i still don't get it.
your wife was willing to move with you to korea and everything and you treat her like that. i don't get it.
i still don't get it.
your wife was willing to move with you to korea and everything and you treat her like that. i don't get it.
Not sure if I remember everything correctly, but I think you might have the moving to Korea part backwards.
I try to make it a policy not to judge people for shit they do in relationships- I'm a pretty private person about that sort of stuff in my life, so I tend to believe that it's the business of the two (or more if they want to invite others and make it spicy!) people involved. I also know for a fact that making a relationship work takes a lot of time, energy and sacrifices on both the part of both parties, and that sometimes it's just not worth it anymore for one or both. It's not always about "right or wrong" but "healthy or unhealthy" in my opinion.
i still don't get it.
your wife was willing to move with you to korea and everything and you treat her like that. i don't get it.
Not sure if I remember everything correctly, but I think you might have the moving to Korea part backwards.
I try to make it a policy not to judge people for shit they do in relationships- I'm a pretty private person about that sort of stuff in my life, so I tend to believe that it's the business of the two (or more if they want to invite others and make it spicy!) people involved. I also know for a fact that making a relationship work takes a lot of time, energy and sacrifices on both the part of both parties, and that sometimes it's just not worth it anymore for one or both. It's not always about "right or wrong" but "healthy or unhealthy" in my opinion.
Well it's the business of the two of them 'til one of them starts a shouty great thread on our forums about it and then it's OPEN FUCKING SEASON
Honestly Andrex, have you ever been in a relationship? With a person?
HAHAHAHAHAHA MARRIAGE
Serves you right for shacking up with such bullshit
All of this is ice cold truth. I made my bed, now I'm laying in it.
What happened was this: While in Korea, I had serious doubts about the marriage, as did she. It was getting pretty clear that we were going in opposite directions and needed/wanted more than the other person was willing to provide. In that time, I met a woman I fell for like crazy. I've basically never been that into anyone, it freaked me out, but lemme be clear: I never cheated. I felt like I might, and so I called it. It was kind of a relief for both of us.
We formally separated, a few weeks went by and then I started seeing that woman. It was amazing and awesome, totally the best time I've ever had with anyone. I'll spare you the details, but it went really fucking well and then it just didn't. She swapped teams at work, started working like 12 hour days and just shut off like a light switch. I went from seeing her like 3 times a week to literally not getting so much as a text for 3 days.
I finally kind of tracked her down and we actually had an amazingly pleasant breakup, which I now hate, because it was also amazingly ambiguous. She kept apologizing, but just said she was too busy and this was the way she handles things mentally, etc etc. It was a little weird after that because our mutual friends were like "Dude, last week she was telling me how excited she was to do all this stuff with you, I dont know what happened" . Anyway, I saw her last night for the first time in a month and it was fine, but I was already drunk by the time she was there.
I've been fishing the OKCupid pond with some success.
It's a weird time. I'm really on my own for the first time in 6 years. I live in a city where I don't know a lot of people. Or, I did when I moved here, but because alot of INDIE GAMES DRAMA people are moving or not speaking. I'm dealing with a weird, big, ugly heartbreak. I am sort of figuring out how to put myself back together and sometimes that's an exciting, thrilling project and sometimes I feel like I'm just staring at a box of parts and I get that EXACT sensation when you took something apart and have no idea how to put it back together again. Dread and regret.
Damn Gillo, I feel for you.
Are you still in touch with your ex?
Hope you get back on track man.
All of this is ice cold truth. I made my bed, now I'm laying in it.
What happened was this: While in Korea, I had serious doubts about the marriage, as did she. It was getting pretty clear that we were going in opposite directions and needed/wanted more than the other person was willing to provide. In that time, I met a woman I fell for like crazy. I've basically never been that into anyone, it freaked me out, but lemme be clear: I never cheated. I felt like I might, and so I called it. It was kind of a relief for both of us.
We formally separated, a few weeks went by and then I started seeing that woman. It was amazing and awesome, totally the best time I've ever had with anyone. I'll spare you the details, but it went really fucking well and then it just didn't. She swapped teams at work, started working like 12 hour days and just shut off like a light switch. I went from seeing her like 3 times a week to literally not getting so much as a text for 3 days.
I finally kind of tracked her down and we actually had an amazingly pleasant breakup, which I now hate, because it was also amazingly ambiguous. She kept apologizing, but just said she was too busy and this was the way she handles things mentally, etc etc. It was a little weird after that because our mutual friends were like "Dude, last week she was telling me how excited she was to do all this stuff with you, I dont know what happened" . Anyway, I saw her last night for the first time in a month and it was fine, but I was already drunk by the time she was there.
I've been fishing the OKCupid pond with some success.
It's a weird time. I'm really on my own for the first time in 6 years. I live in a city where I don't know a lot of people. Or, I did when I moved here, but because alot of INDIE GAMES DRAMA people are moving or not speaking. I'm dealing with a weird, big, ugly heartbreak. I am sort of figuring out how to put myself back together and sometimes that's an exciting, thrilling project and sometimes I feel like I'm just staring at a box of parts and I get that EXACT sensation when you took something apart and have no idea how to put it back together again. Dread and regret.
She probably dumped you because people who just got divorced usually tend to be pathetic drunks for about 6 months.From experience this is true. You have baggage that everyone can see even if you can't.
She probably dumped you because people who just got divorced usually tend to be pathetic drunks for about 6 months.
She probably dumped you because people who just got divorced usually tend to be pathetic drunks for about 6 months.From experience this is true. You have baggage that everyone can see even if you can't.
This is all true, especially the latter part. Just thank mr Christ that you don't have any children to experience the fallout.She probably dumped you because people who just got divorced usually tend to be pathetic drunks for about 6 months.From experience this is true. You have baggage that everyone can see even if you can't.
consternation camps
This is all true, especially the latter part. Just thank mr Christ that you don't have any children to experience the fallout.She probably dumped you because people who just got divorced usually tend to be pathetic drunks for about 6 months.From experience this is true. You have baggage that everyone can see even if you can't.
I've with the mother of our daughter for 12 years now, about 6 years ago, I got hugely addicted to rape-porn, and I went off sex unless it was in a rape scenario.
6 years ago, I was a chef, the hours were unsatisfactory for appeasing my rape-porn needs, a chefs hours are unforgiving, and I made a career decision. I resigned as kitchen porter and went to work at an old peoples home. I'm an excellent father, because, like the guys who worked in consternation camps in the 1940s, I have perfect fodder to feed my desires.
I'm glad I skipped the previous drunk version and read this instead. I wish you well buddy.
Honestly Andrex, have you ever been in a relationship? With a person?
Screw off.