That said, I don't think suggesting Friday after she said Saturday didn't work was the way to go. You could've said "what is the best day without any problem(s)/work works for you?"
Hellllll no. This really puts the other person on the spot and doesn't let them save face. If you ask someone this, they either have to give you a real time, be forced to awkwardly turn you down, or just ghost you entirely.
Fuck "saving face." If they are DTF, they are DTF and either want to make plans or don't. "What days work for you" is a neutral question and if they can't answer it, you're better off jumping to the next one. Asking "Friday?" "No, I got work then." "Saturday? Sunday?" is desperate and doesn't put them on the spot of giving an
actual fucking answer.
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I think I’m in with the chubby girl.
edit: or she’s fucking with me
I highly doubt she's fucking with you, dude. She's (seemingly) being upfront about looking for NSA sex.
That said:
When people are actually interested in hanging out, even if they're busy on the suggested day, they'll offer a different day. Or they'll just make time. People aren't actually all that busy!
This is also something to consider. If she doesn't get back with you by Friday, just cut your losses. But I'm not thinking she's fucking with you if she actually gets back to you about another day. That said, I don't think suggesting Friday after she said Saturday didn't work was the way to go. You could've said "what is the best day without any problem(s)/work works for you?" If she's serious, she'd actually give something like that (though this is gay life talking, take with hetero salt on that) a response.
Who knows, though.
I don't know if gay men do this but hetero women do things called "shit tests" where they'll say something and then gage your reaction. And if they don't like how you react they'll drop you like a bag of shit.
So that "I'm looking for a low key FWBs" was most likely a shit test to see if I'm just a fuccboi and boy did I come across as a fuccboi.
You didn't come off as a fuccboi for anything other than saying "Saturday" right after. If she's going to kick the tires and hmm and haww about your suitability of putting your dick in her, she's not worth the bother.
You heteros need to get the fuck over yourselves and be direct with each other. If you're wanting to fuck and the other person is attractive, don't fucking beat around the bush. If you're wanting to date, fucking say it.
Jesus Christ, I really worry about the future of the species if something simple as "hey, I think you're hot. Are you DTF" (not as direct though) is something that is world-shattering ending for the other person to deal with.
And pulling the "I'm looking to fuck" card and then going "well,
maybe not with you lol" is a total bitch move and people should not do that to the other person. If you're wanting to fuck casually and you fucking match with that person, be committed to doing that. Don't fucking toss it out as a "purity test" on your fucking virtue. It isn't the 1700's anymore, men don't have to slap each other with a white glove and then shoot each other in a duel for the prospect of fucking breeding you, women.