You'll have to give me your cool GI Joes. Not the crappy ones you lit on fire either.
so basically you want my cobra
I don't get it dude. You're pretty attractive (no homo), you aren't fat, etc.
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
I'm the same way at my college. I'm a genuinely polite person upfront with most people, and I'm easy to talk to, but for some reason I'm never invited/called/really talked to in general. I hate my college more than I hate Eel O'Brian. I'm transferring at the semester to Akron to be in the city with the few friends that I have.
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
You should start using this as a point of strength. The majority of university students are co-dependent on one another, whereas you've failed so badly at maintaining friendships that you've been forced into premature independence. Embellish your loner qualities, and don't be afraid to initiate a conversation that you have no intention of contributing to. It's about keeping company, not about conversation. Some girls eat the creep-o loner persona up, I'm telling you 8)
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
I'm the same way at my college. I'm a genuinely polite person upfront with most people, and I'm easy to talk to, but for some reason I'm never invited/called/really talked to in general. I hate my college more than I hate Eel O'Brian. I'm transferring at the semester to Akron to be in the city with the few friends that I have.
Dude, don't retreat back to your old high school buddies just because you're getting ignored at university. It's a necessity that you learn how to be unimportant and uncared for amongst a group of peers, seriously. It's something you should struggle with. Besides, alot of the kids getting attention in first year are going to implode by 3rd year. It's awesome to watch from a distance.
Alain Delon, but he had the good sense to shave.
Alain Delon, but he had the good sense to shave.
My wife swears Alain Delon is the best looking man ever to walk the earth.
Father Mike and BlackMage make me sad. :(
I printed out a .gif of me to impress a girl and I tried to animate the pictures by flipping though them really fast. She never talked to me again.
You guys are attractive and look regular. I guess if you're shy like me, making friends isn't a big priority, BUT I definitely have the ability to make friends. I'm sure you do too. There's no way you're more shy than I am
My social skills have taken a pretty big hit from not really having any social contact with people for the last few years. I can't talk to people when there are more than three of us around; it makes me nervous. Actually in the last year or so I've developed a bit of stutter when I get nervous and I've become very inarticulate. I could better express myself when I was in grade 9 than now. And when I try to I usually make a fool of myself. It's really embarrassing and I stop trying after a while. I'm really boring to talk to as I never do anything. I mean when someone try to talk to me and their only question they really have is what did you do on the weekend and all I have to say is "nothing". They stop asking after the third week. I also have a deep rooted fear of someone asking me "friends". Like "what do you and your friends do" ect. I always have to lie or smile and nod my head. I've got such bad social anxiety that when I do find someone I can talk to, I get scared and end up distancing myself from them. Really I've just dug such a deep hole for myself that now I can't meet new people and I have no old people so I'm stuck being alone.
I'm the same way at my college. I'm a genuinely polite person upfront with most people, and I'm easy to talk to, but for some reason I'm never invited/called/really talked to in general. I hate my college more than I hate Eel O'Brian. I'm transferring at the semester to Akron to be in the city with the few friends that I have.
The thing is you guys have plenty to talk about, but you either seize up when the moment comes or just can't think of it on the fly.
So Mike, why not every day before you go out, make a mental checklist of 3 thing you did/read/are interested in, and don't come home until you've used up at least one of them. Are people losing interest because you actually did nothing? Or is it more that you're worried they won't approve of what you did do, be it stay at home and watch TV?
Did you make a flipbook of you flipping a flipbook?
wat? that's lame!
wat? that's lame!
Which bit?
I feel good. I feel great. I feel wonderful. baby steps
only seeing friends every couple months. That's folly!!!
I feel good. I feel great. I feel wonderful. baby steps
And remember! just because Bildi doesn't see them, doesn't mean his friends don't see him!spoiler (click to show/hide)Every night while he's sleeping. :shh[close]
And one of the biggest problems I do have with making friends with a similar hobby is that most other people who have an addiction to video games/anime/whatever suck. Sometimes I feel like the greater collection of the good kind post here. I mean, I remember checking out an Anime club on campus and I was totally baffled at how much I didn't fit in. I like anime, they like anime, but why do I feel strange for taking showers and not singing the opening to Haruhi? I actually had to leave the room because the wahjah was too intense.
so basically you want my cobra
Yo, Joe!
you guys should hang out with stoners more.
what I want to say is that you can have a lot of friends, but they wouldn't matter if they're (what i personally call) "energy-draining friends". they're the type that you feel exhausted after meeting up or even talking to them (I don't even mean the people you need to change who you are to talk to).
I've made maybe 5 or 6 friends since entering college. I'm a shy person and always have been, which causes me to sort of drift through classes (when I attend). Perhaps the best thing that's happened to me on the social front is finding a friend-girl, but she'll be moving to NY soon :'(
I've made maybe 5 or 6 friends since entering college. I'm a shy person and always have been, which causes me to sort of drift through classes (when I attend). Perhaps the best thing that's happened to me on the social front is finding a friend-girl, but she'll be moving to NY soon :'(
Cool, where in NY?
I've made maybe 5 or 6 friends since entering college. I'm a shy person and always have been, which causes me to sort of drift through classes (when I attend). Perhaps the best thing that's happened to me on the social front is finding a friend-girl, but she'll be moving to NY soon :'(
Cool, where in NY?
:-\
She'll be going to NYU, staying on campus
I'm trying to convince her to stay here and go to U of M
Who needs people. They're all worthless distinguished effete fellows anyways. People you grow up with talk about you behind your back, and the people you thought were once worthwhile are actually spineless snakes.
People are worthless.
Let's all just make love and have sex.spoiler (click to show/hide)I'm a laid back person and don't give a fuck what people think. I've got tons of acquaintances, but very few people I'd ever really consider a true friend. True friends are rare.[close]
Found out that girl that I met isn't interested :'(
Father Mike I'ma transfer to your school so we can be social tards together
see this is nice, guys giving concerned about a net pal and they're giving advice.
if this thread was on GAF the first page would be full of "FHUTA" posts :-\