There is an end to this saga, for now....
The email and chat log evidence approach to saving a man backfired. He would desperately accept his wife, move to this country, and ruin my life. The mother of the wife did not approve of hubby's death threats, but sided with him regarding me being predatory. The mother found I did nothing illegal.
I did do some heinous shit involving a man's wife. I understand a man hating me. I'm not expecting to be called a noble man for taking a man's wife by the throat. I didn't need to tell him though, I accepted I'll always love the woman, but I don't need her, need to speak to her, just know she's okay. But I wasn't in love with her, I don't value her as a partner.
I did it for him and her issues were swept aside. I accept how bad this turned out, felt defeated, but not sad, not in misery. I accepted I followed my heart, did wrong, try to do right, shit went abysmally. I have some peace, time to move on.
A few days pass.
The best friend is going to confront married woman over her behavior for the last six years. Best friend's therapist, which had helped best friend greatly for years, says married woman is a sociopath with narcissist tendencies. The best thing to do would be cut off contact from married woman.
Best friend confronts married woman, and is very direct and blunt with accusations, observations, things noticed, lies told. The best friend felt they loved a different version of this person. And pondered, did this version of this person ever exist?
Married woman confirmed all suspicions.
Her from 6 years ago was a lie.
The wife finding out her husband has fits of immature rage that could skew violent?
She laughs at that.
When asked if she is a sociopath,
She admits she probably is.
Her being told I told the truth, and caught her lying?
"Fair enough."
By doing what I believed was the right thing, I empowered a Manlet and his sociopath wife. I empowered them, and I'm going to be their number one target.