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Title: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 11:33:04 AM
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Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Olivia Wilde Homo on March 18, 2012, 11:47:44 AM
Dumpster diving was pretty big with hipsters a couple of years ago (I don't know if it is still popular now).  I know there was a decent sized megathread about it on GAF.

Having worked in a grocery store in the meat department, people who dive for food are fucking disgusting.  They have no idea why the food is getting thrown out but I guess that is why we have immune systems.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 11:52:11 AM
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Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 11:56:01 AM
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Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Human Snorenado on March 18, 2012, 11:57:09 AM
There's pretty much always a tipping point with women when the irritation isn't worth the sex.  Sounds like you're subconsciously there, might as well not lead her along and just be done with it.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Stoney Mason on March 18, 2012, 11:58:36 AM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 11:33:04 AM
what is so hard about not asking her to spit in your fat face in front of me?

I loled Skidmark.

Not sure I have any good advice here for you outside of just being honest with her about your feelings on this stuff and her. Some chicks are destined to just be friends, or fuck buddies. Not everybody is serious girlfriend/wife material.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Olivia Wilde Homo on March 18, 2012, 12:08:00 PM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 11:56:01 AM
Quote from: The Experiment on March 18, 2012, 11:47:44 AM
Dumpster diving was pretty big with hipsters a couple of years ago (I don't know if it is still popular now).  I know there was a decent sized megathread about it on GAF.

Having worked in a grocery store in the meat department, people who dive for food are fucking disgusting.  They have no idea why the food is getting thrown out but I guess that is why we have immune systems.

She is pretty much a hipster, she didn't know what a hipster is when we first met, a natural hipster i guess.

She didn't like that I was against it, she said that it was wrong that all this food is thrown away. I told her what you are doing is not the solution, if everyone does like you and wait for the products to rot or expire to not pay for them the store will close down and everyone making a living through it  from producers to transporters will get affected by this.

Rarely will perfectly good and safe food get thrown away.  Dumpster divers take a pretty big risk but I guess that is their prerogative.  I know my grocery store was always leery about it because they were scared that someone would get sick off of some expired food thrown in a dumpster and then sue us.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Stoney Mason on March 18, 2012, 12:14:28 PM
I've never even heard of the concept of dumpster diving for food outside of a homeless or extreme poverty context. My brain has a hard time comprehending that regular people would actually do such a thing.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 12:15:31 PM
The way they look at it is that it is usually below 0 degrees Celsius and we have pretty high standards and precautions so a lot of the time there is nothing wrong with what they throw away.

Do you have the gaf thread about dumpstering? I would be interested in reading it.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Stoney Mason on March 18, 2012, 12:19:21 PM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 12:15:31 PM
The way they look at it is that it is usually below 0 degrees Celsius and we have pretty high standards and precautions so a lot of the time there is nothing wrong with what they throw away.

Do you have the gaf thread about dumpstering? I would be interested in reading it.

Perhaps American girls are just more girly girl but I would make a prediction that 99.9 percent of American chicks wouldn't touch something from a dumpster no matter how pure it was. I mean people are nuts about dropping a piece of their own food they are currently eating on the floor and picking it up and finish eating it. (Which doesn't bother me at all) Of course part of that is social mores but still.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 12:24:34 PM
Quote from: Stoney Mason on March 18, 2012, 12:19:21 PM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 12:15:31 PM
The way they look at it is that it is usually below 0 degrees Celsius and we have pretty high standards and precautions so a lot of the time there is nothing wrong with what they throw away.

Do you have the gaf thread about dumpstering? I would be interested in reading it.

Perhaps American girls are just more girly girl but I would make a prediction that 99.9 percent of American chicks wouldn't touch something from a dumpster no matter how pure it was. I mean people are nuts about dropping a piece of their own food they are currently eating on the floor and picking it up and finish eating it. (Which doesn't bother me at all) Of course part of that is social mores but still.

I just found this documentary, looks interesting! they also look like hipsters! :P
http://www.divethefilm.com/trailer.aspx
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Stoney Mason on March 18, 2012, 12:31:38 PM
I think some times crazy people are simply being mislabeled as "hipsters".  ;)

There is certainly an issue with waste in first world countries. I worked in fast food places in college and it always did strike me as unfortunate that certain foods simply just get thrown away at the end of the night. But there certainly have to be more intelligent ways to go about this issue than dumpster diving. Like a lot of social issues it strikes me as people wanting to do something about something but doing it in a very ineffective manner. Then again I just have to believe that outside of poverty issues, very few people are doing this.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Akala on March 18, 2012, 12:31:50 PM
it is probably a bit of jealousy, just low-level jealousy that falls under human nature. you've never been irrationally jealous over something you only kinda want before? should be easy to keep in check though. your situation sounds kinda awful (and a bit north of fuckbuddy to be honest), and I don't see more than two outcomes.

you could take it to the next level and she would be happy for a while, but would you? you really don't seem that enthused with her...this also disregards the fact she is throwing up all sorts of red flags. it is worth noting that she is probably in a situation she does not want to be in and that is probably exacerbating the crazy, but who knows! there is also the issue with your passive-agressive bro, you stealing her would probably make things wierd for a bit. then again, this could be remedied by telling him not to worry, there is a 98% chance he will get some of that rebound action when it doesn't work out!

other option is to start putting some distance between you two. if she is really your friend, it would be shitty to straight-up bail on her. hook up less. this may be taken as a straight-up bail by her though, and you may lose your friendship.  which happens a lot when you sleep with your friends. just try and keep communication open, be honest within reason (tact!), and hope for the best. 

if it goes wrong, hopefully you haven't told her how much your strange friend's behavior bothers you, cause if she's pissed, there is a chance she'll fuck him to piss you off. this doubly sucks because he will then think there are nothing wrong with his methods, and keep on creepin on. there is nothing worse than when lame behavior is positively enforced.  >:(
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 12:44:37 PM
You are making sense. Just wanted to add that she once said that she can't be friends again if things do not work out. I thought it was strange that she said that.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Momo on March 18, 2012, 01:06:03 PM
I had a friend once that would hit on everyone's girlfriends when we got together at meets. He'd obviously strike out and become depressed. Eventually we would just bring random single girls along so he would have a chance, he continued to hit on everyone's girlfriends. Guy is weird as all fuck but he is awesome apart from that.

Topic- Skid, seems to me you are at that crossroads where you either go all in or back out. Think about what your life moving forward would be with and without her.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 18, 2012, 01:59:27 PM
Quote from: Stoney Mason on March 18, 2012, 12:14:28 PM
I've never even heard of the concept of dumpster diving for food outside of a homeless or extreme poverty context. My brain has a hard time comprehending that regular people would actually do such a thing.

Guess its for racial roleplay hipsters not rich enough to adopt black babies.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Great Rumbler on March 18, 2012, 02:25:56 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M149WTrkNR8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_Pq0xYr3L4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6q2mFiN7GIc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-7Vu7cqB20
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Trent Dole on March 18, 2012, 04:17:44 PM
Gonna have to second GR's video dump on this one. BAIL
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: etiolate on March 18, 2012, 08:57:35 PM
What part of your brain convinced the other part of your brain that this is a functioning human relationship at all.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Bildi on March 18, 2012, 08:57:48 PM
People get food from dumpsters outside of necessity?  WTF?
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: The Sceneman on March 18, 2012, 11:18:27 PM
yeah I second Rumbler's opinion also.

I wont post an elaborate response as I have little experience with women, but this is what I got out of the OP:

Being honest is is a really good thing, but she sounds like she is taking shit so super serial and that is precisely what you don't want from the sounds of it. Major conflict of interest = gtfo of there. Thats to put it succinctly. Plus the fact that she is telling the whole town about pissing on you etc., she sounds a bit nuts, and if a girl is nuts = gtfo of there. I've dealt with my share of fruitcakes.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: chronovore on March 18, 2012, 11:41:48 PM
I'll up the ante, and say it's time to dump the girl AND the so-called-friend.

If everything he does already annoys you, and he's actively pursuing someone you are sexually involved with, he has issues. Or, rather, your guys' relationship has issues.

And the girl is clearly not listening to your lack of commitment so far; you either need to reiterate it, or establish it by getting on with a relationship outside of whatever you guys have going on.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Bildi on March 19, 2012, 03:22:02 AM
Quote from: chronovore on March 18, 2012, 11:41:48 PM
or establish it by getting on with a relationship outside of whatever you guys have going on.

I'm thinking engaging in a threesome probably doesn't count as meeting this advice.  Unless you exclude the girl.  The friend may or may not be included.

But really, she's nuts as hell.  Run.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: naff on March 19, 2012, 03:44:09 AM
great read dude
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enter the H-bomb.....
:rofl so good.

My thoughts: sounds like she might be acting out because she likes you and is trying to get your attention. Sure she sounds a little crazy, but when I hear stories from friends about their crazy sexual escapades (I been in a stable monogamous relationship for over 5 years so shits fairly tame for me) and shit they get up to when drunk, out of context from what I know about who they really are they would sound more nuts than this chick but I know they're good people. My recommendation would be if you like her sort shit out, if not get out now. Things sound way past the realm of emotionally detached sex, and if you keep stringing her along you'd be a dick

also for the people ripping dumpster diving, it can be way less dicey than you think. A city supermarket I like would throw out all their fresh daily bread and crates of booze if say one bottle in a box of beer would break so if I was walking by at night drunk I would grab some shit. Of course I wouldn't take meat or veges... this behavious plus the spitting, slapping and peeing stuff makes her sound like dirty eurotrash :-*
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: MrAngryFace on March 19, 2012, 04:04:14 AM
Freegens are weird
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Dickie Dee on March 19, 2012, 05:21:40 AM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 18, 2012, 11:33:04 AM
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Sorry man, that was basically my only take away from the OP
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: tiesto on March 19, 2012, 09:14:30 AM
Dumpster diving sounds weird as fuck but damn @ not shaving her crotch :drool
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Mupepe on March 19, 2012, 10:20:27 AM
why the fuck would you stay and put up with this?  It sounds like a pretty terrible situation.  The sex must be amazing.  I don't see how people are still surprised by this kind of stuff in fuck buddy situations.  99% of the time someone catches feelings.  I'm more surprised when they don't.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Smooth Groove on March 19, 2012, 12:00:24 PM
In college, my best friend's girlfriend and eventual wife was also a hipster whose worse habit was walking around barefeet everywhere.  She was a hot blonde bimbo but I still don't think it was worth it.  Also, she always stared at me straight in the eyes when they were making out but I never told my friend that. 
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Bildi on March 20, 2012, 01:03:38 AM
Quote from: AWESOM-O on March 19, 2012, 10:46:46 PM
Quote from: Mupepe on March 19, 2012, 10:20:27 AM
why the fuck would you stay and put up with this?  It sounds like a pretty terrible situation.  The sex must be amazing.  I don't see how people are still surprised by this kind of stuff in fuck buddy situations.  99% of the time someone catches feelings.  I'm more surprised when they don't.

Clearly it isn't, since it either leads to Skidmark getting peed on, or Estelle bringing up her dead brother in mid-coitus.

That sounds OK to me (if she weren't a dumpster-diving hipster).
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Mupepe on March 20, 2012, 10:25:43 AM
yeah i'd be okay with getting pissed on.  She can cry about her brother if she wants.  I'm not paying attention and that would be a funny ass story when my friends and I are getting drunk
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: rodi on March 20, 2012, 11:34:34 AM
Bail out, man. You can't just be fuck buddies with some girls, even if you tell them you aren't looking for something serious to begin with.

But it's your choice, dude.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Robo on March 20, 2012, 03:23:12 PM
I think you should stick it out for awhile—something tells me we haven't even reached the climax yet.

Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 20, 2012, 05:52:11 PM
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Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: MyNameIsMethodis on March 20, 2012, 05:59:55 PM
SHE IS YOUR FUCK BUDDY YET YOU GET MAD WHEN SHE WANTS MULTIPLE FUCK BUDDIES REGARDLESS OF THE FACT THAT ITSN OT A REALTIONSHIP HOLY SHIT DUDE YOU ARE FUCKING BUDDY STUPID
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Dickie Dee on March 20, 2012, 06:01:57 PM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 20, 2012, 05:52:11 PM
We were fucking and then we just kinda moved to the floor on the carpet were my shirt which I have taken off earlier was under her. She thought she was squirting although she isn't a squirter. She felt really embarrassed but i played it cool and she really liked that, she even washed it for me. I smelled like flowers the rest of the week at the workshop.

I'm having a hard time believing a girl who doesn't groom her body hair and eats garbage could ever smell like flowers.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: MyNameIsMethodis on March 20, 2012, 06:04:22 PM
she prob has disgusting arm pit hair and a mustache  :-\
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Skidmark on March 20, 2012, 06:20:19 PM
Quote from: AWESOM-O on March 20, 2012, 06:16:08 PM
Everyone knows that guitar dudes are the lowest form of scum.

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Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Mupepe on March 21, 2012, 12:05:17 PM
I understand you have fun with her most of the time.  But there is definitely a certain limit to what is acceptable behavior.  And it's not just from her (although she sounds absolutely disgusting, sorry).  This entire situation is awkward and kinda sad.  Your homeboy with the pathetic simping issues, homegirl getting clingy, crazy and being dirty and you getting jealous over her.  It's not a healthy situation at all.  But fuck buddy arrangements rarely are healthy.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: tehjaybo on March 22, 2012, 12:04:05 AM
Get.

THE FUCK.

Outta there.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Bloodwake on March 22, 2012, 12:53:35 AM
Quote from: tehjaybo on March 22, 2012, 12:04:05 AM
Get.

THE FUCK.

Outta there.

Seconded sir. Although coming from someone who hasn't been laid in a while, you might want to hit it, then quit it. Insanity is fun at first but it will fuck your life up.

Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: chronovore on March 23, 2012, 07:54:23 AM
Dude, if Bloodwake is telling you to bail because the relationship may be unhealthy, that's your Burning Bush, right there.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: CrystalGemini on March 23, 2012, 08:14:28 AM
Quote from: Skidmark on March 20, 2012, 05:52:11 PM
Quote from: etiolate on March 18, 2012, 08:57:35 PM
What part of your brain convinced the other part of your brain that this is a functioning human relationship at all.

I think my dick has something to do with it.


Quote from: Robo on March 20, 2012, 03:23:12 PM
I think you should stick it out for awhile—something tells me we haven't even reached the climax yet.

Part of me is tempted to.  :lol

Sounds like something you're just going to have to learn on your own.  Everybody turn and face the wall until the screaming stops!
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: tehjaybo on March 23, 2012, 12:36:36 PM
Quote from: chronovore on March 23, 2012, 07:54:23 AM
Dude, if Bloodwake is telling you to bail because the relationship may be unhealthy, that's your Burning Bush, right there.

 :lol

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Applies for me too, though.   :'(
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Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: Mupepe on March 23, 2012, 02:24:46 PM
I'm in like with Dcharlie.  I'm not quite ready to commit.
Title: Re: Things starting to get weird with fuck buddy
Post by: chronovore on March 24, 2012, 04:01:49 AM
Quote from: dcharlie on March 23, 2012, 01:56:14 PM
I've read the OP several times and i still haven't a fucking clue what is going on

you BOTH sound fucking nuts to me. Perhaps it's time to start just eating dumpster chow and spraying your filthy man milt in her cooze whilst Jon H-Bombjovi wanks over you from his balcony whilst you spoon her hairy love tunnel?



Anyways - all i came away with was , you're a cool young thing who gets fuck buddies, you're hip! you don't care and have long don't care hair of awesome and a "whatever man!" attitude but are clearly jealous and "confront" someone else who is interested in a girl you don't care about because she's a fuck buddy.

Advice : drop the act and figure out how you feel, because you haven't a fucking clue right now. OP reads like the ramblings of a mad horse.

Love! ;)

Oh, good christ. I was laughing so hard, I started wheezing, and then I started coughing. FUCK YOU, dcharles, for reminding me that I'm old and out of shape.