Too many married people in this thread. Where is single-bore? :'(
Too many married people in this thread. Where is single-bore? :'(
Secrets of Manaplaying Seiken Densetsu 3 with a friend. I never made it through alone (so fucking boring), but he had never played Secret of Mana until we went through it a couple of months ago, and now he wants more lol. Hopefully it's more bearable when you're really high and doing co-op.
SC2 Beta, andSecrets of Manaplaying Seiken Densetsu 3 with a friend. I never made it through alone (so fucking boring), but he had never played Secret of Mana until we went through it a couple of months ago, and now he wants more lol. Hopefully it's more bearable when you're really high and doing co-op.
I really had to resist the urge to say SECRET OF MANA IS POOP PLAY EVERMORE INSTEAD
Too many married people in this thread. Where is single-bore? :'(
Evermore is for real Americans. Mana is for weeaboosYeah Evermore is superior in just about every way unless you're a filthy japafag, but I think Mana is ALMOST as good up until you start flying from dungeon to dungeon running errands for the birdman sage. Ruined any sense of exploration, which Evermore has in spades. Man I love that game. Easily top 5 SNES
Prove me wrong
I have a friend that just came into town last night and we're hanging out until after the holiday. Just got back from a day trip to Baltimore, I'm thinking about driving up to New York with her tomorrow.
I have no idea what that is.Hookah, beer, and the Magics/Celtics game at my friend's house later. I have nothing planned for tomorrow so most likely random gaming. My best friend's birthday is on Sunday and he wants to go to City Island.Seriously? IT'S BLACK BEACH WEEK
Btw, what's the deal with Memorial Day weekend and Miami? I know way too many people that went/are going there this year.
Too many married people in this thread. Where is single-bore? :'(
Hookah, beer, and the Magics/Celtics game at my friend's house later. I have nothing planned for tomorrow so most likely random gaming. My best friend's birthday is on Sunday and he wants to go to City Island.Seriously? IT'S BLACK BEACH WEEK
Btw, what's the deal with Memorial Day weekend and Miami? I know way too many people that went/are going there this year.
don't you hate it when you're so bored you don't even feel like masturbating?
Hookah, beer, and the Magics/Celtics game at my friend's house later. I have nothing planned for tomorrow so most likely random gaming. My best friend's birthday is on Sunday and he wants to go to City Island.Seriously? IT'S BLACK BEACH WEEK
Btw, what's the deal with Memorial Day weekend and Miami? I know way too many people that went/are going there this year.
Every week is BLACK BEACH WEEK if you live around the gulf of mexico.
I have a friend that just came into town last night and we're hanging out until after the holiday. Just got back from a day trip to Baltimore, I'm thinking about driving up to New York with her tomorrow.
I have a friend that just came into town last night and we're hanging out until after the holiday. Just got back from a day trip to Baltimore, I'm thinking about driving up to New York with her tomorrow.
doin thangs :bow
single-bore :bow
This last week has pretty much been the worst week of my life. My wife is going through some depression/identity crisis and told me that she doesn't love me anymore, which I know is a lie, most likely to hurt my feelings. Needless to say, I have been a wreck all week and I even had to call in one day because I was sick from drinking the night before. I've lost my appetite and I haven't been able to sleep for more than 5 hours or so a night, most of which is spent tossing and turning.
Anyways, the wife was planning on spending the night at a friend's house on Friday or Saturday. She left on Friday evening and I haven't seen her since. Yesterday was actually my birthday and I had reserved a restaurant for 6 close friends or so and I even reserved a local bed and breakfast hoping to work some stuff out. I receive text messages yesterday (real mature, right?) saying that literally everyone cancelled and that my friend was going out to the bar so I should tag along with him. Trying to pawn me off on a friend so she doesn't feel guilty about missing my bday (yes, that's how cold my own wife and best friend of the last 9 years has become just over the last 2 weeks :'(). So yesterday I drove to the inlaws and asked for their advice/help, knowing that my mother in law can put the fear of god into waifu. That went well and I got some good personal coping advice (and mother inlaw is in fact going to lay the smack down), but it was pretty much the worst birthday. There is much more to the story, but I don't want to get into all the details. I just feel emotionally spent. Any tips on how not to feel sorry for yourself or advice in general would be greatly appreciated
How many times have you said you're done with the opposite sex for a while? It's like Triumph saying he's "done with drinking for a while" (or anyone other than PD, for that matter).
She sounds like a waste, I guess it's better to find out sooner than later. Not that I'd know much about that. Or Cajole
single-bore :(
At first I thought that there was another man (we have sex problems i.e. she hasn't initiated it for over a year ), but I am certain that's not the case.
Nah this is normal for marriage.
Nah this is normal for marriage.
Awaiting confirmation...
I'd argue distant's relationship is the not normal one.
According to the law, a year of no sex is pretty cut and dry grounds for divorce. Not that I hope that happens to you. :-\Well I think they've had sex, she just doesn't initiate it. Sorry if I'm mistaken.
Received a petal and 50 talons biiiiiiiiiittttccchhhh
drunk as shit
According to the law, a year of no sex is pretty cut and dry grounds for divorce. Not that I hope that happens to you. :-\Well I think they've had sex, she just doesn't initiate it.
According to the law, a year of no sex is pretty cut and dry grounds for divorce. Not that I hope that happens to you. :-\Well I think they've had sex, she just doesn't initiate it.
Correct. And she likes it ( 8)). We talked about it late last year once and she said it was work related stress, which I believe. I also think this is what her depression stems from, but she is so closed off now that there is no getting to the bottom of it. I did make an appt with a therapist for this Friday, so hopefully that helps out.
How many times have you said you're done with the opposite sex for a while? It's like Triumph saying he's "done with drinking for a while" (or anyone other than PD, for that matter).
I actually feel relieved. After what that bitch has put me through the past two weeks, its amazing how quick you can come to not caring for someone.
I hope your wife at least lets you know what's really going on. It's much more frustrating when you don't even know why someone is acting out.
I think a temporary separation would be good for both of us at this point, as last night was the first livable night in the apartment since we started fighting 3 weeks ago. Last night and today seriously felt like a huge weight had been lifted off of our shoulders and we were able to communicate openly and honestly. I can't tell you how happy that made me. A separation of 3 months or so would give her the space she needs and time to think about things, like I said I still think that she cares about me. I don't know if this is a "grass is greener" type of thing with her, but either way I am not ready to get a divorce. There is still hope left for our marriage, and a separation would let us get on with our lives and hopefully allow us to notice how much we actually care for and miss each other.
Having never been in such a meaningful relationship before, I can't say for sure but it almost seems likes she was trying to make you dump her.That's what I think too, but I am positive there isn't another dude (read the sex stuff above). I believe that she thinks that she hasn't loved me for a long time and that I am the source of her unhappiness, which is why I think a separation would be good for both of us
fucked up man.ya, its really weird and totally out of character for her. All of this has literally happened within a month. I even suspected her of drug use for awhile, because her behavior is so erratic. I think I said this before, but if we had the completely mild and tame argument that precipitated this a month ago, I think everything would be peachy. She is like a completely different person the last 3 weeks :-\
The hard part is getting her to talk to fix what's actually going on which she seems to just flat out refuse to do.You are very correct, and its (one) of the parts that I don't get. Its like she doesn't want to take ownership or responsibility for her actions, etc. and puts all of those responsibilities off by continuing her downward spiral
The hard part is getting her to talk to fix what's actually going on which she seems to just flat out refuse to do.You are very correct, and its (one) of the parts that I don't get. Its like she doesn't want to take ownership or responsibility for her actions, etc. and puts all of those responsibilities off by continuing her downward spiral
Don't we have some psychologists here? Hook a brother up
We started dating in 2001, I was only 18 and she was 16. We got married two years ago. She does need professional help, but I doubt very much that she would be receptive to anything I have to say. I tried to talk to her earlier this week, and she threw a tantrum like a little kid. She has maturity and selfishness problems, but I am pretty sure that she is depressed. In retrospect, I should have seen it sooner, but I can't change what happened.
I can't imagine how tough this is for you, but hang in there man, I sure hope that things will work out for you in the end.Things will definitely work out for me either way (still sucks in the short term), its her that I am worried about. I am pretty sure she is depressed and has a drinking problem. Plus she isn't responding to her mom's phone calls and is hanging out with a bunch of losers. Even if she does kill our relationship, I hope she can live with the things she's done. I know I would have a hard time sleeping at night if it were me
Also, since you will have some time alone:This is actually hilarious. When I knew that the bed and breakfast I reserved was going to go unused, my brother told me to rent a bunch of pornos and jerk off all night :lolspoiler (click to show/hide)(http://imgur.com/Q1xmX.jpg)[close]
Semi-update: Scheduled a therapist appointment for Friday, and Cunt Wife miraculously agreed to go without too much fuss. Also, mama bear came up and was asking questions, but it was less of a smackdown than the bitch needed. I can only imagine that she has something better in store. I talked to the bitch earlier today, apparently mother in law asked where she was on my b-day and the cunt lied and said "we got lost". lol. Lying to your own mother, on top of the inhumane shit she has done to me. I told her "good luck living with yourself", cuz I know she'll snap out of it and kick herself in the jeans when she realizes how many bridges she's burned.
In case you can't tell by the tone, I've had it. I have started looking for somewhere else to live and as of right now, I consider this over. It would take a miraculous turn in character or help in therapy to save this now. Good fucking riddance
So she'll get half of your hard earned shit? smh :'(