Pallando will return in "Never Say Never Again"

[Flannel Boy]

awesome-o how many of these would you say describe yourself?

http://www.babble.com/babble-voices/a-focused-life-me-ra-koh/13-characteristics-of-a-date-rapist-a-list-you-need-to-share/

Zero. How many characteristics of a whore describe your mother? Because I'm pretty sure the answer is "all of them".

1. Displays anger or aggression, either physically or verbally (The anger need not be directed toward you, but may be displayed during conversations by general negative references to women. . . .)

2. Displays a short temper

[Shadow Mod]

This is, in general, why I think more men on the dating scene need female friends. You need a broader perspective of the shit that most women have had to deal with in their lives and how that's shaped how they date, their own quirks and their baggage. Then you might come to realize that a lot of them have dealt with abuse, stalking, rape or other sexual assault, sexual harassment and how each and every one of these incidents has changed how they interact with people, especially on the dating scene. For many of them it results in a kind of flighty non-confrontational type of dating that lets them kind of slip away without infuriating the guy to the point of stalking or hunting them down. I'm sorry but that's just how reality is and I wish it could be better and different for all of my gal pals and guy pals but for the most part stop fucking personalizing this shit and realize that when they're not interested they'll slowly drop off your radar because that's the safest fucking choice.

[Tasty]

It's really upsetting that a bunch of men who consider themselves "better than that" can't come to the realization that a bunch of fucking creepers and stalkers fucked it up for you, NOT US.

Eh I get what you're saying but I don't think it's wrong to say it's stupid and should probably change in an Ideal Utopian Society. Putting the blame back on men for not playing ball doesn't move things forward. Like, let's make some alterations to your post, for sake of example:

It's really upsetting that a bunch of <insert race here> who consider themselves "better than that" can't come to the realization that a bunch of <x> and <y> fucked it up for you, NOT US.

Obviously, this is wrong. We shouldn't punish the majority for the actions of the few. Now, lying to someone's face isn't exactly an unbearable punishment, and defending dishonesty as an evolutionary tactic, or whatever, isn't exactly wrong. But I don't think it should be something we advocate for and say "yes, all women should do this forever and ever." Whether or not that's what people ITT are intending, it's coming off as complacence.

In general I feel like society can only advance when everyone becomes more trustful, but unfortunately that's the opposite of what tends to happen as you get older and more exposed to the world.

Anyways, I've said my peace, gonna bail out now before this becomes a discussion about how I'm a creep, or worse, an AWESOME-O defender.

[Shadow Mod]

There's a difference between defending the actions of people who should be working in your ideal world. And telling people HOW THE FUCK IT IS. I'm sorry if the latter is a problem. I can't help how the fuck things are. Being more trustworthy is what got those people into shitty situations in the first place, do you think they're going to put themselves at risk when it can cost them so much?

[Mandark]

Anyways, I've said my peace, gonna bail out now before this becomes a discussion about how I'm a creep, or worse, an AWESOME-O defender.

"Y'all are probably going to misinterpret me, so I'm just going to respond your statement without the courtesy of reading your response to mine."

Look, if you're not willing to take the heat of defending and clarifying your position, make room on the internet for the rest of us.

[Shadow Mod]

Here's the thing: you're not entitled to shit. Just get that in your head. Once you come to this realization. That's when you should date.

[Mandark]

Will say that I still think it's problematic that this kind of conflict avoidance is so widely and unquestioningly accepted.  Last time this came up, everyone was saying "Of COURSE she's gonna say she wants another date, that's how you do things!" rather than "she doesn't know you and has to hedge against the worst possibilities, thanks to fucking rape culture" until chronovore made the connection.  Even Cowbell wasn't making the argument from a feminist perspective like she is now.

And, you know, the feminist point about the prospect of male violence is a thousand percent correct.  But IME a lot of women who behave that way aren't completely making that connection, and a lot of it comes from just being trained as females to never be assertive or direct, because that's not what girls do.  So it's a behavior pattern that's useful for navigating the patriarchy while also being one that tends to reinforce it, if I can put on my liberal squish hat.

[Human Snorenado]

Yeah, cause you're not a hardheaded, borderline obsessive dude that has to get the last word or anything. 

(not directed @ Mandark)

[Flannel Boy]

Fuck your ninja edit.

[Raban]

[Shadow Mod]

Will say that I still think it's problematic that this kind of conflict avoidance is so widely and unquestioningly accepted.  Last time this came up, everyone was saying "Of COURSE she's gonna say she wants another date, that's how you do things!" rather than "she doesn't know you and has to hedge against the worst possibilities, thanks to fucking rape culture" until chronovore made the connection.  Even Cowbell wasn't making the argument from a feminist perspective like she is now.

And, you know, the feminist point about the prospect of male violence is a thousand percent correct.  But IME a lot of women who behave that way aren't completely making that connection, and a lot of it comes from just being trained as females to never be assertive or direct, because that's not what girls do.  So it's a behavior pattern that's useful for navigating the patriarchy while also being one that tends to reinforce it, if I can put on my liberal squish hat.

It's that too. But for the most part I was honest and direct until it bit me in the ass. So there's that.

If we're being honest I think people, especially some of the guys asking for advice on the internet, simply invest too much right away. It sounds like they planned out some life together with a gal the way they act so scorned.

[Human Snorenado]

Fuck your ninja edit.

 

[Phoenix Dark]

last two pages tho

[Shadow Mod]

Speaking of your av did you ever rob the grave with that mom?

[Mandark]

 

age-shaming

[Shadow Mod]

Jokes man. Jokes. 

[Phoenix Dark]

I'll still pick Awesom-O for my team over Andrex any day of the week.

[Shadow Mod]

I probably did catch too many feels. Apologies to everyone except The Business,  P-Touch, chronovore, and Andrex.

Also, I have been the complete opposite of a stalker. In the last six days I've managed to not make eye contact with this girl once,  despite having four lectures, three company presentations, and a roundtable career night together. I can easily keep this up for another 19 months. 

I don't think you're a stalker. I just warn of coming off strong because of stalkers.

[CatsCatsCats]

Whoa dude. These last couple pages went places. I wasn't tryin to shit on you for the record bro, I was sympathisizing. I've been in similar situations and it sucks ass when you realize you may have had the wrong idea when it felt good. Live and learn is all.

[BlackMage]

My GF just broke up with me... fuck this sucks 

[hampster]

Sorry to hear

[CatsCatsCats]

Sucks 

[Mr. Gundam]

awesome-o how many of these would you say describe yourself?

http://www.babble.com/babble-voices/a-focused-life-me-ra-koh/13-characteristics-of-a-date-rapist-a-list-you-need-to-share/

Zero. How many characteristics of a whore describe your mother? Because I'm pretty sure the answer is "all of them".

Whether you actually admit it, I'm sure this strange shit you think and say online creeps into your everyday real life persona.

[Smooth Groove]

Will say that I still think it's problematic that this kind of conflict avoidance is so widely and unquestioningly accepted.  Last time this came up, everyone was saying "Of COURSE she's gonna say she wants another date, that's how you do things!" rather than "she doesn't know you and has to hedge against the worst possibilities, thanks to fucking rape culture" until chronovore made the connection.  Even Cowbell wasn't making the argument from a feminist perspective like she is now.

And, you know, the feminist point about the prospect of male violence is a thousand percent correct.  But IME a lot of women who behave that way aren't completely making that connection, and a lot of it comes from just being trained as females to never be assertive or direct, because that's not what girls do.  So it's a behavior pattern that's useful for navigating the patriarchy while also being one that tends to reinforce it, if I can put on my liberal squish hat.

It's that too. But for the most part I was honest and direct until it bit me in the ass. So there's that.

If we're being honest I think people, especially some of the guys asking for advice on the internet, simply invest too much right away. It sounds like they planned out some life together with a gal the way they act so scorned.

The planning takes time and effort.  Why can't bitches be more appreciative? 

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y6/mssmojorising/owed/o5.jpg

[Phoenix Dark]

I'll forever kick myself for not re-hosting the pics Whiteacid used to PM me 

[Smooth Groove]

Were there nudies? 

[Phoenix Dark]

Nah, some extra Halloween pics. Nurse and devil pics

[CajoleJuice]

No, women just treat him like a gay man.

[Phoenix Dark]

 

[Phoenix Dark]

I trust Smooth Groove.

we were literally discussing that topic today in PMs

[Phoenix Dark]

We were debating this topic

 
http://ir-tube.net/forum/anybody-else-turned-off-the-term-black-cock-slut-t150934.html
 

[Shadow Mod]

Porn labels are just all kinds of gross. What's new.

[Smooth Groove]

Black cock slut isn't necessarily a porn label.  For example, the Kardashians and Cheryl Cole are all known as BCS.

[nudemacusers]

We were debating this topic

 
http://ir-tube.net/forum/anybody-else-turned-off-the-term-black-cock-slut-t150934.html
 

you would post on a forum dedicated to interracial porn discussion

[Flannel Boy]

So my date last night with a curvy redhead went really well. 

[Atramental]

Was the smell of ozone prevalent that night?

/stupid joke

[Van Cruncheon]

this thread is amazing and totally cured my cabernet hangover. 

[T234]

If I were a broad who liked black cock, I sure wouldn't wanna share initials with the least effective way of determining a national champion.

[Flannel Boy]

x2

[Phoenix Dark]

Did you spark in 3 minutes?

[CatsCatsCats]

Careful, my man, red heads are undeniably good in bed and crazy in the head.

[chronovore]

So... 100% awesome?

[CatsCatsCats]

Unless you attempt any real sort of relationship with them, totally

[Flannel Boy]

Careful, my man, red heads are undeniably good in bed and crazy in the head.

Well, she'd have to be.

Anyway, this has some chance to work as she, without any prompting, affectionately gave me the nickname Eeyore. Eeyore is her favorite.

edit 20: I didn't sleep last night so salfjfwlefo

[Smooth Groove]

In college, I had a pretty terrible experience with a redhead.  I dated her for a few months just to copy her chemistry homework.  Eventually she caught on because I thought she was too chubby and wouldn't hit it.  We stopped talking and  I didn't see her for a year. 

Next time I saw her, she looked smoking hot and had obliviously been getting into much better shape.  When I went to say hi to her, she just looked at me like I was invisible  and walked on by.

 

So yeah, never piss off a redhead

[Phoenix Dark]

I thought everyone knew that you never piss off a fat chick because A) it's dickish B) when she gets hot she'll dismiss your ass.

[Smooth Groove]

I should have been honest,  "How do you expect me to hit it if your ass doesn't get in shape?  Don't have a BBC, mang!" 

[Phoenix Dark]

to be fair, your views on weight are a bit extreme Smooth Groove. Basically a woman is overweight if she doesn't have abs to you.

[Smooth Groove]

True, my ideal woman is "when the pawn" era Fiona Apple

[Human Snorenado]

Is she still orgasming in the corner?

[BlackMage]

I've decided I'll stay single until after the holidays to save money. I haven't been alone for 6 months so I've forgotten what to do with myself.  :'(  Currently playing World of Warcraft... Yeah, this is a low moment for me.

[BlackMage]

After thanksgiving, I'm gonna buy a christmas tree to make me happy.

[Smooth Groove]

Saving money is a pretty lame reason to not date.  There are plenty of thrifty ways to have fun. 

[BlackMage]

I got a lot of other problems.. my check engine light is on, and my credit card is near maxed out. I feel like I should take care of these things

[Smooth Groove]

Find a MILF with a secure job

[Phoenix Dark]

Agreed. It is cuffing season, after all.

[Eric P]

http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/news/is-charles-manson-getting-married-20131120

Charles Manson has a 25 year old girlfriend. 


November 20, 2013 12:00 PM ET

Charles Manson, perhaps the most infamous convicted killer of all time, is 79 years old and still locked up in California's Corcoran State Prison, where he walks with a cane and sports chipped prison dentures. Star is a 25-year-old brunette who's been loyally visiting Manson in jail since she was 19 years old and maintains several websites devoted to defending Manson and his pro-Earth environmental causes. And according to an astonishingly in-depth new profile by Rolling Stone contributing editor Erik Hedegaard in our new issue (on stands Friday) that was nearly two years in the making, the pair could be heading down the aisle. Sort of.

In 2007, Star moved to Corcoran to be near Charlie, who she visits each Saturday and Sunday for up to five hours a day. "Yeah, well, people can think I'm crazy," she likes to say. "But they don't know. This is what's right for me. This is what I was born for." She grew up near St. Louis, where her deeply religious family feared she'd lost her way ("I was smoking marijuana, eating mushrooms, not wanted to go to church every Sunday," she explains), so they locked her in her room for much of her high school years. A friend passed her some of Manson's environmental writing, and she started corresponding with him. When she was 19, she took the $2,000 she'd saved up working in a retirement home kitchen and hopped a train to Corcoran. Manson named her Star. She recently cut an X onto her forehead.

Star's resemblence to Manson Family member Susan Atkins is beyond striking, and Star seeks to distinguish herself from the woman known as Sexy Sadie, who was incarcerated for her role in the Tate-LaBianca killings until her death in 2009. "That bitch was fucking crazy," she tells RS. "She was a crazy fucking whore. 'Oh Charlie, I did this for you.' She didn't know what she was doing."

And Star says she can prove Manson is more devoted to her than any other girl: "I'll tell you straight up, Charlie and I are going to get married," she tells us. "When that will be, we don't know. But I take it very seriously. Charlie is my husband. Charlie told me to tell you this. We haven't told anybody about that."

Star says there won't be any conjugal visits because "California lifers no longer get them." If they were an option, "we'd be married by now."

Manson, however, seems less convinced the impending nuptials are a reality, "Oh that," he says. "That's a bunch of garbage. You know that, man. That's trash. We're just playing that for public consumption."

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Sounds like true love

[Raban]

Star says there won't be any conjugal visits because "California lifers no longer get them." If they were an option, "we'd be married by now."

bless California

[nudemacusers]

chicks dig scars, it is known.