It’s weird
Astro like folks say gender is a social construct
Yet , they keep it as a natural construct in spirit so that their pronoun can get validation
Also. If gender is a social construct, so is transsexualism , both of which are not natural or biological constructs
to say to yourself, I am a man, but I don't feel and act the way a man is supposed to, therefore I must be something else, are ironically normalizing the gender binary and societal constructs of what constitutes a man
rejecting gender starts from a narrow minded standpoint of assuming everyone has to behave a certain way
just be a man who plays with dolls and avoids conflict! it's fine, it's allowed! if you do that, it demonstrates to others that maleness is broader than what society has traditionally said, and helps others feel confident to call themselves men in spite of ______
if you say "in my heart I know I am a woman because I'm attracted to dresses and pretty pink decorations and want to dish about hot guys," that's offensively generalizing towards women, why can't you just be a man who does those things