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Title: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: lordmaji on January 16, 2009, 07:55:11 PM
That I didn't know about. I apparently have 2 brothers and a sister. I never knew my "real" father and apparently his sister got a hold of my mom and well... What a mind trip that is.

Brothers that are 23, 15 and a sister that's 20. It's sort of fucked up. I dunno what to honestly think about it all.

Anyone else had shit like this pop up randomly in their lives?
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: demi on January 16, 2009, 08:00:04 PM
That I didn't know about. I apparently have 2 brothers and a sister. I never knew my "real" father and apparently his sister got a hold of my mom and well... What a mind trip that is.

Brothers that are 23, 15 and a sister that's 20. It's sort of fucked up. I dunno what to honestly think about it all.

Anyone else had shit like this pop up randomly in their lives?

Are they rich? Take advantage, man. Get buddy with them.

I apparently have a second sister that my mom put up for adoption. I'm still the oldest. I think she's making it up, though.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: lordmaji on January 16, 2009, 08:00:53 PM
I hear a lot of stories like this due to how popular (secret) polygamy is around here, but man that must be a tough situation I can't imagine how it feels.

Did you get in contact with them yet (or will you anytime soon)?

Not sure. I'm talking to my "aunt" at the moment, she's kind of filling me in. Dunno how it feels. I'm numb.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: drew on January 16, 2009, 08:03:25 PM
no.  my mom told me a year back that i would have had an older brother but he died before he was born

good thing ive had plenty of good role models and my friend's older bros to beat on me regularly so i didnt grow up "a gay"
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Madrun Badrun on January 16, 2009, 08:04:17 PM
Are you going to meet them? 

Not knowing my father I'm always worried that something like this will happen.

As for skeletons jumping out of closets.  In grade 8 I was having super with my mom and grandma and they were talking about when my mom was 1...anyways long story short I found out that my grandpa isn't the blood father of my mom, so no blood relation to me, and that my grandparents didn't get married till till my mom was 2.  I learn't all this in the course of about 20 seconds and what's worse is that they both assumed for some reason that I already knew. 

Also one xmas my mom got a flower basket and when I read the name turned out it was my father.  When I asked my mom about it, it turnes out he sent them to my aunts to because apparently my aunts and him still talk.  That was weird. 
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: demi on January 16, 2009, 08:22:39 PM
you're my brother. 

wild incest...
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: lordmaji on January 16, 2009, 08:23:59 PM
Wouldn't it be awesome if one of them turned out to be Forgotten Ancient (then creepy because he knew all along)?

Anyhow, it's a tough situation. I wouldn't get in contact right away if I were you, let it sink in. We're talking about new uncles and aunts for your kids, it's not an easy decision to take...

Unless they're rich like demi said.

Yeah, I hear ya man. That's why I just sit on stuff like this. Unless they're rich... which I don't think they are. :P
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Flannel Boy on January 16, 2009, 08:51:20 PM
you're my brother. 

wild incest...

Speaking of which, what happened to Brandnew?
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Madrun Badrun on January 16, 2009, 09:11:01 PM
you're my brother. 

wild incest...

Speaking of which, what happened to Brandnew?

I bet he's just over worked with school.  You can imagine how much work there must be in a "Music as a world phenomenon" class. 
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: lordmaji on January 16, 2009, 09:11:27 PM
you're my brother. 

wild incest...

you're my brother

wild incest...
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Madrun Badrun on January 16, 2009, 09:11:57 PM
you're my brother. 

wild incest...

you're my brother

wild incest...

that's really the best kind.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Diunx on January 16, 2009, 09:12:18 PM
I think the most important think to do right know is to find out if you have a hot sister.

Good luck. :teehee
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Madrun Badrun on January 16, 2009, 09:15:15 PM
Ya if she's hot can I call dibs on her number.

So how are you feeling about it now Maji?
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: lordmaji on January 16, 2009, 09:23:08 PM
I'm my own brother

wild incest...
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: lordmaji on January 16, 2009, 09:23:49 PM
Ya if she's hot can I call dibs on her number.

So how are you feeling about it now Maji?

Not sure yet Mike. Don't really know what to feel to be honest. Dunno if I will. It's... odd for sure.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: BobbyRobby on January 17, 2009, 03:05:06 AM
my uncle who knocked up some woman before i was born reunited with the family about two years ago.  it was cool getting new cousins out of nowhere.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: elektrikluv on January 17, 2009, 03:44:46 AM
I've had a similar shock. My dad lives in Morocco and I see him once a year (and when younger, 3 times a year). Anyway for 2 years I didn't see him, then when he realises we're going to visit he decides to confess that he's married a 24 year old who's pregnant with my half brother  :-\ Still haven't seen the baby, apparently he is the spitting image of me (as I look a lot like my dad but the female version). Funny thing is, he probably wouldn't have said anything if we didn't decide to go to Morocco that year.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: drozmight on January 17, 2009, 06:15:05 AM
just make them your friend on facebook/myspace and ignore them.

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Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: drozmight on January 17, 2009, 06:16:35 AM
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Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Kestastrophe on January 17, 2009, 08:50:07 AM
Wow, that is crazy. I would trip, that's for sure. This is what the south does to you and from what I've heard, its not that uncommon.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Olivia Wilde Homo on January 17, 2009, 10:01:25 AM
I have over 40 cousins, several of which I have not met yet.
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Tauntaun on January 17, 2009, 10:20:26 AM
This same thing (almost exactly) just happened to my cousin last year.  His father left when he was really young and last year he found he had a half brother and sister.  What I told him is it's awesome if you eventually become close but you have no ties to these people so if nothing works out, there's nothing lost.  Hope you're ok.

:heartbeat lordmaji :heartbeat

:bow marrying a redhead :bow2
Title: Re: Hrmm Well I just found out I have siblings...
Post by: Fresh Prince on January 18, 2009, 06:42:00 AM
Yeah unless you're the 'rich' sibling