Rahx: What advice did you take? Honest question as I'm confused what you've changed or did based on people's comments here. (not saying you didn't, but I'm not seeing where you explained what advice you took)
And you just went on one date that didn't work out and are acting like it's incel pitty party time lol
People said I had a negative and self defeated attitude. That since I didn’t like or wasn’t comfortable with myself I wouldn’t attract anyone. I tried becoming more comfortable with myself. My hair has always been a personal issue, so I decided to try and find a style so that I could leave it naturally curly and actually like it. I did and I felt much better about my looks.
People said I needed to find a better style. I focused on asking female friends what kind of clothes I should wear. I found that I should wear slimmer outfits and different colors that match my olive skin tone.
People said I should find hobbies that I like and can share beyond say video games and anime. I started to become more social. Going out, getting involved in craft beer. Going to music shows more and more More emphasis on movies as an art form and so on. I find I am able to talk to people about much more things and life experiences now. But also more comfortable with talking about my nerdy stuff in a fun way that I think attracts people as I’m comfortable with what I like.
People said I should go out more. I’ve gone out a lot more. Even my sister thinks I go out and do much more fun things then she ever did.
Those are some of the things I think.