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I agree that she doesn't deserve to have the kid; but it's a bit rough to not even let her know whether the kid is alive or dead. Also, as a recent parent, I have a very hard time with the idea that someone else could just decide that they were more fit to raise my child than I was and take her from me. Then again, in this case, Social Services might end up doing just that in a few years anyway. My head was spinning for hours after the ending...
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I agree that she doesn't deserve to have the kid; but it's a bit rough to not even let her know whether the kid is alive or dead. Also, as a recent parent, I have a very hard time with the idea that someone else could just decide that they were more fit to raise my child than I was and take her from me. Then again, in this case, Social Services might end up doing just that in a few years anyway. My head was spinning for hours after the ending...
I definitely agree on some points but...
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When you have a child in that kind of environment and neglect it as she obviously did, I think she loses all rights and I lose all respect for her as a parent. I know how you feel about "if that was my child" because I'd die not knowing that. But as an irresponsible mother, I think she made it clear that she didn't care that much in the first place and in that case my thinking not only goes for the child first but only for the child. I stop giving a shit about how the parent feels. She had her chance and she blew it. It was clear recorded fact in the movie that she was negligent and a horrible parent and put the child in danger. Fuck her. I loved thinking about it after the movie ended. It's impossible not to discuss.
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Yeah. And it made it very clear that the kid was also going to grow up to be a crackwhore who abused/neglected her own kids too. At some point, extreme measures are necessary to break that kind of destructive cycle I guess. You have to wonder what would have happened if they'd just gone to the mother and said 'let us adopt your kid'. She obviously loved the attention she got when her kid was missing but that was about the extent of her emotional involvement in the situation.
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Completely. She just seemed like she was happy to be the star of the moment and might get something out of it as well. They could have gone about it a different way, but if we're discussing the end, not the means, I believe it was the right thing.