cloudwalking with the ether
People already take a few minutes to take me seriously because I look 18 in my face. The tits compound the equation. But once they talk to me, they usually figure out pretty quickly that they completely underestimated me.
Obviously what cloud and I looked for in men (and found) is far beyond anything most women can probably imagine. The only girls my age that are dating amazing men are girlfriends of my husband's friends. But most girls I know are wasting time with guys that should've stayed at one-night-stand status.
Also where am I going to show off the girls? Work? Yea no. Out? Eww there's going to be a million of our guy friends there and they're like my brothers.
They get a view when they come over and go swimming, and then they're probably weirded out too, "Eww, I just checked out my faux-sister.." A club? For one, we never go to clubs, and for two, just because you're at the club, it doesn't mean you have to dress like a typical club whore.
When my husband talks about when we met and why he was attracted to me, and he always talks about the way I dressed and how different it was from most girls they encountered. Cute shirts, maybe an ounce of cleavage (because you can't really contain them
), cute shoes, and all this vintage costume jewelry from my grandma who had just passed away. If you're looking for a great guy, and you're wearing skimpy clothes from some shit store, you probably met him already but he just chalked you up to yet another typical girl.
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Also the fact that I was 19-21, putting myself through school, paying all my own bills, buying my own car... That helped my case too. When you've had to pay for everything you've ever gotten, it's frustrating to date or try to date people that are still getting everything handed to them. We both had to deal with that issue in the past too many times. I hope we're in the position someday to do the same for our kids, but honestly I learned how much I was capable of at a young age.
