her in her halloween costume as Sonikku. :sonic
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2937 on: January 29, 2013, 04:04:36 AM »
I crushed on someone for months, but got turned down because of an extended work trip they had to take to Chicago. I agree to date some kid who hasn't turned 20 yet, things escalate quickly, and the next thing I know I get a message from the Chicago person asking if I wanna go out next week. And if that wasn't ironic enough, a third person I had a thing for (who works at my neighborhood supermarket) but never interacted with beside a friendly smile, adds me on facebook out of nowhere a few hours later, and starts flirting.

I'm flattered and all, where the fuck were those two just a few days ago?
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2938 on: January 29, 2013, 04:05:16 AM »
shut up, gays love sex
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: The thread of your life tied into a neat knot with the 'other'
« Reply #2939 on: January 29, 2013, 04:10:31 AM »
Shaka reminds me of Charlie Runkle from Californication and his gayjent arc.