Ok. Post the pics of the last 6 girls you've matched with.
Ok.
https://imgur.com/a/m6Ec4Only gay men would say I'm a 7 and hell men are the only people whoever say I'm not ugly. Shows how much they know. That's my point. I have actuall proof thanks to tinder that I'm pretty unatractive.
Thanks for calling me a gay man I guess.
Okay then. Tell me what women find attractive. Has a woman explicitly told you that you're ugly?
I didn't mean to be offensive. I just don't have any real experience with trans people honestly. So I don't know what to think about it. Other then obviously trying to respect the person's wishes first and foremost.
I guess I don't know what women find attractive, but I see women that I find attractive and typically they like more manly looking men. Not so short, not so skinny. Good hair that's stylized and not balding. Mostly white or latino. Good arms. Built in the chess I guess. Athletic. Has cool hobbies. Knows tools, cars. I don't know, is an actual man. Someone who has experience and knows how to actually handle women.
Sent your fb profile to 5 straight cis women so they can rate your looks.
Already got a reply back.
"He is ok looking I'll give him 7 "
Basically meh. So really average and probably wouldn't approach or want to be approached.
Real talk, Rah. Even if you don't want my advice apparently as a "gay dude", as someone who is attracted to and dated men, I can tell you 100% that you're not ugly. You're okay/on the cute-ish side.
And as someone who is actually me I can tell you this isn't actually reality. If I was I wouldn't have a hard time. I know what good looking guys go through. My friends are good looking guys. Women approach them. Women show interests in them. Women smile at them. Women want them to talk to them. Women talk about them. I don't get that even before I open my mouth.
Note that okay/kinda cute does not mean "hot". Hot takes work, okay/kinda cute can get you laid.
Apparently not.
Her: So his main pic looks really good but his other ones are kinda ehhhh. still above average looks tho I'd say. but I'm all about subjectivity and not everyone has the same type. *shrug* and I'm glad you're safe 🙂
Me: Completely agreed and thanks. I'm telling him he's not ugly. He's SOMEONE'S type but nope. "I'm ugly" it's really unattractive, girl.
Her: yeah for real. like, can't tell if low self-confidence or fishing for compliments >_> but either way its offputting. hopefully he's just having a rough patch. It happens to us all! dating is hard yo
Basically this just means "I don't find him attractive, but I guess someone will eventually." It's just a nice way of saying nope.
Yeah wow someone eventually will like me. Eventually and I guess I'll be happy if it's just one while everyone else has had sex and relationships tons of times.