Holy shit, the more I hear about my "best friend" who I split up with last week, the more it seems I definitely dodged a bullet. Seems besides just being blinded to a lot of her flaws, it also seems like I only knew one side of her and now I wonder a bit who this person even was. Lot of shady shit coming out of the closet from mutual friends. Wow; it's crazy how you think you know someone when you're close and talk everyday and see each all the time but you really only know the side they show. Even her ex-bf (who is my friend) is like "I feel like I don't even know who I was dating the last ten months".
I need to get away from shady people. Both the guy friend & the girl best friend seem equally manipulative coming away from this.
How do you even tell who someone really is?