THE BORE
General => The Superdeep Borehole => Topic started by: Phoenix Dark on August 08, 2006, 07:17:45 PM
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This has been done on GAF before, but I want to get my fellow Evilborian's thoughts on this touchy subject. I am especially interested in interracial dating in the gay community. Is it a big issue?
Personally, I like all women. Of course I'm most used to black women since I'm black, but I would love to date someone of a different race (latinas especially). Although, I will say that I'd think before dating a white person. Not because I'm racist, just because of the world we live in. That would take a serious committment, no stupid infatuations and crap. On more than one occassion my grandparents have pulled me aside and nervously asked me if I was dating a white chick lol. I understand where their prejudices are coming from, and I'm sure they aren't the only elderly people who feel like that -_-
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8)
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Were there any problems with parents or anything like that?
"Mom, I met this asian chick..."
"Ok..."
"On the internet"
'..."
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My parents love CrystalGemini. They think she makes me dress better, I'm less wild than I used to be and a lot calmer. She got me to voluntarily go to a wedding and put on a suit, something my mom had to almost knock me out to do when I was even in the party. My sister thinks she's funny.
... her folks don't know exist. And how!
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Hey Wilco, tell us about how you're dating a board member, again. What's it like? ::)
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Aw, so her parents don't know? :(
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Hey Wilco, tell us about how you're dating a board member, again. What's it like? ::)
He asked me about it, Shake. Quit being bitter because the only thing to keep you warm on those cold Sunday nights are new ATHF episodes.
Aw, so her parents don't know?
No, they'd freak out if they knew.
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WHAT NEW ATHF EPISODES?! :'( :'( :'(
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WHAT NEW ATHF EPISODES?! :'( :'( :'(
Christopher will keep you company.
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My boyfriend is full blooded Italian, though that's still considered white, right?
I guess I'm not as exotic as willco ; ;
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Well that would certainly suck. Have you met them? :(
That's one of the problems I'd be really concerned about. If the parents are accepting, it can possibly lead to some complications. I know a guy who tried that. His parents (both of whom are from Africa) didn't know he was dating a white girl, but when they found out...BAM. Grounded for two freaking months.
He's 17 :lol
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My dad's not a racist or anything, but I think he'd be a little taken aback if I dated a black guy or a middle eastern guy.
My mom probably wouldn't care at all.
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We can never be together.
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My folks wouldn't care if I dated White Man :o...
... I have not met CrystalGemini's folks, but even if they knew about me, they'd have absolutely no desire to meet me. In fact, I am pretty sure they'd tell her that I can't come over.
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I'm (mostly) white and my girlfriend is asian. The racial difference isn't worth a second thought, and if anyone I knew objected to it I'd drop them like a rock. When you let other people's ignorant stigmas govern your life you are just as bad as they are.
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So.....
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"Who Wants a Mustache Ride?"
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Love is love.
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Good responces. EB has done well
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No, they'd freak out if they knew.
It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
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No, they'd freak out if they knew.
It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
:lol
Asians don't like back people
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dating, maybe asian females as I feel attracted to them easily, but on a serious scale, I'd probably only really date a caucasian girl on a long-term... then again you never know what wicked surprises life has in store for you
it's not that some people are necessarily racist or fearful of their peers' reactions even if the latter is often sadly a huge factor -- it's that in some cases they've grown in an environment with their only peers being people of their own racial origin, so they can't really be attracted as purely to most other races that look too different from their own as they breed specific standards of beauty
things I guess are different for people growing up in cosmopolitan towns/states
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My folks wouldn't care if I dated White Man :o...
... I have not met CrystalGemini's folks, but even if they knew about me, they'd have absolutely no desire to meet me. In fact, I am pretty sure they'd tell her that I can't come over.
so does that means you've both accepted that your relation will be ephemeral or do you still hang on hope of some future acceptance?
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It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
This is true. Her folks may hate me, but they'd disown her for dating a black guy.
so does that means you've both accepted that your relation will be ephemeral or do you still hang on hope of some future acceptance?
What do her parent's acceptance of me have to do with us? Absolutely nothing.
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No, they'd freak out if they knew.
It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
:lol
Asians don't like back people
And who could blame 'em? :-*
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But what about marriage!
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No, they'd freak out if they knew.
It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
:lol
Asians don't like back people
And who could blame 'em? :-*
:lol
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Being from scotland, I've never really had to think about it. I don't think I would care about skin colour..except for unnatural skin colours like blue or something. :P
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But what about marriage!
I'm 22. I'm not thinking about marriage right now. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. Who knows.
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Are you in college? o_O
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I'm pretty sure the only race my parents (and grandparents) would raise their eyebrows at would be if I dated a black girl. Even then, it wouldn't be a big deal probably. I don't find many black girls attractive anyhow, though. Not too many asians either. Now if I was gay...
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I'm pretty sure the only race my parents (and grandparents) would raise their eyebrows at would be if I dated a black girl. Even then, it wouldn't be a big deal probably. I don't find many black girls attractive anyhow, though. Not too many asians either. Now if I was gay...
OMG racist
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I'm pretty sure the only race my parents (and grandparents) would raise their eyebrows at would be if I dated a black girl. Even then, it wouldn't be a big deal probably. I don't find many black girls attractive anyhow, though. Not too many asians either. Now if I was gay...
OMG racist
I'm just stating how I feel PD. It's probably due to me seeing basically only white girls as I grew up.
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I'm joking dude. To tell the truth, I find most blondes to be a major turnoff. So it's all good XD
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I'm joking dude. To tell the truth, I find most blondes to be a major turnoff. So it's all good XD
I'm more of a brunette man myself as well.
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That's the truth. Brunettes FTW. Blondes are overrated imho.
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As I said before, I want a Cost Plus international import sampler of women. All the fine booty the world has to offer.
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As I said before, I want a Cost Plus international import sampler of women. All the fine booty the world has to offer.
That's actually a good idea. All the booties of the world lined up. You only get to stick one. WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE
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I'm not opposed to interracial dating at all. Personally, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man. I'm not really down with that general area's attitudes towards women.
Also, I don't really date guys under 6', which counts out the vast majority of a lot of races. Isn't a color thing, though.
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I'm not opposed to interracial dating at all. Personally, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man. I'm not really down with that general area's attitudes towards women.
Also, I don't really date guys under 6', which counts out the vast majority of a lot of races. Isn't a color thing, though.
I'm 6'3 and I wear a size 13 shoe.
!!!
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5'10"-ish and wear a size 15 shoe.
I'm not in college. I do graphic design for a housewares company.
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I'm not opposed to interracial dating at all. Personally, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man. I'm not really down with that general area's attitudes towards women.
Also, I don't really date guys under 6', which counts out the vast majority of a lot of races. Isn't a color thing, though.
I'm 6'3 and I wear a size 13 shoe.
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I'm 5'7" and wear a size 10.
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I'm taller than Willco and ...wait, are you whitefu or fancie? :lol
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<--- Me?
All Federman. Accept no substitutions. I'm over 5'10", closer to 5'11" but not quite there (damn you height!). And for some brands, I wear size 16 (like Nike). I am some kind of mutant.
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I'm taller than Willco and ...wait, are you whitefu or fancie? :lol
I was PRJuice here originally, PuertoRicanJuice at GAF.
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And Willco, you must look like you're wearing clown shoes all the time.
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NO I DON'T
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NO I DON'T
(http://rsb.info.nih.gov/ij/images/clown.jpg)
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Big feet? We all know what that means AMIRITE
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I'm really small. 5'3, 110 lbs. So it's hard for me to find guys who are smaller than me, but yeah, I probably wouldn't date one that was.
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I'm really small. 5'3, 110 lbs. So it's hard for me to find guys who are smaller than me, but yeah, I probably wouldn't date one that was.
pics plz
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I'm 5'7" and wear a size 10.
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Me too, but my shoe's an 11 ;)
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If it weren't for interracial relationships you wouldn't have as fine a specimen as me posting here.
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Being from scotland, I've never really had to think about it. I don't think I would care about skin colour..except for unnatural skin colours like blue or something. :P
I have a lot of Scottish blood in me and I think my surname is pretty common over there. I want to visit the UK so bad.
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I've been dating a Japanese girl for six months now, and it's been going great. I was warned that there might be some problems when I met her family; if they didn't like me or hated non-Japanese, I should consider the relationship to be over. But when I met them, they received me quite warmly, and I often go to their house and wind up spending the night there (in a separate room from my girlfriend, of course :'(). I also brought my parents over to meet them when they came to visit me, and that went off incredibly well.
Her parents even inivited me to come and meet some of their extended family during the Obon holiday, which I did; I spent the entire day with her parents and some of their cousins/siblings, without my girlfriend even being there (she had to work). They're almost like a second family to me now; it's kind of scary, but considering the way things have been going with both my girl and her family, I think I'm going to end up being married to her within a year or two. :o :lol Quite frankly, I think I'd be all for it; we just get along so damn well together, but obviously, no need to rush.
Tomorrow we're both going to go on a week-long vacation to the States. I'm going to show her around Atlanta, and she's going to meet my family and friends. She's incredibly excited since this will be her first time in the U.S.
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I'm really small. 5'3, 110 lbs. So it's hard for me to find guys who are smaller than me, but yeah, I probably wouldn't date one that was.
:p
A guy smaller than 5'3 would be hitting that dwarfism look. Though...i'm 5'4...so i'm hitting close...but I don't look like a dwarf!
Oh and I've always wanted to date a black girl but most girls in the area that are black have polar opposite personalities so thats been a no go.
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I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.
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I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.
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Yeah, I'm all about breaking the perception.
A couple of things. CrystalGemini's ancestry is Chinese, I hate anime (well, I own the Cowboy Bebop movie, but that's about it), I have no fascination with Japanese or Asian culture and I never touched anything with non-English characters on the label until I met CrystalGemini. So yeah, it really has nothing to do with that.
I've dated women of all cultures. I'm the mixing pot of ethnic dating!
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I used to work with this old guy who had all these Asian massage parlor cards, seemed to date exclusively Asian women (not to mention would check every one he ever ran into out excessively with no designs on subtlety) and even tried to marry a Thai women so she could get permanent residency despite having only known her for two weeks. When they went to Town Hall though he found out he actually hadn't been divorced from his ex-wife and by the time the divorce went through it was too late, lol.
I think that's what messed me up. Made for an unpleasant remainder of the month at work. :(
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I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.
Shallow AND stupid. :-\
Back home all the anime losers I knew dated other anime losers. The Asian girls could care less; that's got jack to do with it. If you're that much of an anime "cultured" loser back home, it's not like you're magically going to become "gaijin stud" and gets loads of chicks here either. Unless you want to count the girls paid to talk to you at maid cafes, I guess. Otaku am cry :'(
Anime is just typical cartoons here...just like the toons back home. It's not even so much anime-related goods that people might be obsessed with or buy character goods like clothes, pencil cases, etc. It's whatever they think is cute. I see far more Elmo, Stitch, Mickey Mouse, and Snoopy goods that students have at work than I ever do anything anime-related.
BTW, there's many kinds of "Asian girls." It's not like they're all Japanese or Chinese. :P
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How did his post about not wanting to be part of a stereotype turn into "lawl lookit me I actually LIVE there" in the form of a rebuttal?
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Im actually part asian and am not often attracted to asian women. Then again I dont really hang around many asian women, so I think its more an issue of statistics. LAWWWWWWWWWWLZ
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I feel that interracial dating is fine, and is nobody's business except the two people involved in the relationship.
Myself, my first GF was Korean, and I've dated a Mexican chick and a Puerto Rican gal over the years (in addition to the usual flavors of "white girls" :D), and just got the number of a HAWT Egyptian gal Saturday night that I'm excited about. :P I'm generally attracted to exotic types; even among white girls, I'm drawn to brunettes with dark eyes and olive or tan skin (e.g., Mediterranean girls). Blondes have to be more attractive than brunettes in order to catch my eye, though many obviously fit the bill. :)
Sometimes I wonder if my first love (the Korean girl) shaped my subconscious perception of attractiveness, since she had dark hair/eyes etc. But then I recall that even when I was young (12-14) I found brunettes more attractive, so...
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Im down with whatever as long as there cute
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I don't mind what color or race a girl is. I just love girls period. :)
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You sick meunstration fetish motherfucker
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You sick meunstration fetish motherfucker
Hahaha :lol :rofl
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I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.
Shallow AND stupid. :-\
Back home all the anime losers I knew dated other anime losers. The Asian girls could care less; that's got jack to do with it. If you're that much of an anime "cultured" loser back home, it's not like you're magically going to become "gaijin stud" and gets loads of chicks here either. Unless you want to count the girls paid to talk to you at maid cafes, I guess. Otaku am cry :'(
Anime is just typical cartoons here...just like the toons back home. It's not even so much anime-related goods that people might be obsessed with or buy character goods like clothes, pencil cases, etc. It's whatever they think is cute. I see far more Elmo, Stitch, Mickey Mouse, and Snoopy goods that students have at work than I ever do anything anime-related.
BTW, there's many kinds of "Asian girls." It's not like they're all Japanese or Chinese. :P
The anime/game/Japan geeks (including a guy I used to work with at Best Buy) I've seen into Asian chicks have ugly Asian girlfriends, not the typical Asian beauty or above-average looking girl you see on the internet or trade shows...
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I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.
Shallow AND stupid. :-\
Back home all the anime losers I knew dated other anime losers. The Asian girls could care less; that's got jack to do with it. If you're that much of an anime "cultured" loser back home, it's not like you're magically going to become "gaijin stud" and gets loads of chicks here either. Unless you want to count the girls paid to talk to you at maid cafes, I guess. Otaku am cry :'(
Anime is just typical cartoons here...just like the toons back home. It's not even so much anime-related goods that people might be obsessed with or buy character goods like clothes, pencil cases, etc. It's whatever they think is cute. I see far more Elmo, Stitch, Mickey Mouse, and Snoopy goods that students have at work than I ever do anything anime-related.
BTW, there's many kinds of "Asian girls." It's not like they're all Japanese or Chinese. :P
The anime/game/Japan geeks (including a guy I used to work with at Best Buy) I've seen into Asian chicks have ugly Asian girlfriends, not the typical Asian beauty or above-average looking girl you see on the internet or trade shows...
Oh I don't doubt that.
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I am interested in interracial dating in the homosexual community. Is it big?
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Is it ever!
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no pictures of hot interracial women? this thread disappoints me.