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Title: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 01:18:32 AM: Having a bad night, Bore. Let me rant, you can get your digs in, and we'll call it a night I suppose.

- All my friends have moved away from Nashville
- I'm not doing anything creative or important to me anymore. My job is great, I love it and its a wonderful industry to be in, but my passion is gone. I used to write every single day, I used to write music and lyrics all the time and the shit is gone now. I've tried starting bands down here but I haven't met anyone in Nashville who just wants to dick around -- everyone wants to make it big or not at all.
- Loans are severely crippling me, and I don't want to ask my parents for help.
- I don't feel attractive at all. I'm to 172 lbs but I feel 272. Everytime I'm around women now, that's the thought I put in my mind and my confidence is completely shot. I wasn't like this throughout college. I just don't feel cool anymore.

My nights now consist of me coming home and trying to find something to occupy my time so I don't have to think about my life. I'll get lucky some nights where a coworker invites me out for a drink.

The last sex I had was New Years, but a very drunkenly affair with one of my best friend's sister (my best friend from home). It was sad and sloppy, considering.

I'm just in a shitty spot ya'll. I'm trying to improve my outlook though...I play basketball every other day (post moves!!!), I'm reading more, and I've been trying to talk to girls at bars more often, but I'm still in a regurgitative state of the same night, every single night, where I go to bed unhappy.

I wasn't hit my a car though, so at this point I don't know why I'm bitching. There are people like Raban who have had a much tougher last few days and here I am bitching about...being a little bitch.

Sorry all, just wanted to type it all out. I at least know that you all will laugh it off and tell me to suck it up. I can count on you guys at least for that...to let me know I'm not some special snowflake whose situations is unique. It helps.

Sorry again.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: MrAngryFace on January 16, 2014, 01:29:58 AM: I dunno man- I could sit here and be all Alpha-man tellin you the obvious- but all I can really say is that youre in a better position than a lot of people to experience days/months/years better than the current sometime down the road.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Himu on January 16, 2014, 01:31:40 AM: I wish I were 24 again. Try being 28.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: MrAngryFace on January 16, 2014, 01:35:23 AM: Im 34 in Feb, OLD. Then again- not as old as SOME PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 01:39:32 AM: Quote from: Esch on January 16, 2014, 01:25:07 AM
Get a new hobby, work out and eat better, stop consuming so much phyggoty self indulgent media. Boom.

I hope that helps

Edit: shit, im turning 24 in a few months :tocry

jesus christ I thought you were fucking 30 :dead

now I feel worse thanks esch :shaq2
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: MrAngryFace on January 16, 2014, 01:39:43 AM: Also getting drunk is still a good time no matter how old you are
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 01:41:38 AM: I didn't read that shit and I don't need to. I'll tell you why it sucks- because you don't know shit and you don't KNOW that you don't know shit.

You're just gonna have to plow through whatever suck you've got going on in your life. Make changes, whatever.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 01:42:16 AM: Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 16, 2014, 01:35:23 AM
Im 34 in Feb, OLD. Then again- not as old as SOME PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM.

HEY WAIT
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: nudemacusers on January 16, 2014, 01:45:31 AM: i thought esch was 36

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Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: headwalk on January 16, 2014, 01:53:19 AM: grow your hair out. in a cool way, not a nerd way.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on January 16, 2014, 03:42:55 AM: I'm 31. I feel super ugly and old although empirically I lately seem to be garnering more interest from women than ever before, go figure
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Cerveza mas fina on January 16, 2014, 03:51:58 AM: I agree with what COG said.

Quote from: The Business on January 16, 2014, 01:49:53 AM
The quarter life crysis is pretty typical. At 24 I was failing courses and in a failing relationship in my second year of college after the Air Force. I joined the National Guard that year to go back overseas as an escape. All I can tell you is between then and now things worked out. Eventually I made a conscious effort to improve myself and it started paying off. We're all gonna make it, brah.

Its nice to see that for you joining a military organisation that is killing hundreds of thousands of people over oil is a means to escape your personal woes, you are a shining example of how to get your life together. Just pulling the trigger on some sandpeople must be really therapeutic.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Reb on January 16, 2014, 04:16:37 AM: So you had sex 2 weeks ago?
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Cerveza mas fina on January 16, 2014, 04:52:47 AM: Joing an organisation that opresses and kills innocent people to escape bad grades and a broken relationship ::)

Then claiming I hate muslims on the internet ::)

Getting your life together with blood money from the army ::)
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Shadow Mod on January 16, 2014, 05:03:22 AM: I'll tell you this much if you have time to reflect on what you should be or wish you were doing, fuckin' do it bro. But if you're like me you need some extra motivation. :-\
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: chronovore on January 16, 2014, 05:11:21 AM: Quote from: Rebiak on January 16, 2014, 04:16:37 AM
So you had sex 2 weeks ago?

Yeah, I was like ??? too.

Maybe he meant NYE 2012?
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: brawndolicious on January 16, 2014, 05:21:31 AM: I think he meant the sex made him feel worse than if he didn't have it.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Cerveza mas fina on January 16, 2014, 05:28:27 AM: But you've never seen me around muslims ???
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: chronovore on January 16, 2014, 05:34:03 AM: Quote from: Creepy Old Guy on January 16, 2014, 01:42:16 AM
Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 16, 2014, 01:35:23 AM
Im 34 in Feb, OLD. Then again- not as old as SOME PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM.

HEY WAIT

HEY WAIT, WAIT.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: brawndolicious on January 16, 2014, 05:39:32 AM: I think the problem is that you lack motivation or inspiration to be doing something at this point of your life and you're looking at all the negatives and going blah blah blah "my achey breaky Nashville heart" when really your issue is much deeper.

I could be wrong but I feel comfortable saying this since I was definitely at that point before.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Olivia Wilde Homo on January 16, 2014, 06:43:07 AM: I think for most dudes, their mid 20s suck: you're done with school (unless you're going to graduate school) but you're not established in your career yet. Girls that age will likely be seeing guys in their late 20s or early 30s and you're not in as many situations to be hitting up college girls either. So you're kind of at the worst point there.

Things were pretty bad for me when I was 24. I had to move several hours away from people I knew to a job I fucking hated. This was 2009 so other job opportunities were few and far between. I had shitloads of student loan debt that I was trying to pay, which didn't leave me with much money, maybe a couple hundred a month. I also found it much more difficult to get laid to the point where it was almost impossible to get a girl to acknowledge I existed. So I generally just gave up and wasted my time on the internet.

What got me out of it was that I threw myself into the job that I hated. I took on shitty projects, gritting my teeth the whole time, grinding through it. I really tried to make myself a subject matter expert at my job and made a name for myself early on. In the end, my efforts to take on shit nobody wanted to do got me fast tracked to a management position when I was 26 when the average age for the position in my company was late 30s. Before I turned 25, I was able to get a better job at a location closer to friends and I started fucking a lot of townie girls. So I guess the only advice I have for you is to take stock of what you think is important and then start pursuing it. Kind of living half in, half out isn't going to be enough. So maybe get really serious about playing in a band or get really serious about your job. Try to have some kind of passion for something and go all out in it. It should start hopefully paying off in a couple of years.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Great Rumbler on January 16, 2014, 09:04:18 AM: Just wait until your turn 27. Like me. :smug

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Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: MrAngryFace on January 16, 2014, 09:49:19 AM: As long as you make enough money to be a functioning alcoholic things are probably ok.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Eli Gulgin on January 16, 2014, 09:52:50 AM: Quote from: Esch on January 16, 2014, 01:42:04 AM
Quote from: BrandNew on January 16, 2014, 01:39:32 AM
Quote from: Esch on January 16, 2014, 01:25:07 AM
Get a new hobby, work out and eat better, stop consuming so much phyggoty self indulgent media. Boom.

I hope that helps

Edit: shit, im turning 24 in a few months :tocry

jesus christ I thought you were fucking 30 :dead

now I feel worse thanks esch :shaq2

Well fuck you too now everyones saying I look old for my age :tocry

Im gonna go buy some skin care products tomorrow :tocry

Quote from: Exodust SoulBurn on January 16, 2014, 01:44:02 AM
People kept telling me I look 28 when I was 18 :'(

All of you feggits look much older than you are. Maybe you should quit drinking and eating meat and girls would go :uguu over your innocent babyfaced looks. Or stop being pussies and grow some huge beards and don't keep shaving them off every few weeks. Embrace your 30+ looking faces.

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Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: CatsCatsCats on January 16, 2014, 09:56:36 AM: I don't know your height but 172 can't be that bad, exercise a little. You're still young enough that you probably don't have to try really hard to get some decent body changes as long as you do it consistently. I packed on a few between 22-24 as well, your metabolism slowed down a bit, just compensate for that.

Get out more, too. Find a social hobby. You're gonna be alright bro, quarter life crises happen.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: nudemacusers on January 16, 2014, 11:16:54 AM: people are always surprised when I tell them I'm 30 :'(

:-*
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: CatsCatsCats on January 16, 2014, 11:57:59 AM: 30, flirty and thriving, Mac :thumbsup
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Atramental on January 16, 2014, 12:46:49 PM: I just accept my 20s as my "trial by fire" years.

It's not a magical time full of sunshine & rainbows like marketers want you to think. Especially if you're not well off financially in this dog eat dog meat grinder we call America.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: StealthFan on January 16, 2014, 01:18:59 PM: I had the quarter life bullshit around that time too. It was hard stuff.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: CajoleJuice on January 16, 2014, 01:29:48 PM: Quote
why does being alive royally suck

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Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Raban on January 16, 2014, 01:35:39 PM: Sounds like you're being harder on yourself than your life is. Figure out where you can wrestle some control back and make a difference with it.

It never helps to collect these tangentially related pressures (finances, relationships, personal interests) and drop them all on your head at once. Set some goals for yourself that you know are achievable in the mid- or short-term and don't lose your focus on them. In my experience I've always found it easier to work on myself before I tackle external problems, so find the root of your lack of confidence and attack it.

You seem to be a smart, talented, and attractive young man, don't take it personally when your life falls into a nadir. Believe that you have the strength to endure it, and you will.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: magus on January 16, 2014, 01:48:03 PM: oh boy

i'm 27 (28 in 4 month),jobless,haven't seen my friend since forever as we have fallen out of contact and have no sort of girlfriend whatsoever... i also have a somewhat assholish brother's that's like "you should get out more! hur dur" everytime we speak! the only thing i've achieved in recent years was a major in computer science,i guess it makes for a fancy napkin? by the standards set by this thread what does that make me?

that said i don't mind too much (except the job part,italy is pretty infamous for shitty employement rate and i'm getting old) because

1) it can get worse
2) it's not really bad as long as you don't get bored by your enviroment and how you spend your time,if you are bored try different things,you are on the fucking internet the biggest source of enterntainement ever!
3) these sort of thread don't serve much other than have "ah-ah! loser!" like reply... actualy the reply here are too nice so i guess i need to step up to it even though i hate those sort of asshole

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i7ThHHOxlck

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You seem to be a smart, talented, and attractive young man, don't take it personally when your life falls into a nadir. Believe that you have the strength to endure it, and you will.

i'm sorry raban but you sound like some sort of crook fortune teller :teehee
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: demi on January 16, 2014, 02:08:24 PM: Since you've lived in Italy for so long, do you get bored of the environments? Italy is known here as being this exotic place where there's so much to see and do. Or is that basically just Rome?

See Assassin's Creed 2 Trilogy as an example.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Raban on January 16, 2014, 02:12:35 PM: Quote from: magus on January 16, 2014, 01:48:03 PM
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You seem to be a smart, talented, and attractive young man, don't take it personally when your life falls into a nadir. Believe that you have the strength to endure it, and you will.

i'm sorry raban but you sound like some sort of crook fortune teller :teehee
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Van Cruncheon on January 16, 2014, 02:20:58 PM: WELCOME TO ADULTHOOD

seriously, this is the rest of your life, white boy
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: magus on January 16, 2014, 02:23:17 PM: Quote from: demi on January 16, 2014, 02:08:24 PM
Since you've lived in Italy for so long, do you get bored of the environments? Italy is known here as being this exotic place where there's so much to see and do. Or is that basically just Rome?

See Assassin's Creed 2 Trilogy as an example.

i live in the south part of italy and the place where i live is boring as fuck,the only good thing about it is that there are some decent beaches
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: ToxicAdam on January 16, 2014, 02:24:00 PM: Life is just a series of distractions.

Find a new distraction.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Brehvolution on January 16, 2014, 02:41:29 PM: Get the hell out of the bible belt.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 02:55:12 PM: This thread :lol
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Atramental on January 16, 2014, 03:49:08 PM: Quote from: Zero Hero on January 16, 2014, 02:41:29 PM
Get the hell out of the bible belt.
Ha. Can't wait for this to be a possibility for me.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 04:01:21 PM: Nashville doesn't feel like the Bible Belt
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 05:17:47 PM: :aah
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 05:26:57 PM: Dude, I am so looking forward to getting the fuck out of the Asheville area. Dating is a fucking travesty here... everyone is a fucking headcase that wants to go hiking. I'm all, "bitch can't we just watch netflix and make out?"
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 05:44:39 PM: Come to Nashville breh
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 05:56:20 PM: I'm moving back to Atlanta initially to escape my family, then I'm going wherever I can get a job. I actually know lots of people in Nashville, but they're all older n shit. Are you into cougars, potentially married ones looking for something on the low low? Because if so I could introduce you around...
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 06:12:03 PM: You've been to Prince's? :whoo

I love Prince's but honestly Bolton's is better.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 06:12:46 PM: Trying to move to the Pac NW, cause weed :mynicca
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:14:01 PM: Come to Cali, the weather's better :noah
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 06:19:18 PM: Y'all mothafuckas gonna fall into the sea any goddamn day now, NO SIR.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 06:19:50 PM: On the real tho, I will go anywhere I can get a decent job. Got nothing tying me down and I'm ready to go new places n shit.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:20:50 PM: Also Gus lives in California :uguu
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Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 06:22:11 PM: DAT DOG.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: TakingBackSunday on January 16, 2014, 06:22:28 PM: Fuck Gus :pacspit
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 16, 2014, 06:26:22 PM: Motherfucker, I will cut you if you talk shit about Contra's dog. CUT.
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Positive Touch on January 16, 2014, 06:33:45 PM: no offence but small fuzzy dogs can all go to one of the lower circles of hell
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:35:17 PM: Gus is wearing a jaunty red bandana today :patel
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Himu on January 16, 2014, 06:37:17 PM: Quote from: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:35:17 PM
Gus is wearing a jaunty red bandana today :patel

Pics
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: magus on January 16, 2014, 06:58:17 PM: Quote from: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:35:17 PM
Gus is wearing a jaunty red bandana today :patel

gus sounds like a cute name for a doggie :hitler
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: CatsCatsCats on January 16, 2014, 07:12:53 PM: Quote from: Creepy Old Guy on January 16, 2014, 06:12:46 PM
Trying to move to the Pac NW, cause weed :mynicca

There's always a bowl waiting for you in Portland :american
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: tiesto on January 16, 2014, 09:34:58 PM: 31 but I'm lucky since I look mid 20's... makes it easier to pick up early 20's women :-*
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: MrAngryFace on January 17, 2014, 12:13:38 AM: Quote from: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:20:50 PM
Also Gus lives in California :uguu

GUS IS AMAZING
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Trent Dole on January 18, 2014, 03:22:54 AM: My 24 was worse. I'm not going into details. :teehee
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: chronovore on January 18, 2014, 04:26:31 AM: Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 17, 2014, 12:13:38 AM
Quote from: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:20:50 PM
Also Gus lives in California :uguu

GUS IS AMAZING

Who is Gus?
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Steve Contra on January 18, 2014, 04:11:39 PM: Quote from: chronovore on January 18, 2014, 04:26:31 AM
Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 17, 2014, 12:13:38 AM
Quote from: Steve Contra on January 16, 2014, 06:20:50 PM
Also Gus lives in California :uguu

GUS IS AMAZING

Who is Gus?
(http://i.imgur.com/3xeC3CL.jpg)
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Human Snorenado on January 18, 2014, 04:15:57 PM: :heart :heartbeat :heart :heartbeat :heart
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Post by: Steve Contra on January 18, 2014, 04:17:42 PM: Yeah he's fucking adorable
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Post by: TEEEPO on January 18, 2014, 06:18:20 PM: awww
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: Phoenix Dark on January 18, 2014, 08:24:18 PM: I'll reserve giving Gus dap until until he expresses his views on Garden State, Lil Wayne, and Animal Collective.
(http://imageshack.com/a/img545/2986/hxvu.png)
Title: Re: Why does being 24 royally suck
Post by: drew on January 19, 2014, 02:21:22 AM: I'm happy to see that you're unhappy. :)