RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011

[team filler]

white dick sandwich 

[Atramental]

White dick in her white taco 

[HardcoreRetro]

Make sure to jingle her bells.

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[BIONIC]

Guys, Yukiko said she loves me TWICE

Then we had a hard hugging sesh.

Things are looking pretty good 

[MMaRsu]

Lol this girl is straight up refusing to not talk to me anymore?

I've told her in at least two messages, hey if you don't wanna hang out anymore just say so and I'll delete your number from my phone. It's all good, I would totally understand that decision.

She just talks around it or something like I didn't even say it wtf.

Why is she doing this?

In my previous msg to her I said the same. I said I acted like a fucking idiot and that I would totally respect her not wanting to hang out anymore. She responded " It was very sweet of you to bring those flowers over to my work, and your kind words up here ( whatsapp msg ) ,  you do have a way with words haha. I don't know what to say.. "

[Atramental]

Dude. Stop talking to her. 

She’s probably too afraid to say no for fear that you’re gonna sneak into her room at night and choke her out.

[Rahxephon91]

Why are you doing this?

[seagrams hotsauce]

jesus christ dude drop this shit already

[MMaRsu]

Why are you doing this?

I had already deleted her nr from my phone after I sent my last msg sunday.

She replied yesterday.

I told her literally in my reply " If you don't know what to say why don't you just say .. Hey it's been nice and you're sweet but let's just leave things like this. I would understand and respect that. "

She just ignores it

Brehs I had already deleted her nr on sunday. She is the one who is txting me. I don't even know WHY except to thank me for the flowers. All I wanted to ask yall is why the f is she still txting me?

Also I had a job interview today and met an amazing chick  . She was also interviewing for the job and we talked a bit afterwards. She was taken tho Obviously.. girl had like 10 tats and a nose ring mhhhhhh she was hot af

[BlueTsunami]

Say it with us, MM, she is



Don't take on unearned baggage

[MMaRsu]

Yeah sure bro's no worries. Like I said I had already deleted her nr and whatsapp convo off my phone on sunday. I made peace with the fact that I fucked it up and this thing isn't gonna happen. That's after I brought those flowers to her by the way. It was a last ditch effort to showcase that I'm actually a pretty nice guy.

So yea deleted her nr. I just don't understand her txting me but whatevs.

[BlueTsunami]

I just don't understand her txting me but whatevs.

Shes probably very aware of your concerns. Most likely she just wants a text buddy to unload her day to day concerns.

[MMaRsu]

Why wont she just answer my question that I said in my previous txt to her saying " hey if you dont wanna hang out anymore that's cool, I can totally respect that. Just say so and you won't hear from me again . "

Dumb fucking.... 

How hard is it to say if I even typed it out for her lol. OH WELL fugget about it HAA?

[shosta]

Because it's extremely intense and weird.

[Mupepe]

probably because she is scared. Quit trying to figure it out and take the hint. She also didn’t say “oh no. I want to keep talking to you”. Read between the lines. Jesus.

[MMaRsu]

Because it's extremely intense and weird.

Wtf?

How is it extremely weird and intense to tell someone " hey lets not see eachother again "

[MMaRsu]

probably because she is scared. Quit trying to figure it out and take the hint. She also didn’t say “oh no. I want to keep talking to you”. Read between the lines. Jesus.

I have given her zero reason to be scared. I havent contacted her since sunday. I gave her those flowers and a hug and I left when I brought those flowers. She didn't seem scared at all. Why would she allow me to bring her flowers at a workplace where she is all by herself if she is scared?

I don't mind not meeting up with her anymore. I had already accepted that fact. I just want her to be straight up and honest? Not sure wtf is weird about that.

Why would she even message me saying it was sweet of me to bring her flowers and that I have a way with words... if she was scared?

Mupepe that shit doesn't make a lick of sense.

[Mupepe]

Why are you trying to figure it out? You were creepy. You may have thought she reacted normally to it because you seem to be oblivious in regards to normal interactions. Who cares if she texted you? If she was actually into you still you would know it. That’s all you need to know.

[Nabbis]

Alright, tell us the truth. Did you hide her in the fridge and are now having some form of psychosis where you imagine what would have happened if you didn't do it? That would explain... everything. 

[MMaRsu]

I'm not saying she's still into me  . I wasn't that creepy.

I never said she reacted normally. She was surprised that I actually went and brought her flowers, I told her listen I've been an idiot so this is for you.
She said something like haha wow really.. she said she didn't know what to say that she was a bit flabbergasted. I said ok well imma give you a hug and I'm going :p. And that's what I did. After that she did say that it took guts to actually do bring her flowers at work.

I am just trying to figure out why she just won't say hey let's leave things at this. And instead of doing that, she is txting me.

So I'm not saying that I want advice about this, since y'all are being pretty judgemental. All I'm saying is that I don't 'get' why she is beating around the bush. I gave her so many outs yet she continues to contact me. That's why I am confused .

[shosta]

Wtf?

How is it extremely weird and intense to tell someone " hey lets not see eachother again "

You're doing an ugly psychological trick where you feel rejected by someone and so you're racing to reject them first. This sublimates as a seemingly paradoxical action where you're demanding interaction from someone to confirm you two aren't interacting anymore. If you were really ready to move on, you wouldn't be doing that, so really this is a last ditch attempt to get any kind of recognition from her at all while also saving face on your end.

[Nabbis]

If you want a honest answer then she might be on a scale from "fucked up in the head" to "think you are creepy to the point where she is afraid to say no". Judging by this thread, im leaning a little more to the latter but who the hell knows and it's a lost cause anyway.

[shosta]

Another thing to consider from her point of view is that if you're the kind of person who would show up to her work with flowers after one date, imagine what you'll do when you're flat out rejected. Gradual de-escalation is an attempt on her part to avoid you doing something insane.

Honestly, you should be ashamed that you made someone feel like that.

[MMaRsu]

Wtf?

How is it extremely weird and intense to tell someone " hey lets not see eachother again "

You're doing an ugly psychological trick where you feel rejected by someone and so you're racing to reject them first. This sublimates as a seemingly paradoxical action where you're demanding interaction from someone to confirm you two aren't interacting anymore. If you were really ready to move on, you wouldn't be doing that, so really this is a last ditch attempt to get any kind of recognition from her at all while also saving face on your end.

How is it a psychological trick  . Are you fucking kidding me. All I said was " Listen I acted like a fucking idiot. So if you don't wanna meet up anymore that's cool, just say so, I would totally understand it.. "

This is just a normal message, no psychological tricks involved but ok sure mr armchair psychologist.

She said she didnt want to meet up again because she thought I was into choking sex. I told her in the letter and on whatsapp that that's not the case. I also told her listen I would totally get it if you dont wanna meet up anymore but really I'm not that strange or into any of that crazy shit.

[MMaRsu]

Another thing to consider from her point of view is that if you're the kind of person who would show up to her work with flowers after one date, imagine what you'll do when you're flat out rejected. Gradual de-escalation is an attempt on her part to avoid you doing something insane.

Honestly, you should be ashamed that you made someone feel like that.

Gtfo 

Ya. Flowers are so fucking creepy. Nevermind giving someone flowers in an attempt to fix a dumb fucking comment.

[team filler]

everyone here probably projecting too much onto mmars situation based on limited information from message board posts.

[shosta]

She said she didnt want to meet up again because she thought I was into choking sex. I told her in the letter and on whatsapp that that's not the case. I also told her listen I would totally get it if you dont wanna meet up anymore but really I'm not that strange or into any of that crazy shit.

I haven't been keeping up with the thread but, wow, I'm impressed with just how far you were able to escalate what should have been a casual sequence of interactions. Listen to the people in this thread and pay attention to how this person is reacting to you. You are a tightly wound bundle of neuroses and I would advise every woman to stay away from you until you learn how to not trigger women's survival instincts. Or my own.

[MMaRsu]

Ok sure bro, you dont know a fucking thing about me though.

[shosta]

I know that everything you post about this one person is behaviorally abnormal and that you're hyper defensive.

[MMaRsu]

I havent been keeping up with the thread but let me just make assumptions based on a few posts and tell someone that they are creepy and neurotic.

Hmmmk then 

[I'm a Puppy!]

Holy Crap. Every time I'm like "Surely, Kermit is gonna stop there and it's done." He's like

[I'm a Puppy!]

We should exclude Mupepe as well. Sorry, that's not fair to the rest of us mortals.

[CatsCatsCats]

Sounds fun let’s play

[I'm a Puppy!]

[MMaRsu]

Holy Crap. Every time I'm like "Surely, Kermit is gonna stop there and it's done." He's like
(Image removed from quote.)

But then again I didn't initiate contact in this instance.

[BlueTsunami]

MM you def need to walk back the intensity. Maybe what youre doing would work in the movies or a really hopeless romantic female but the majority will find it off puting. I k ow it sounds impossible but you need to feel less, at least initially. Keep the grand gestures in your back pocket and save it for someone you know for sure deserves and it and will appreciate it.

[MMaRsu]

I've never given flowers to a girl after a first date. I've never went to a girls work to bring her said flowers. I've never asked a girl before if she was ever choked during sex.

Im sorry bro's I already know I fucked up. I acted like a fucking moron because I really think I had a major crush on this girl after our date.

Dont worry about my intensity :p. I know I fucked up. It was a last ditch effort though, since I thought fuck it I've already fucked it up anyway, no harm no foul to bring her flowers and say I'm sorry for being a fucking moron.

The thing is, when I like a girl I do get caught up in my feelings. My last girlfriend was such a fucking bore and annoyingness that honestly this girl seems like a dream come true. But the problem was with her that from the initial date even though we made out and everything, I never got that feeling I got like I did after this date. So I guess I never really liked her all that much.

Dont worry about me and/or this girl. I went into the city today for a job interview and saw plenty of amazing women, who also looked at me with a smile 

[BIONIC]

Rise-chan is one thirsty ass hoe, me likey 

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[I'm a Puppy!]

No. Don't give up, Kramit!

Send her this


Then follow up with this



Pls post results.

[Rufus]

Collect no pussy, skip straight to messy break-up.

[Rahxephon91]

Hey man it’s like Assi says “women are irrational”.

That chick I went on a date randomly messaged me last Saturday night because she came across some Evangelion vhs.

And then today she matched with me on Tinder.
 Like wtf

[BisMarckie]

That would be the first time in history someone would get laid because of anime.

[Rahxephon91]

You’ve never been to an anime convention.

[Assimilate]

Hey man it’s like Assi says “women are irrational”.

That chick I went on a date randomly messaged me last Saturday night because she came across some Evangelion vhs.

And then today she matched with me on Tinder.
 Like wtf

That is all the more reason to stay silent half the time and go with the flow. Don't speak so much, let her speak. Let her ramble. Just get your dick in. That should be your goal from the beginning.

I know it's such a fuckboy thing to do but it's the best route to take, always.

[Rufus]

That would be the first time in history someone would get laid because of anime.

Anime cons are apparently prime breeding grounds. And I can see it, too. People from all over, having chatted on IRC Dicord for a year+, finally meet and, crucially, don't have to see one another after a couple days? You can count on most groins to be freshly shaved for the occasion.

[Raist]

Lol this girl is straight up refusing to not talk to me anymore?

I've told her in at least two messages, hey if you don't wanna hang out anymore just say so and I'll delete your number from my phone. It's all good, I would totally understand that decision.

She just talks around it or something like I didn't even say it wtf.

Why is she doing this?

In my previous msg to her I said the same. I said I acted like a fucking idiot and that I would totally respect her not wanting to hang out anymore. She responded " It was very sweet of you to bring those flowers over to my work, and your kind words up here ( whatsapp msg ) ,  you do have a way with words haha. I don't know what to say.. "

Ask her if it means she reconsidered the whole choking thing.

[MMaRsu]

Meh dont have her nr anymore, again.

[Rahxephon91]

Lol we’re you going to ask if you did?

[Valkyrie]

We all know he would.

[Raist]

Meh dont have her nr anymore, again.

You know where she works. And lives.


Do it.

[MMaRsu]

lol  im not trying to get a restraining order

[team filler]

buy her a cute choker as a gift 

[MMaRsu]

Haha yeah but it doesnt work in dutch

[BlueTsunami]

That would be the first time in history someone would get laid because of anime.

Anime cons are apparently prime breeding grounds. And I can see it, too. People from all over, having chatted on IRC Dicord for a year+, finally meet and, crucially, don't have to see one another after a couple days? You can count on most groins to be freshly shaved for the occasion.

If instagram is any indication these things are full of fucking hot weebs that cosplay. Of course theres 20 monsters for every hot cosplayer but still. I will not subject myself to being an anime poser just for access. I will not. I will... not 

[Atramental]

Before my cosplay “friends” exiled me I remember them talking about “con funk” (as in the smell).

And that alone has dissuaded me from ever going to a cosplay convention.

Not to mention how fucking immature they all were. Bunch of adult babies. 

[BlueTsunami]

https://instagram.com/blackberrytea?utm_source=ig_profile_share&igshid=1hggvoe15tbxq

 

[Atramental]

I’d smell her con funk if yah get what I’m slinging.

[Rahxephon91]

Whatever

[BlueTsunami]

White girls with big butts are the 8th Wonder of the World