awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww hell naaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwww
just always be there for her, pray her relationship goes tits up then swoop in
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww hell naaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwthis really is the best advice.
just always be there for her, pray her relationship goes tits up then swoop in
Do it. Listen to your heart and do it! Don't make the same mistake I did, God Dammit!:hyper
I love these stories. Can't give you any advice but hopefully we'll get a happy end. I'm a sucker for love stories :heart:heartbeat
you're setting yourself up for disappointment. if you go through some of my 19k posts around this time last year you'll see that I did exactly the same thing. It was great fun at first, but it fell apart and our friendship became pretty fucked.:-\
there ya go.spoiler (click to show/hide)but no i don't think it's morally wrong[close]
If you do, you may be happy forever, but you may also ruin your friendship and cause eternal suffering for yourself.:gloomy
If you don't, you may have made a terrible irreparable mistake, but you may also save yourself from eternal suffering.
NO PRESSURE
Don't do it, nothing is forever.:hyperspoiler (click to show/hide):-\[close]spoiler (click to show/hide)That even means friendship, so go for it. Have fun while it lasts.[close]
Combining the advice of Mups and PR, how do I go for it and show her I'm the best mayne, without fucking up her situation?
Combining the advice of Mups and PR, how do I go for it and show her I'm the best mayne, without fucking up her situation?
which is why he shouldn't try to fuck around with her while she's with this dude.Combining the advice of Mups and PR, how do I go for it and show her I'm the best mayne, without fucking up her situation?
Thats not possible man. I've slept with girls who were good friends before. Now we never speak.
Yeah, listen to ParticleReality, he's 15
so by default i have more experience.Yeah, listen to ParticleReality, he's 15
and you're divorced lulz
What if you aren't the best man? Ever thought of that?Get out of my head. :maf
It's not about sleeping with her, it's the whole "she completes me" thing.Combining the advice of Mups and PR, how do I go for it and show her I'm the best mayne, without fucking up her situation?
Thats not possible man. I've slept with girls who were good friends before. Now we never speak.
make an effort to be more of a friend. try to spend more time with her doing things you two have in common. just be her friend. she'll see it and if she doesn't, despite what you might think, that's not what she wants so it wasn't meant to be anyways.She invited me to her salsa dancing lessons. :heartbeat
with your second option he has nothing to do with it. but even if it doesn't fall apart just from the awkward friend sex, it will eventually fall apart if she really does care for the other guy.which is why he shouldn't try to fuck around with her while she's with this dude.
As I see it the other guy is not even important in this scenario. If they are friends and they fuck they either:
-live happily ever after
-ruin their friendship
You're screwed if you're already emotionally attached. If she just moved in with the guy, there's no chance really. You are in one of the suckiest places to be, the unattainable girl. Good luck.I was hoping the salsa dancing would compensate for the sharing of the rest of her time with him in one space. :(
Rebiak is she black or white?She's white, but I'm too, I was dicking around when I said I was black.
Oh and don't forget, sex isn't important for a good while. Get that shit outta your brain. It'll fuck yo shit up.
You heart's worst enemy is your dick. It can get confusing at times, your dick will try to take control but you gotta fight it. Use your love for her as a shield.
Remember this.
She's white, but I'm too, I was dicking around when I said I was black.
Wait PR is a fellow black man?
Listen to him.
It's ok, I'm taking it back.She's white, but I'm too, I was dicking around when I said I was black.
u fucking cracker!!!! what maeks you think that is a good idea????pretending to be a brother?????????????? wtf man if i ever saw u seriously id beat u like mohammed ali!!!!!!!(also black man BLACK PRIDE)
Are you really in love or did you just have an amazing night out with her, I mean after a 6 hour talk it's not strange the think for a second that there is more to this than just that: talk.I've known her for years, and always figured she was out of my league. Recently I feel better about myself, and I realized how stupid it is to dismiss such a good match.
Then again who am I to give relationship advice atm.
his faceOK, now you're freaking me out! Is this like Face/Off? I want to take his face... off...
it's your face now
put it on
PR is so white he lights up the room with a phosphorus glow when the moonlight hits him.
Bitches don't call me Candlelight Jones for nothin'.
I could date a girl with one sclerosis, but not multiple sclerosis. That's just too many scleroses.
Luckily, I have not been the fawning, being there every step of the way guy.
Basically we get it touch every year, go out, keep in touch for a month or so, and then lose contact.
We're both not really bothered with this pattern, and every year when we get in touch again, we still consider each other friends. This has been going on for 6 years now.
The first time we dated, so there was attraction right away, but it didn't work out, since we're both complicated people. We just decided to give up. The following years always one of us was in a relationship, but we like each others company enough to just hang out.
This time was different, since I'm not in a relationship, and I think I finally figured myself out enough to be in a functional relationship. In the conversation and the days after that, she showed how much she understands me, and she pushes me to be a better person. She also showed me her fears and weaknesses, which I think I can help her with. Basically it showed me how awesome we would be together.
BUT, you do have some good points. Yes, she is probably a girl looking for some attention and fun, since her boyfriend is a stay at home nerd. No, I'm not that certain I'm the better man, but I want to believe!
A girl in a relationship could like you back as much as you like her, but odds are she wont break it off for you. Too much sudden huge change is bad. I told a girl I liked her while she was in a relationship, and she said she was going to dump her boyfriend for me, but then like a week later she said she couldn't make such a huge change in her life.no. go for it
Just leave it alone or else you'll feel pretty shitty.
Side topic: Above mentioned girl is single now. Would it be weird for me to ask her out now?