True but...why would he agree to go to a swinger house if he wasn't about that life? His girl does seem somewhat shady though
A lot of dudes think swinging is about fucking other women while being with theirs and don't think about the other aspect of it. Then again, maybe he's been swinging in the past but hasn't escalated to that scale before? I mean, fucking in a room full of people and on camera? I'm sure that's not easy.
Personally I think she pushed him into it and he did it because he's supportive and wants to make the relationship work and found out the hard way it wasn't for him. It did reveal a lot about her as a person though.
I dunno. Three of my friends are in "open marriages," and in two of the cases I know it's basically the woman wants to ball others and the guy is like, "yeah, okay, if that's what you want." The other one was, I think, driven by the male partner, and it ended in divorce. Actually, one of the female-initiated ones also ended in divorce.