Her vag probably looks like its been through the holocaust.
depends, does she have girls or boys?Boy or girl, doesn't matter.
If she was substantially more attractive than the women I'd normally date and the kid was cool, yes. It worked out really well for my brother-in-law.How old were they when they first meet?
If she was substantially more attractive than the women I'd normally date and the kid was cool, yes. It worked out really well for my brother-in-law.How old were they when they first meet?
Would you date a mtf post-op transsexual?
Been there, done that, no thanks in the future.Can you share with us more? like at what age you meet, how long have you been together and why it didn't work out?
did.
Couldn't get a third date. Nice lady she was.
No and its more due to not wanting to be some revolving man in that poor kids lifeI want to hear more about this.
Would you date a mtf post-op transsexual?
does s/he have kids?
How old were you two and the kid?the kid was very young, less then two, I was 23 and she was about the same age.
No and its more due to not wanting to be some revolving man in that poor kids lifeI want to hear more about this.
Won't it actually be better for the child to have someone else to at least support his/her mother by providing her with a shoulder to rest on?
Chick from work I was really into, she was really cool and we'd go see shows together, hang. she was pretty awesome - but she had a 5 year old autistic kid. She was pretty clear about not looking for an insta father, but I just knew there was now way I could take on that sorta responsibility. I kinda let things fizzle. Do sort of regret it now.Regret dating her or pulling out? How old where the two of you?
I see, so you try to avoid it all from the first place, no taking chances with dating and getting to know each other.No and its more due to not wanting to be some revolving man in that poor kids lifeI want to hear more about this.
Won't it actually be better for the child to have someone else to at least support his/her mother by providing her with a shoulder to rest on?
Definitely, I'm sure single mom's like anyone feel that sense of loneliness and I feel its a case of "Who am I to judge?". But the relationship between a Man and Woman and her child is seemingly that of a balancing act of time when the man and her child are kept apart. Then there's letting the dude fully into her life but any new relationship is unsure so how can one build a bond with the kid and then move on when it doesn't work with the mother? This is me thinking about this stuff though, I'm sure theres guys at there that don't pay it any mind. All I know is that I couldn't unless I was 100% on being with the woman and being there for the kid. If I'm not, there's a world full of single women I can be with instead.
Chick from work I was really into, she was really cool and we'd go see shows together, hang. she was pretty awesome - but she had a 5 year old autistic kid. She was pretty clear about not looking for an insta father, but I just knew there was now way I could take on that sorta responsibility. I kinda let things fizzle. Do sort of regret it now.Regret dating her or pulling out? How old where the two of you?
I see, so you try to avoid it all from the first place, no taking chances with dating and getting to know each other.No and its more due to not wanting to be some revolving man in that poor kids lifeI want to hear more about this.
Won't it actually be better for the child to have someone else to at least support his/her mother by providing her with a shoulder to rest on?
Definitely, I'm sure single mom's like anyone feel that sense of loneliness and I feel its a case of "Who am I to judge?". But the relationship between a Man and Woman and her child is seemingly that of a balancing act of time when the man and her child are kept apart. Then there's letting the dude fully into her life but any new relationship is unsure so how can one build a bond with the kid and then move on when it doesn't work with the mother? This is me thinking about this stuff though, I'm sure theres guys at there that don't pay it any mind. All I know is that I couldn't unless I was 100% on being with the woman and being there for the kid. If I'm not, there's a world full of single women I can be with instead.
No, I have a weird thing about raising others kids. I'm not the kind who'd like to adopt either, if I were to raise a kid it has to be from the beginning or at least 1 year in.
So no to that and Himu's question.
Yep. Its like, I'm not at a point in my life where I want to raise a kid so getting into a relationship with a single mother would go against that. I'd also like to add that I'm not opposed to raising another mans child if he isn't there for it and I'm in a relationship with the mother, so thats not a factor.I see. I personally hold a position somewhere between what you and what Brobzoid said. I definitely do not mind raising a child that is not mine but I feel that I have to be with the right one in order to seriously commit to doing that. At the same time I do not mind dating/meeting someone with a child with not intentions of settling down as long as we are both ok with that.
I'm surprised at mupepe's stance on transsexuals. I didn't realize the stigma that all mtf's are cross dressers was so prevalent.i'm confused. so a dude that wants to be a female wouldn't dress like one?
Oh definitely. I was mentioning it because your description was more in the way of a cross dresser than what I was thinking of.neither are hot so maybe that's why i tend to fuse them together.
No, a single mother is too much failure.
No, a single mother is too much failure.wow
No. They're crazy.Thats kind of what I'm thinking too. I would still give it a shot though
wow
No, a single mother is too much failure.
No, a single mother is too much failure.
Did for ten years. Doubt I would do it again.Can you share more about it? What age where the two of you and the kid when you started the relationship? How long have you been together and why didn't it work for you? What was the hard/worst part about it?
No, a single mother is too much failure.
But you're a Nintendo fanboy. Aren't you used to failure?
Yeah, he can eat a dick. I thought he just had shitty tastes in games, but I guess he's just all around shitty.wow
he doesnt like dead rising, just do what i do and disregard everything he says
I did and ended up marrying her.
Her child was a little over a year old when we started dating and she made it very clear that I wasn't to be a part of his life. Of course that changed after things between her and I got serious. She really did handle it well - much better than a couple of other single mothers that I had slept with before.
We have one child ( a daughter) as well as my stepson. He is 11 (soon to be 12) and there is no friction at all. I have always raised him as my own and treat him no differently.
Have recently and would again.
She was also nine years my senior. But we had a lot in common. We both were sort of getting over our past relationships. Well, until she decided to give the father one more shot. I really couldn't be mad at her for that. My dad two divorces and each one fucked me up real good. She was really respectful of my feelings. Her and the father both were. It was the least dramatic a situation like that has ever been in my life.
Oh yeah, the father ended up being one of my friends AND someone who worked with me at the liquor store
She still says she's confused though, lol. Who knows what will happen? Oh, I do. BOOZE. that is what will happen.
We have one child ( a daughter) as well as my stepson. He is 11 (soon to be 12) and there is no friction at all. I have always raised him as my own and treat him no differently.
:bow A true man.