My family is awesome and I love them.Yeah my family and in-laws are awesome.
That must be rough, fistful.
My family is awesome and I love them.Yeah my family and in-laws are awesome.
My family is awesome and I love them.
My family is awesome and I love them.Yeah my family and in-laws are awesome.
Same here.
But holy shit Oldguy, time to move the fuck away.
I just want to fucking strangle my sister, man. It's like how the fuck can you be your age and not understand that this is how the fucking real world works? Granted, my mother is a large part of the problem- she's basically always supported my sister, but before she could afford it- had a decent job, etc. Mom lost her decent paying job in fall 2009 and my sister hasn't dug her claws out at all.
Does your sister claim to have fibromyalgia?
also always remember "you can't change someone unless they want to change." the #1 piece of advice to save yourself from others trainwreckssounds trite but seriously, you have to whisper this to yourself until it sticks. I tried a lot of times to 'save' my mother but after going through the same cycle over and over, I realized I was getting sucked into a vortex.
Dude, my mom got separated from my dad for almost a full year (after he lost his job due to failing a drug test... not sure what drug) and him generally being an abusive asshole, got a job doing real estate with my grandmother, and started actually making more money than before the split. Our relationship was mending, I could visit the house without getting nauseated from fear and anxiety, and everything was going well.
And she still took him back.
Why? She just didn't see eye to eye with my grandmother, they "disagreed over too many things". And she's telling me this, and I'm thinking, well fuck mom, better to disagree than have a chair thrown through a window. But no, she asked my grandmother to move out so he could come back and do whatever. It was at that point I just gave up entirely. She plainly chose him over me and my brothers.
Ha. Ha. Ha.
My sister's 22 year old fiance just called me to yell at me for "talking shit behind his back about things I don't know anything about" and proceeded to get even angrier as I laughed in his face for like five minutes. He also told me "to get a real job" which is, really, just fucking precious.
Ha. Ha. Ha.Just retort that the job might not be real, but the money is :sabu
My sister's 22 year old fiance just called me to yell at me for "talking shit behind his back about things I don't know anything about" and proceeded to get even angrier as I laughed in his face for like five minutes. He also told me "to get a real job" which is, really, just fucking precious.
Ha. Ha. Ha.
My sister's 22 year old fiance just called me to yell at me for "talking shit behind his back about things I don't know anything about" and proceeded to get even angrier as I laughed in his face for like five minutes. He also told me "to get a real job" which is, really, just fucking precious.
Saw that on Facebook, I'm waiting for awesome carnival of the stupid.
Dude, my mom got separated from my dad for almost a full year (after he lost his job due to failing a drug test... not sure what drug) and him generally being an abusive asshole, got a job doing real estate with my grandmother, and started actually making more money than before the split. Our relationship was mending, I could visit the house without getting nauseated from fear and anxiety, and everything was going well.
And she still took him back.
Why? She just didn't see eye to eye with my grandmother, they "disagreed over too many things". And she's telling me this, and I'm thinking, well fuck mom, better to disagree than have a chair thrown through a window. But no, she asked my grandmother to move out so he could come back and do whatever. It was at that point I just gave up entirely. She plainly chose him over me and my brothers.
Ugh dude, I'm sorry.
It's shit like this that pisses me off about people who have kids and don't put them first. You gotta make yourself happy and all but you bring a child into this world, you basically said "I am having a human being whom I need to prioritize over myself." Of course plenty of people don't actually believe that statement, so it's all fucked.
Ask him what kind of punk hurts himself painting.
Ask him what kind of punk hurts himself painting.
Eh, I did some (sloppy, paid under-the-table) painting over a summer in my teens, and I'm pretty sure if I did it full time now my body's response would be somewhere on the spectrum from mild kvetching to open rebellion.
Granted, this guy's younger than I am, but I still wouldn't rag on him for getting hurt doing physical labor. Sounds like he's got a plethora of actual deficiencies to go after instead.
Ha. Ha. Ha.
My sister's 22 year old fiance just called me to yell at me for "talking shit behind his back about things I don't know anything about" and proceeded to get even angrier as I laughed in his face for like five minutes. He also told me "to get a real job" which is, really, just fucking precious.
Saw that on Facebook, I'm waiting for awesome carnival of the stupid.
Fuck that, you're not gonna see shit. I'm not social media friends with those fucking idiots.
Yeah, it was kind of a chilling moment, especially since he was my stepfather and we were her biological kids. I figured I would have some level of priority when it came to push/shove. Of course, it was all predicated on the idea that he was changed blah blah blah, but the next time I visited my younger brother, he told me that our stepdad came into his room at three in the morning and told him how terrible and worthless he was for more than 30 minutes straight. Who the fuck does that, and who turns a blind eye to something like that? That pretty much blew all guilt I had over my feelings of resentment off the map, since I was beginning to realize my mom would minimize anything he did and just not hear it at all. I could go on and on with 18 years of examples, but that was pretty much it for me. I threw them a bone for my wedding since I figured that would be a neutral ground, and nope, same shit. That was ... 6 years ago almost? Haven't touched it since.Dude, my mom got separated from my dad for almost a full year (after he lost his job due to failing a drug test... not sure what drug) and him generally being an abusive asshole, got a job doing real estate with my grandmother, and started actually making more money than before the split. Our relationship was mending, I could visit the house without getting nauseated from fear and anxiety, and everything was going well.
And she still took him back.
Why? She just didn't see eye to eye with my grandmother, they "disagreed over too many things". And she's telling me this, and I'm thinking, well fuck mom, better to disagree than have a chair thrown through a window. But no, she asked my grandmother to move out so he could come back and do whatever. It was at that point I just gave up entirely. She plainly chose him over me and my brothers.
Ugh dude, I'm sorry.
It's shit like this that pisses me off about people who have kids and don't put them first. You gotta make yourself happy and all but you bring a child into this world, you basically said "I am having a human being whom I need to prioritize over myself." Of course plenty of people don't actually believe that statement, so it's all fucked.
A friend and I were walking out of the gym when my mom suddenly rolled up on us; she was heading to a grocery store that's within the same parking lot area. We were talking, and my friend mentioned that he's engaged/getting married next year. My mom's response: "Oh congratulations! Is she domesticated?"
:snoop
My friend was like "actually I don't know what that means..." at which point my mom explained it's cooking/baking/etc. When he told her that she's a banker my mom was all like "that's good too I guess. Well see you boys later."
Because my nephew was over here today when he called my mother to let her know he had quit his most recent job, meaning she's probably going to have to go back to work. When I found out about it I lost my shit in front of my nephew, which admittedly is bad form but you know what? Fuck it. I'm over this shit. It's been going on for like 16 goddamn years with my sister, and it's time for it to fucking stop.
People who can't even be good family members must be awful people in general. Can we put them all on an island? :-\You'd be surprised. With strangers and friends, there's actually some degree of shame and face saving going on, because they won't forgive everything or carry your ass for you.
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I'm just proud it took until the second page. Admirable restraint, The Bore!
You're more likely to be killed by someone you know than a random stranger.
fuck i've gotten soft:phil
fuck i've gotten soft(http://tinyurl.com/knqmlvp)
You have to earn a simple orange juice? She sounds cool.
You have to earn a simple orange juice? She sounds cool.
Juice is expensive.
My step-mom is also a piece of work... she never had kids of her own, and my dad was her only marriage (she was his fifth...) so she didn't really have experience with kids. They got married when I was... 14 I wanna say? A 14 year old boy is an awkward mother fucker with poor manners in the BEST of times. She would get pissy when I didn't use my silverware "properly" and shit like that.
Whatever. That was like the least of her fucking awfulness though... for some reason, I was always the worst, most disappointing child. Not my sister, who had a kid at 18 or whatever. Not my half-brother, who spent five years in jail for selling dope, and has subsequently had a restraining order placed on him by my dad. (Dad's the only chill, on the level relative I've got.) Nope! Me. Because apparently, "I've squandered my potential" by not finishing school and getting a real job and blah blah blah. Yeah. That's so much more disappointing than my siblings.
She's gotten almost civil in the past two years after I went back to school and my half-brother went insane and my dad had to change his phone number and get a restraining order.
Just re-read all that, and have decided that yes, my family is fucking insane.
Nope
My sister is a trainwreck too but not to the degree that Triumph has experienced:
- Was going to drop out of high school but my parents told her that she would be kicked out if she did. So she just graduated with a dog shit GPA (2.1), which I didn't even think was possible in high school.
- Worked a dead end job until she married some guy. Tons of drama ensued. I hadn't talked to her in years during this time.
- She quit her job. Her husband makes decent money ($20/hr is plenty) but had two kids with exorbitant amounts of child support. As a result, they lived in some shithole.
- She went to school at a for profit college. Spent $25,000 on a worthless certificate. I'm not kidding.
- Couldn't find a job with her worthless certificate. She couldn't get a job until she took it off her resume.
- She proceeds to blow paychecks on concerts, tattoos, trips to Chicago, and sushi. Lots and lots of sushi. She also likes to frequent bars with her friends, many of whom have no jobs.
- Her gift to herself for getting a job that paid $13/hr was a brand new car that was about $30,000. She asked me for $5,000 for a down payment. I told her no and I haven't really talked to her since.
i think we need pics of sexy family members up in hurr.sorry, this all took place in lewis county, no hot milfs here.
timedog doesn't seem like the hitting typei think we need pics of sexy family members up in hurr.sorry, this all took place in lewis county, no hot milfs here.
I see you didnt' deny husbando status :-*
I have an alcoholic father who got wasted and called me a disappointment last fathers day and then told my wife he never liked her, so that was fun.damn dude
timedog doesn't seem like the hitting typei think we need pics of sexy family members up in hurr.sorry, this all took place in lewis county, no hot milfs here.
YARD BIRDS, BRAH
i will msg the shat pack! finally someone to corroborate my tales of lewis county hillbilly devilryfullers? that's where all the poors went :heh
i worked at fullers market basket in centralia selling booze to kids and mexicans
I'd say over half my relatives work in science/engineering/medicine and most of them are strict about religion so I nearly never hear anyone mixing up their beliefs with what's happening in the real world in anything other than a "well maybe this is proof...haha" way.