You can call it being honest if you want.
But I don't think it comes off that way.
If you went on a low risks no commitment tinder date(which is what tinder is). Had a fun time, but just that really.
Would you like the person constantly sending you messages?
Asking if you are into them?
Probably not. You'd be like. Hey calm down. You'd think this person kind of seems clingy? This person seems to be taking this too seriously. I'm not sure if I want to see this person who is already getting overly serious over one tinder date again.
I hate to repeat advice that I did'nt like earlier in the thread, but it's true. If a girl was doing this to you, would you really like it? I guess maybe you'd like thier straightforwardness, but I know in my own experince when girls who you have just met once, had little interactions with, or have just talked a lot too on tinder or getting overly familiar already. I'm really not interested, because it seems like "wtf is wrong with you, you don't even know me". I had one tinder girl start calling me bae after a few dies of talking. It wasn't cute.
And this is why I like Dr Nerd Love. He says basically talk and interact with women how you would want them to talk to you. That makes sense to me.
The last tinder girl talked to me and would make all these "You're going to hate me comments" and other self-deprecating comments. It wasn't sexy, it just made me think she dosen't have a lot of confidence. And well I know not to make those kind of jokes with girls I don't know that well either when we are still on first impressions.