O SNAP
Livejournal time.
I hung out with the same family acquaintances today, and I made a legitimate attempt to mingle, but it's hopeless. I've never met a social circle so obsessed with material items and money. One of their daughters is thinking about using her considerable savings to go to Europe and finish her MBA in London, and was basically laughed out of the room ("What good would going to Europe do for your life lol u loser?").
Also, one of the family friend's sons is big into film and we started to chat it up. I let him know what I'm doing, and said if something breaks, I'd see if I could help him. I already told him I'd give him a contact at Sony to pitch his stuff to. I was then told by my folks that could
never happen, because it could lead to him not getting a degree and his parents would be angry at my parents. (wtf?)
It's all so fucking ridiculous. Everyone was talking about country clubs, golf trips, evil socialist government, new cars, etc. The kids that want real life experience and want to chase their dreams were tirelessly mocked. What a vapid fucking existence.
Then I tried to make a
legitimate effort to be nice from the daughter from last night, and she twisted everything that came out of my mouth to be some kind of personal insult. I mean, no offense, those who know me will say I have no problem being sarcastic and sharp to the point where it hurts, so if I'm not trying, wait until you see me go full throttle. I was raised with Jews, and have formed a tough skin as a result. Divas can fuck off.
... So tonight pretty much sucked. And worst of all, it left a pretty bad impression of my mom. I've known this woman, and she's struggled the vast majority of her life. She knows what it's like to live in a car. But she gets a cushy job and marries a pretty well-off guy, and they fabricate this alternate reality that is made up of degrees, money, stock options, tee times and status symbols (one of the wives got an anniversary ring that someone could buy a house with). And then they insulate it with friends of similar mindsets.
I know my mom has longed for more - she came from a bunch of broke Midwestern baptists in the middle of nowhere that were happy just to graduate high school and work minimum wage jobs every day of their life to provide for their family - but it's like she's lost all contact with her roots.