Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 1426623 times)

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4680 on:** April 27, 2018, 10:58:22 AM »

It looked like a very muscular gundam

Atramental · « **Reply #4681 on:** April 27, 2018, 12:15:01 PM »

fuck. wrong thread.

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #4682 on:** April 27, 2018, 12:52:20 PM »

i too posted in the wrong thread

VomKriege · « **Reply #4683 on:** April 29, 2018, 03:14:23 AM »

At last, mutual match

She did hit the button in the middle of the night so she was probably pissed

With an intense sounding expat. Guess we'll see how things flow.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4684 on:** April 29, 2018, 01:13:07 PM »

She's reading forty non fiction books a year too. Will be on the lookout for a Chairman Meow avatar

Edit : she unmatched.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4685 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:16:58 AM »

bizarre shit but i'm dating a girl i can't figure out if i'm the one that actually doesn't like her, if she's the one that doesn't like me or if we don't actually like each other. something is off.

However, we're still dating

shosta · « **Reply #4686 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:37:07 AM »

Relationship of convenience. If you do it right, eventually you'll look forward to finding new ways to piss her off out of spite.

Mupepe · « **Reply #4687 on:** April 30, 2018, 08:35:54 AM »

you'll probably end up married to her.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4688 on:** April 30, 2018, 10:17:52 AM »

Yeah. Be careful with that shit. Comfort <> Love.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4689 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:27:54 PM »

I've gone through the whole convenience and comfort thing before. It definitely has that aspect, it's beneficial for me right now in some ways and for her as well. So yeah it's tricky.

There's a big IF hanging over my life right now. I may actually get a job 100% remote where i can stay wherever i want and that is hanging over my head.... i can easily stay by the beach and my god the amount of women that would be rolling through.... do i really need someone bitching at me all the time? do i have to live up to some other persons expectations? Or can i continuously just live like a 20something year old bachelor for the rest of my life?

Is marriage for fools that need the convenience? these are questions and doubts i am having. I don't see a single male that is married say "man my life is wonderful" $:-\$

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4690 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:32:44 PM »

Man, my married life is wonderful.**

** = Note: I am one of maybe 5 guys I know that can say that out of the dozens I know that are married.

Mupepe · « **Reply #4691 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:41:19 PM »

My life is wonderful and we'll be 9 years married in September.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4692 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:59:58 PM »

do they feel the same?

last time i had a friend tell me he was happy and content in his marriage she left him shortly after

VomKriege · « **Reply #4693 on:** May 02, 2018, 03:57:02 AM »

I'm already jaded about online dating. Nothing too original I guess. Makes you hyper aware that you're not unique and neither are any profile you're reading (grinding through thousands of samey bios has been a non ending existential crisis). Like everyone I thought it would ease the first steps but it's just a giant market and a cut throat one. My photos are pretty shit so maybe it's on me but on the other hand it seems incredibly phoney to make more tailored to that purpose. I'll probably never fuck that occasional colleague I fancy but at least I can barrage her with terrible jokes, it's more enjoyable than hundreds of wipes.

I guess I just need to work at getting my life straight, do charity work (it's on the way), pick up a sport and find a hip bar nearby (though honestly I sort of dread becoming a drunk pillar creepily gazing at gals). I'll probably keep the OkCupid profile up for a couple of weeks just in case one of my messages connect.

toku · « **Reply #4694 on:** May 02, 2018, 12:51:55 PM »

Time spent enjoying yourself is never time wasted, bless up.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4695 on:** May 02, 2018, 01:46:08 PM »

Quote from: Assimilate on April 30, 2018, 12:59:58 PM

do they feel the same?

last time i had a friend tell me he was happy and content in his marriage she left him shortly after

Obviously I can't speak for my wife's feelings. Of course, I'd expect her to say yes, but that's really not up to me to say. And I'm sure there's plenty of people that feel they have a great relationship while their partner doesn't feel the same way. That being said, you do sorta get the "spidey sense" for these people that are one sided.

TakingBackSunday · « **Reply #4696 on:** May 02, 2018, 02:10:46 PM »

I have a ring lined up

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4697 on:** May 02, 2018, 02:33:57 PM »

Quote from: JayDubya on May 02, 2018, 01:07:23 PM

Meh. Comfort is better than nothing.

Cold comfort is better than nothing.

I disagree. Cold comfort doesn't come for free. There's a huge opportunity cost. You're essentially giving up possible opportunities to find a true comfort. My bro is in this trap. He's like "It's bad, but better than being alone" I don't agree. You're trapped in a non-optimal position and giving up possible better situations to do so. I get the fear that there wont be a better situation, and that's true in some cases, but you can't say for sure.

Mupepe · « **Reply #4698 on:** May 02, 2018, 02:53:53 PM »

I guess that's true if you consider not completely satisfied better than being single. I think I'd rather be single than always wishing I had something else. If I was single at least I could be fucking fat chicks on an island off the coast of Costa Rica. Truly spectacular. I'd spare no expense.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4699 on:** May 02, 2018, 03:11:38 PM »

Yeah, I guess that it comes down to personality. I'd rather have nothing and work towards what I want than to settle with something that I was complacent with, even if that means I never get there. I'd rather try and fail and know I at least tried than to be caught in a "What if I had acted?" scenario.

Everyone is in different places and have different factors in their decisions. I'm just in the camp of better to have tried and failed camp.

Note: I wasn't always like this. I was in that complacent space and really tried to hold on to it. But now I'm definitely on the other side. The loneliness/slog of being where you're just "comfortable" is too high a price for me.

Atramental · « **Reply #4700 on:** May 02, 2018, 03:16:06 PM »

I'm gonna hold out for the hyper realistic sex bots or a VR body suit, at this point.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4701 on:** May 03, 2018, 04:52:48 AM »

More online dating french buzzwords : "attachiante" who contracts "attachante" et "chiante" and that I would approximate to "adornagle" or "cu(n)te".

I have learned that women love to laugh, party, eat, listen, travel, read and go to the cinema.

Rufus · « **Reply #4702 on:** May 03, 2018, 06:11:13 AM »

Quote from: VomKriege on May 03, 2018, 04:52:48 AM

I have learned that women loves to laugh, party, eat, listen, travel, read and go to the cinema.

What is man? A miserable little pile of clichés picked at random.

thisismyusername · « **Reply #4703 on:** May 03, 2018, 11:24:02 AM »

Quote from: Mupepe on May 02, 2018, 02:53:53 PM

I'd spare no expense.

Quote

If I was single at least I could be fucking fat chicks on an island off the coast of Costa Rica.

Your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn’t stop to think if they should.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4704 on:** May 04, 2018, 11:54:41 PM »

Is it wrong to be attracted to women who look/seem like they want to eviscerate you? And yet I am not a masocist. No boners from that.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4705 on:** May 05, 2018, 08:32:08 AM »

Progress. Who knows ? Maybe I'll have to thank agrajag for pointing me to Heart of a Dog, she loves that and it gives the impression I'm much more Russian savvy than I am (she's apparently from Russia, Asian features and a Buddhist which is not the most common type we'd see over here but not that unlikely either, maybe Mongol ancestry ? Being the Parisian snob I am, I like that.).

Will report if love blooms on the app battlefield and if she's inclined for a drink.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4706 on:** May 05, 2018, 08:47:01 AM »

So yes you're probably speaking to the next Croissant Khan the Merciless. Show deference today and I'll remember to reward it.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4707 on:** May 05, 2018, 09:12:35 AM »

I'LL HAVE YOUR HEAD FOR THIS AND WILL BOIL DOWN THE REST FOR MY ENJOYMENT.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4708 on:** May 05, 2018, 04:43:24 PM »

i can't believe how much weight this girl has gained since we began seeing each other like WTF. All of a sudden she doesn't care about the gym anymore.

A girl with a pot belly is the most unattractive thing ever and it seems like she's shooting for one.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #4709 on:** May 06, 2018, 03:16:59 PM »

I mean I mostly like the suicide girl stuff because the tattooed up girls look tough and look like they could beat me up.

I'm attracted to more take charge women.

Which probably says a bit about me.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #4710 on:** May 06, 2018, 04:10:18 PM »

Who doesn’t love a challenge?

Bebpo · « **Reply #4711 on:** May 06, 2018, 04:10:54 PM »

Ok, the new OKC messaging system is crazy! I started messaging people for the first time in months and was having a couple of conversations back and forth that were going well. Then I went out for the day yesterday and went drinking after and got home and passed out. Figured I'd reply to those message chains this morning. I go on to the site and the message chains are gone, which apparently means the person got so upset I didn't respond back within X amount of hours that they unmatched me.

I guess that probably happened with some regularity in the past, but because the message chains wouldn't vanish, I'd never be aware of it. Feels like now there's more pressure to constantly reply every couple hours or the other person will walk. Kinda sucks when you have a life. I don't like to do dating stuff on my phone when I'm out doing active things with social pals. I find dating kinda a private thing. Heh.

mormapope · « **Reply #4712 on:** May 07, 2018, 10:55:48 AM »

Started a lovely friendship with a lady, text each other everyday, we're both depressed and very honest and straight up with each other. Was mouth fucked by her and one of her dildos within the first hour of meeting up. Breast fed her tits while watching TV last nite after eating dinner.

Life and living is good.

team filler · « **Reply #4713 on:** May 07, 2018, 12:13:58 PM »

Atramental · « **Reply #4714 on:** May 07, 2018, 12:17:08 PM »

mormapope · « **Reply #4715 on:** May 07, 2018, 01:23:43 PM »

Yes, she has a kink for penetrating people. I told her I might ease into anal but it isn't a biggy.

team filler · « **Reply #4716 on:** May 07, 2018, 01:25:20 PM »

shosta · « **Reply #4717 on:** May 07, 2018, 02:32:50 PM »

The story of my worst pickup line ever that still got me laid. I was at a human rights seminar at UC Davis hosted by the US cultural ambassador and I said to the person next to me "excuse me, is this metrosexuals anonymous?" because of all the sweater vests.

team filler · « **Reply #4718 on:** May 07, 2018, 02:45:18 PM »

Atramental · « **Reply #4719 on:** May 08, 2018, 12:51:31 PM »

Totally random but gaffer Spinningdash is friends with my ex’s new bf. Small world.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #4720 on:** May 08, 2018, 01:06:32 PM »

How do you know that?

Atramental · « **Reply #4721 on:** May 08, 2018, 01:08:08 PM »

I never forget a face, he has mutual gaffer friends, and I saw him liking their relationship status.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #4722 on:** May 08, 2018, 01:24:21 PM »

Dude. You need to let that ex go man.

I feel like every other post you make is about this ex you had for a few weeks.

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #4723 on:** May 08, 2018, 02:00:35 PM »

""""""ex""""""

Raist · « **Reply #4724 on:** May 08, 2018, 03:22:53 PM »

"""""weeks"""""

Atramental · « **Reply #4725 on:** May 08, 2018, 05:28:38 PM »

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4726 on:** May 08, 2018, 06:05:48 PM »

((((jew)))

Atramental · « **Reply #4727 on:** May 08, 2018, 07:57:59 PM »

Anyways, here's what I've been up to on Tinder lately:

team filler · « **Reply #4728 on:** May 08, 2018, 09:08:39 PM »

B E A K dating

Reb · « **Reply #4729 on:** May 09, 2018, 04:52:33 AM »

Beak pimping

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #4730 on:** May 09, 2018, 12:47:07 PM »

you may not like it, but this is what beak performance looks like

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4731 on:** May 09, 2018, 09:38:44 PM »

Just thinking about the pivot to earnestly trying to hookup with someone from a joke Tinder account after a couple in character messages is making me cringe so hards it's making my butthole pucker

Atramental · « **Reply #4732 on:** May 09, 2018, 09:41:58 PM »

I’ve just been asking girls what their favorite bars are so I can go there later, get schlitzed, and make an ass out of myself in public instead of on tinder.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4733 on:** May 09, 2018, 09:45:49 PM »

Its no judegment on you but its like the perfect initial in but sticking the landing and moving beyond the messages is another thing entirely

Oblivion · « **Reply #4734 on:** May 10, 2018, 02:48:27 AM »

Welp, I broke up with someone who I've been in a year long relationship with. It ended pretty badly, and I feel like shit. She was the sweetest girl I ever dated, but it had to be done, otherwise it would hurt worse the longer it lasted. Still, feels bad, yo.

Cryo · « **Reply #4735 on:** May 10, 2018, 02:58:08 AM »

Quote from: Oblivion on May 10, 2018, 02:48:27 AM

Welp, I broke up with someone who I've been in a year long relationship with. It ended pretty badly, and I feel like shit. She was the sweetest girl I ever dated, but it had to be done, otherwise it would hurt worse the longer it lasted. Still, feels bad, yo.

you’ve been on dates with multiple women over the past few months while being in a year long relationship?

Bebpo · « **Reply #4736 on:** May 10, 2018, 02:58:13 AM »

Quote from: Oblivion on May 10, 2018, 02:48:27 AM

Welp, I broke up with someone who I've been in a year long relationship with. It ended pretty badly, and I feel like shit. She was the sweetest girl I ever dated, but it had to be done, otherwise it would hurt worse the longer it lasted. Still, feels bad, yo.

Sorry to hear, man. It'll suck but get better. Sulk all the sulk out for a little, you need to get it out, then get out and hang with people (not dating, just like social stuff with other human beings, preferably friends). From my experience, the more you are around people after a break up the faster you move on and heal.

Oblivion · « **Reply #4737 on:** May 10, 2018, 03:12:41 AM »

Quote from: Cryo on May 10, 2018, 02:58:08 AM

Quote from: Oblivion on May 10, 2018, 02:48:27 AM
Welp, I broke up with someone who I've been in a year long relationship with. It ended pretty badly, and I feel like shit. She was the sweetest girl I ever dated, but it had to be done, otherwise it would hurt worse the longer it lasted. Still, feels bad, yo.
you’ve been on dates with multiple women over the past few months while being in a year long relationship?

It was complicated.

Quote from: Bebpo on May 10, 2018, 02:58:13 AM

Quote from: Oblivion on May 10, 2018, 02:48:27 AM
Welp, I broke up with someone who I've been in a year long relationship with. It ended pretty badly, and I feel like shit. She was the sweetest girl I ever dated, but it had to be done, otherwise it would hurt worse the longer it lasted. Still, feels bad, yo.

Sorry to hear, man. It'll suck but get better. Sulk all the sulk out for a little can you need to get it out, then get out and hang with people (not dating, just like social stuff with other human beings, preferably friends). From my experience, the more you are around people after a break up the faster you move on and heal.

Thanks, dude. I tried to join some friends with bowling tonight, but couldn't do it. Had to leave shortly after. But yeah, I need to keep myself busy to get my mind off her.

shosta · « **Reply #4738 on:** May 10, 2018, 03:15:35 AM »

Quote from: Oblivion on May 10, 2018, 03:12:41 AM

It was complicated.

It's not complicated, you were testing the waters outside of a failing relationship to get the courage to end it.

Oblivion · « **Reply #4739 on:** May 10, 2018, 04:07:18 AM »

Quote from: Shostakovich on May 10, 2018, 03:15:35 AM

Quote from: Oblivion on May 10, 2018, 03:12:41 AM
It was complicated.
It's not complicated, you were testing the waters outside of a failing relationship to get the courage to end it.

In my defense, she's the one that suggested we can do an open relationship.

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Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 1426623 times)