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[Straight Edge]

We don't feel sexual attraction, it doesn't mean we can't have sex, be into kink, make dirty jokes, fap, watch adult videos, etc etc etc. I'm tired of being treated like it's as simple as not having sex.

 

[TVC15]

So is there really a difference between asexual people that are still apparently into relationships and just having a low sex drive? Is “low sex drive” now considered a slur or offensive?

[HaughtyFrank]

So is there really a difference between asexual people that are still apparently into relationships and just having a low sex drive? Is “low sex drive” now considered a slur or offensive?

Everything needs to be a label. If your sexuality doesn't have a flag you're not cool

[Straight Edge]

https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-asexual#desire-vs-attraction

Similarly, many asexual people still have a libido and might experience sexual desire. So, asexual people might still masturbate or have sex.

 

[Boredfrom]

There are many reasons why an asexual person might want to have sex. For example:

to satisfy their libido
to conceive children
to make their partner happy
to experience the physical pleasure of sex
to show and receive affection
for the sensual pleasure of sex, including touching and cuddling
Of course, some asexual people have little to no sex drive or sexual desire — and that’s also okay! Asexuality means different things to different people.

Maybe should use another term, then.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

There are many reasons why an asexual person might want to have sex. For example:

to satisfy their libido
to conceive children
to make their partner happy
to experience the physical pleasure of sex
to show and receive affection
for the sensual pleasure of sex, including touching and cuddling
Of course, some asexual people have little to no sex drive or sexual desire — and that’s also okay! Asexuality means different things to different people.

Maybe should use another term, then.

from what they've said, the adjective "Lazy" springs to mind

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

Guess DC is full of dinosaurs, then. Kowtow away.

DISNEYS MARVEL WOULD NEVER CAPITULATE

[TVC15]

To be 100% on the level with you guys, as a career homosexual I thought asexuality just meant people with no sex drive—people uninterested in sex. Is this “low sex drive” definition feature creep or has that always been part of it?

I also have to say as a career homosexual that I’ve never actually met an identifying asexual in real life.

[Boredfrom]

Healthline has strict sourcing guidelines and relies on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutions, and medical associations. We avoid using tertiary references. You can learn more about how we ensure our content is accurate and current by reading our editorial policy.
Bauer C, et al. (2017). The 2015 asexual census summary report.
asexualcensus.files.wordpress.com/2017/10/2015_ace_census_summary_report.pdf
Demisexual. (2019).
wiki.asexuality.org/Sexual_orientation
General FAQ. (n.d.).
asexuality.org/?q=general.html
Pasquier M. (2018). Explore the spectrum: Guide to finding your ace community.
glaad.org/amp/ace-guide-finding-your-community
Queerplatonic. (2019).
wiki.asexuality.org/Queerplatonic
Medically reviewed by Janet Brito, PhD, LCSW, CST on September 18, 2019 — Written by Sian Ferguson

 

[Pissy F Benny]

To be 100% on the level with you guys, as a career homosexual I thought asexuality just meant people with no sex drive—people uninterested in sex. Is this “low sex drive” definition feature creep or has that always been part of it?

I also have to say as a career homosexual that I’ve never actually met an identifying asexual in real life.

Who the fuck knows? It’ll change next week anyway or something new will be added to it to further your confusion 

[nachobro]

To be 100% on the level with you guys, as a career homosexual I thought asexuality just meant people with no sex drive—people uninterested in sex. Is this “low sex drive” definition feature creep or has that always been part of it?

I also have to say as a career homosexual that I’ve never actually met an identifying asexual in real life.

this is also what i thought

[Boredfrom]

Guess DC is full of dinosaurs, then. Kowtow away.

DISNEYS MARVEL WOULD NEVER CAPITULATE

Man, fuck China in any case. Like they care about buying comic books.

[Lonewulfeus]

Posters who eat there should be banned tbh.  Financial support of companies that support hate groups seems like it’d be against TOS.

Do it

[BisMarckie]

Report to your local mod captain if you see a person eating there.

[Hermit]

The saddest place on the internet

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

I continue to be amused that chinas biggest social media site is weeabo

[Pissy F Benny]

Imagine the  if someone on era caught their one of family or friends there   

I Caught My Other Half Eating At Chick Fil A, Have I Been Accidentally Dating Hitler? 

[Lonewulfeus]

Imagine the  if someone on era caught their one of family or friends there 

I Caught My Other Half Eating At Chick Fil A, Have I Been Accidentally Dating Hitler? 

They just had that thread yesterday or the day before

[TVC15]

People talk about the struggles asexual people go through all the time, but nobody ever mentions the problems non-asexuals have...

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

I bet there are some famous people around here. Even if they're just reading and not posting anything.
One I suspect very heavily is Henry Cavill. He's such an avid gamer that I can't imagine that he's never been here.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

nothing an avid gamer likes more than constantly hearing what a massive hate fuelled incel alt-right nazi cunt they are

[HaughtyFrank]

You can be in the mood without feeling sexual attraction to people. Or get yourself in the mood. Sometimes it's just random and sometimes it's situational but it doesn't necessarily require you to feel sexual attraction towards people in order to feel arousal.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/asexuality-and-discrimination.155740/post-26896277

I think we call that horny

[BisMarckie]

Regarding demisexuals, isn't the definition something that like 85% of the population would agree on?

[TVC15]

Regarding demisexuals, isn't the definition something that like 85% of the population would agree on?

I think these modern definitions have taken into consideration porn warp. To today’s idiots, if you don’t want to have sex as frequently as a porn star, you’re demisexual. If only 90+% of your waking time is spent seeking sex, you’re asexual.

[Lonewulfeus]

Yeah, there are no bigots, or clueless morons who buy in to the endless free PR by bigots for this place, in liberal cities. That's why blue as can be NYC has no issues with bigotry.



With this company, they've made it crystal clear. It's why people are so upset, usually they can downplay or say they didn't know.

It’s Thanksgiving, don’t you have a family to disappoint?

[Lonewulfeus]

Regarding demisexuals, isn't the definition something that like 85% of the population would agree on?

I thought demisexual meant that you’d totally bang Demi Moore? 

[TVC15]

Regarding demisexuals, isn't the definition something that like 85% of the population would agree on?

I thought demisexual meant that you’d totally bang Demi Moore? 

She has the face of a little boy, but when has that ever been a problem amongst the NeoGaf family of forums?

[Lonewulfeus]

Regarding demisexuals, isn't the definition something that like 85% of the population would agree on?

I thought demisexual meant that you’d totally bang Demi Moore? 

She has the face of a little boy, but when has that ever been a problem amongst the NeoGaf family of forums?

(Image removed from quote.)

 

[ShutUp]

Posters who eat there should be banned tbh.  Financial support of companies that support hate groups seems like it’d be against TOS.

Soooo that means ban everyone there who has seen Marvel movies or watched their shows since Ike Perlmutter is besties with Trump.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

I don't celebrate the colonialist holiday thanksgiving

Ignorance enforces the status quo of the colonialist holiday

you must be a hit at parties.

[TVC15]

That dress is one of the sexiest evar though. It’s from her ep of Tales from the Crypt.

[ShutUp]

I'm sure Henry Cavill would love to chat with people who endlessly repeat how he ruined Superman forever for them. Ignoring of course that it never seemed like he was 100% on board with the direction Snyder was going with the character.

[Lonewulfeus]

Henry Cavill message me on Reeeee I’ll put in a good word for you here at the bire

[benjipwns]

Henry Cavill is already cancelled on ResetERA.com for downplaying rape or whatever.

[Lonewulfeus]

Exactly. When are the mods going to make good on their promises to the queer Era community and back up that shit up with actions. We still haven’t seen a response to last weeks drama. People aren’t feeling anymore welcome and I’m still seeing these basic ass threads by straight people who have no issues supporting this trash company.

[OnlyRegret]

Regarding demisexuals, isn't the definition something that like 85% of the population would agree on?

Basically.
Some of these are just special snowflake tags.

[benjipwns]

more learning opportunities for you sex-obsessed bigots who refuse to understand the queer ace spectrum:
https://twitter.com/elriswrId/status/1199451125705052160

Also for TVC, the bad vibes thread has a guy transforming himself into a bimbo:

I just want to (permanently) lose my burden of intelligence, and there are few ways to do that effectively / quickly.

[Lonewulfeus]

I hope the next meeting between TransERA and the mods deals with the very real issue of all these nazis trolling the LGBT community with there choice of fast food restaurant.  I propose they come up with a list of vetted and approved restaurants for members to choose from.

[Don Rumata]

What's the right wing analog to "slacktavism"? Cause that's what flexing your Conservative views by eating fried chicken is called.

I think it's called "just another excuse to stuff my hole with fried food".

[benjipwns]

I hope that the moderators work to protect the marginalized community from the violence of people playing and supporting bigoted gaming companies like THQNordic, CDProjektRED, Blizzard and Nintendo. Only protecting them in fast food threads on one side of the forum is basically not protecting them at all. I don't know how anyone could feel safe knowing all of that was still happening after years upon years of this shit already.

And all while Ketkat has abandoned them.

[ShutUp]

Exactly. When are the mods going to make good on their promises to the queer Era community and back up that shit up with actions. We still haven’t seen a response to last weeks drama. People aren’t feeling anymore welcome and I’m still seeing these basic ass threads by straight people who have no issues supporting this trash company.

They already got a gay black man removed from the mod team and still aren't happy 

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

What's the right wing analog to "slacktavism"? Cause that's what flexing your Conservative views by eating fried chicken is called.

capitalism?

[Averon]

If they aren't going to ban them outright, people who eat at chik fil a should get a tag so the actual good people here can just put the trash people on auto ignore.

You eat that chicken sandwich, and your ass will get marked 

[BikeJesus]

Yeah, people aren't as slick as they think. Look at how many fucking threads about this fast food place there have been in the last month.

Now on Thanksgiving, while mods are with their families we have yet another thread about Chick Fil A. With the same dog whistles and dumb bullshit as they always contain.

But the forum is going to get better with making sure that the LGBT community feels safe and heard. They just have to wade through the whataboutism, bad faith, JAQing off and the thread a week we can't seem to stop making about a company known for their bigotry.

We get it, you don't care. You'd personally tear up a gay person's marriage certificate if it meant you got to eat one more chicken nugget.

 

[ShutUp]

Now they need protection from...threads about a fast food joint?

Someone needs to seriously drop a picture of Perlmutter shaking hands with Trump in that thread and say "hope you've never seen a Marvel movie, otherwise BIGOT!"

[Averon]

Can't what for the new trend on ResetERA to ban bait users into admitting they ate at Chick-Fil-A or used some product or service from a company that is in the doghouse with LGBT-ERA.

[Nintex]

We get it, you don't care. You'd personally tear up a gay person's marriage certificate if it meant you got to eat one more chicken nugget.

[ShutUp]

This must be how they conjure up all the racism, transphobia etc. that they seem to think is all over the site. Nothing there? Will it into existence.

[Averon]

Funny thing is, LGBT-ERA didn't just get an inch--they got the whole damn football field. Now they are looking about getting the entire stadium and more. And given recent events, there is no reason to believe they won't get what they want and get people banned for admitting to eating at Chick-Fil-A. After all, bad faith actors and gasligthers are around every corner on ERA making it a dangerous hellscape for the LGBT community there.

[Crumb]

So this is how they spend their Thanksgiving.
Jussie Fucking Christ.

[Lonewulfeus]

If they aren't going to ban them outright, people who eat at chik fil a should get a tag so the actual good people here can just put the trash people on auto ignore.

You eat that chicken sandwich, and your ass will get marked 

A scarlet letter for eating at a fast food place 

[Lonewulfeus]

So this is how they spend their Thanksgiving.
Jussie Fucking Christ.

Their families didn’t tell them where Thanksgiving was this year

[Ghoul]

Anyone slammed a relative for being a racist yet?

[clothedmacuser]

People talk about the struggles asexual people go through all the time, but nobody ever mentions the problems non-asexuals have...

Yikes!   Imagine being a person who doesn't get a hard-on from watching that.  Is that even living?

[BisMarckie]

This thread is amazing. 98% of the people commenting in favour of Chick-Fil-A I've never even seen post anywhere else in this forum.

The Russians are at it again.

[HaughtyFrank]

I've got no doubt that there are a small number of assholes who revel in praising CFA for shitty reasons, but equating anyone who enjoys it with a MAGA hat douchebag isn't really acceptable.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-is-chick-fil-a-popular.155785/post-26899921

I was about to say that middleman must be on a list but he's already banned 

edit: it's a perma

User Banned (permanent): Dismissing bigotry, previously banned for the same
It's simply untruthful to suggest that this is organisational policy and you're encouraging people to avoid giving to charity - although it's clear from this thread that many were already doing so - based on this.

Obviously even a single instance of discrimination is awful, but there is no evidence whatsoever that this is widespread and plenty of evidence of them doing good for people regardless of sexual orientation or gender.

Now, I absolutely agree with Ellie Goulding that the best thing for the Salvos to do would be to come out of a blanket statement of support for LGBT+ people and completely renounce any prior behaviour to the contrary.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/annual-reminder-salvation-army-is-out-and-about-with-their-red-kettles-they-are-anti-lgbtq.155786/post-26899147

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

I've got no doubt that there are a small number of assholes who revel in praising CFA for shitty reasons, but equating anyone who enjoys it with a MAGA hat douchebag isn't really acceptable.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-is-chick-fil-a-popular.155785/post-26899921

I was about to say that middleman must be on a list but he's already banned 

edit: it's a perma

User Banned (permanent): Dismissing bigotry, previously banned for the same
It's simply untruthful to suggest that this is organisational policy and you're encouraging people to avoid giving to charity - although it's clear from this thread that many were already doing so - based on this.

Obviously even a single instance of discrimination is awful, but there is no evidence whatsoever that this is widespread and plenty of evidence of them doing good for people regardless of sexual orientation or gender.

Now, I absolutely agree with Ellie Goulding that the best thing for the Salvos to do would be to come out of a blanket statement of support for LGBT+ people and completely renounce any prior behaviour to the contrary.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/annual-reminder-salvation-army-is-out-and-about-with-their-red-kettles-they-are-anti-lgbtq.155786/post-26899147

I mean...

https://centralusa.salvationarmy.org/usc/lgbt_discrimination_debunking_the_myth/

yeah, they're not gonna put "yup, we hate homos" on their PR page, but seems like a big fucking gap between what they claim to represent and seemingly have at least some receipts to that effect, and making the claim they're basically the KKK for gays

[Averon]

Not surprised Middleman got a perm after the capitation the mods did to LGBT-ERA. He was probably enemy #1 to be sniped after the new "rules" were announced in that pinned SweetNicole thread.

[HaughtyFrank]

I've got no doubt that there are a small number of assholes who revel in praising CFA for shitty reasons, but equating anyone who enjoys it with a MAGA hat douchebag isn't really acceptable.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-is-chick-fil-a-popular.155785/post-26899921

I was about to say that middleman must be on a list but he's already banned 

edit: it's a perma

User Banned (permanent): Dismissing bigotry, previously banned for the same
It's simply untruthful to suggest that this is organisational policy and you're encouraging people to avoid giving to charity - although it's clear from this thread that many were already doing so - based on this.

Obviously even a single instance of discrimination is awful, but there is no evidence whatsoever that this is widespread and plenty of evidence of them doing good for people regardless of sexual orientation or gender.

Now, I absolutely agree with Ellie Goulding that the best thing for the Salvos to do would be to come out of a blanket statement of support for LGBT+ people and completely renounce any prior behaviour to the contrary.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/annual-reminder-salvation-army-is-out-and-about-with-their-red-kettles-they-are-anti-lgbtq.155786/post-26899147

I mean...

https://centralusa.salvationarmy.org/usc/lgbt_discrimination_debunking_the_myth/

yeah, they're not gonna put "yup, we hate homos" on their PR page, but seems like a big fucking gap between what they claim to represent and seemingly have at least some receipts to that effect, and making the claim they're basically the KKK for gays

I don't know how they can claim to not be an echochamber when this level of disagreement gets you banned.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

I don't know how they can claim to not be an echochamber when this level of disagreement gets you banned.

or make "WHY DO POSTS ABOUT MYYYYY CAUSE NOT GET ANY REPLIESSSSSS" whines when anyone who gives half a shit about their account are well trained to steer the fuck clear