yeah I know I know, like I said Ive been thinking about for half a year, and I think Ive made up my mind and really want a relationship with her. Our jobs dont overlap at all so I never deal with her for anything work related, and I might bump into her once every few days so yeah. I think were both straight up sensible adults so I cant see anything really bad happening. She may just say no, no biggie
Women can turn straight up nuts due to a relationship though. And you may not see her often, but i'm sure you two interact with a lot of the same people or people you interact with interact with people she interacts with. And women love to talk. But as long as you know the risks.
I took the risks a couple of years ago and nearly lost my job. i made a thread about it on here. People in the other side of the building on the top floor (I was in the basement!) knew about us because she couldn't keep her mouth shut.
congrats!
but... co worker?? you sure about this???
I've always been told that its usually a really bad idea to date a co-worker because if things go south it messes up the workplace too.
I know my company has a strict (and is enforced actually) no office-romance policy.
I was just told to let HR know, but that if it ever came down to a decision to get rid of me or not, being in an office relationship would only hurt me there. They said it's always a negative when a company sees it and needs to make a decision based off of it.
After my experience, my advice to anyone is avoid, avoid, avoid, avoid.
People will find out someway and people will talk because that's what people do in an office and it most likely will not be the truth. It can get ugly really fucking fast.