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Title: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 04:43:11 PM
I just got invited to a little birthday party but I don't think I'm gonna go. I'm not a drinker and would look like a total taco if I showed up there and didn't drink anything. Also I'm kinda nervous overall since I don't speak anymore with the girl who invited me since she is not at my school anymore, and I don't know any of her friends and it would be awkward to sit in the middle of strangers. Yup I'm gay.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: TVC15 on February 16, 2008, 04:46:52 PM
So you don't particularly want to go and you don't know the people that will be there?  Sounds like a good enough reason not to go to me.  You're not gay, you just don't want to waste your free time.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Mupepe on February 16, 2008, 04:48:52 PM
So you don't particularly want to go and you don't know the people that will be there?  Sounds like a good enough reason not to go to me.  You're not gay, you just don't want to waste your free time.
pretty much.  if you think it's going to be awkward, it's not a bad reason to go.  Why would someone willingly put themselves in that situation?

BTW, you can go to parties and not drink and MOST people won't care.  Parties are for socializing, not necessarily for drinking.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 04:48:54 PM
So you don't particularly want to go and you don't know the people that will be there?  Sounds like a good enough reason not to go to me.  You're not gay, you just don't want to waste your free time.

This makes sense, but there is a part inside me that still wants to go. I don't socialize that much these days anymore and this would be a good oppertunity I think.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Tauntaun on February 16, 2008, 04:49:02 PM
Let's have a dance party instead.  :-*

A loli dance party.

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Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on February 16, 2008, 04:52:50 PM
I crash random parties where nobody knows me all the time, it's pretty much how I meet new people.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: TVC15 on February 16, 2008, 04:53:12 PM
So you don't particularly want to go and you don't know the people that will be there?  Sounds like a good enough reason not to go to me.  You're not gay, you just don't want to waste your free time.

This makes sense, but there is a part inside me that still wants to go. I don't socialize that much these days anymore and this would be a good oppertunity I think.

I dunno, there's nothing worse than being in the middle of a clique that you aren't a member of.  If you have anxieties about socialization, such an episode might exacerbate the issue rather than helping it.  When friends get drunk together, they tend to get really in-jokey, too. 
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on February 16, 2008, 04:54:18 PM
Let's have a dance party instead.  :-*

A loli dance party.

(http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k36/SlinkyT82/girldancing.gif)(http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k36/SlinkyT82/girldancing.gif)(http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k36/SlinkyT82/girldancing.gif)


I agree.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 04:59:27 PM
So you don't particularly want to go and you don't know the people that will be there?  Sounds like a good enough reason not to go to me.  You're not gay, you just don't want to waste your free time.

This makes sense, but there is a part inside me that still wants to go. I don't socialize that much these days anymore and this would be a good oppertunity I think.

I dunno, there's nothing worse than being in the middle of a clique that you aren't a member of.  If you have anxieties about socialization, such an episode might exacerbate the issue rather than helping it.  When friends get drunk together, they tend to get really in-jokey, too. 

This is all too logical dammit  :-\
You're supposed to encourage me, what if I meet a hot girl and get laid? Yous a real cockblocker TVC  :'(


jk, I appreciate your honesty.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: CajoleJuice on February 16, 2008, 05:12:44 PM
I just went to a party on Valentine's Day where I knew only one person. I had fun. You should go.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 05:29:31 PM
yeah but you're a carnale with big cojones I'm nowhere near that level.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: demi on February 16, 2008, 05:37:34 PM
You should stay and make more shitty posts
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 05:44:12 PM
what can I say man, you're my inspiration  :-[
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Joe Molotov on February 16, 2008, 05:59:16 PM
I just got invited to a little birthday party but I don't think I'm gonna go. I'm not a drinker and would look like a total taco if I showed up there and didn't drink anything. Also I'm kinda nervous overall since I don't speak anymore with the girl who invited me since she is not at my school anymore, and I don't know any of her friends and it would be awkward to sit in the middle of strangers. Yup I'm gay.

Don't worry about it, I'm sure they already know you're a total taco.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 06:00:33 PM
They don't even know me :maf
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: CajoleJuice on February 16, 2008, 06:08:57 PM
yeah but you're a carnale

I don't even know what that means.

Anyway, are you going with this chick or meeting her there? If it's the latter, just go, and if it really sucks or is awkward as fuck, uhhh leave.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: bud on February 16, 2008, 06:38:50 PM
just kill yourself already. that way, you won't have to worry about dilemma's like this one anymore
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 06:45:19 PM
I've decided to go. See you materialists later :pimp
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 10:13:42 PM
K it wasn't really a party it seems. Just a couple of dudes chilling and relaxing, smoking&drinking. Talking about politics, audio set-ups, DJ'ing and other miscelleanous bullshit. It was all good :pimp
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: CajoleJuice on February 16, 2008, 10:16:18 PM
See!
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: TVC15 on February 16, 2008, 10:26:31 PM
You could have spent that time masturbating.  Or fetishizing something.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 10:40:33 PM
See!

about the carnale thing, you know what it means right? I may have spelled it wrong, but it's what Mexicans call their friends.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: CajoleJuice on February 16, 2008, 10:41:58 PM
See!

about the carnale thing, you know what it means right? I may have spelled it wrong, but it's what Mexicans call their friends.

I really didn't know. I'm not Mexican.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 10:42:30 PM
I didn't say you were.
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: CajoleJuice on February 16, 2008, 10:44:28 PM
Hmmm
Title: Re: I am gay.
Post by: Powerslave on February 16, 2008, 10:47:02 PM
anyway you should check out the movie Blood In Blood Out. It's really fucking great, trust me on this.