THE BORE
General => The Superdeep Borehole => Topic started by: Eschaton on December 04, 2014, 05:33:21 PM
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I was on facebook today and drunky cow shared a femsperg masterpiece on how intimidated by hugs some people are. Is this a thing?
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/09/30/don_t_hug_it_out_hugs_are_awkward_falsely_intimate_power_plays_that_must.html
(http://i.imgur.com/NsARqvd.png) as a lover of hugs, I can't help but feel like I've crossed the boundaries once or twice.
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Hugs amongst family and really close friends are great – it's a lovely, warm feeling.
If you're hugging or are getting hugged with/by new acquaintances or possible romantic endeavors, its a little odd/uncomfortable.
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I don't like them as greetings, but hugging is A-OK otherwise.
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I love hugs! Especially kissy hugs!
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picked sedative because i am on a sedative
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I need a hug right now.
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I never hug someone I don't know unless they're someone special to someone I care about. Those people get instant hug!
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Is this a stealth Prole diss thread?
(http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/enhanced/webdr02/2013/5/15/12/enhanced-buzz-31383-1368634849-14.jpg)
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Would anyone hug me?
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You don't hug on the first internet date? Do you just PhoenixDark it and handshake?
(http://i.imgur.com/NsARqvd.png)
What? :lol
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I'd hug them, of course!
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i'm all about the embrace brahs
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Pro hugs
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human contact, gross :yuck
only 2D hug pillows, pls
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I playfully sneak up behind my kittens and hug them. Just every once in a while to freak them out.
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One fucking person here would hug me? That's what I've earned in my years of service?
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(http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2012/0713/play_g_jordan-kobe_mb_576.jpg)
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Hugs after the person washed their hair or showered are the best. :heart
Would anyone hug me?
I'd hug you. :heartbeat
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One fucking person here would hug me? That's what I've earned in my years of service?
Sorry bro, I'd be concerned about squeezing vomit out of ya
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(http://i.imgur.com/ZT9rqRj.gif)
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One fucking person here would hug me? That's what I've earned in my years of service?
Familiarity breeds contempt.
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There's a guy at work who signs his emails with "big hugs" instead of sincerely or whatever else. Its hilarious
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Adam's package leaves much to be desired
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I only hug gfs, parents and friends/family i haven't seen in a long time. Just never been a thing I or any of my friends would do on the regular.
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I'm a hugger if I'm in the mood. I do get weirded out by people I just met wanting to hug me, other than on dates or whatever.
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There should be a Christian side hug option.
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Chest against chest :noah
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dick against dick :drool
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That clanging sound when the swords cross. :shaq
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I feel like a fuckboi when someone hugs me
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Handshake>hug. Less awkward, isn't forced, and is memorable. I think most people are fine with the idea of a handshake to begin a date/meet, however the handshake at the end of a date/meet is more controversial. It catches women off guard and is memorable. It gets her talking with her girlfriends ("guess what? instead of trying to hug me...he shook me hand. guuurl.").
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if you're shaking a girl's hand pre or post date you might as well give her a high five :sabu
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Forced? Who the fuck forces a hug?
:lol @ shaking a woman's hand after the first time you meet them.
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So the other day I was buying a burger and the hot black teller chick accidentally touched my hand while handing me an (empty) cup, you know like a gentile brush of finger against finger, I dropped it because of the unexpected physical contact with another human.
Voted the seriously don't touch me and autistic option.
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if you're shaking a girl's hand pre or post date you might as well give her a high five :sabu
i mean, it worked for me the first time.
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(http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2012/0713/play_g_jordan-kobe_mb_576.jpg)
:hitler
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special fellow option all the way
filthy human contact
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I'm going to hug you the next time I see you.
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if you're shaking a girl's hand pre or post date you might as well give her a high five :sabu
i mean, it worked for me the first time.
you overcame a handshake.
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PD, I'm kinda shocked you never figured out you could stealth touch their hair if it's long if you go in for the hug
:hitler
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I will cut you.
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handshake = not getting laid
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I feel hugs are a 7/10
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Hugs are great. Sometimes girls hug you in a manner that constitutes a one pump dry hump, which can be comforting, arousing, intimidating, or nauseating, and sometimes all of these things at once.
Murs documented this on record fifteen years ago
Pussy Hug means when a girl leans in
Arches her Back and her Pussy is the first thing to make contact
Then she slowly presses her tits against your chest
Then she finally wraps her arm around your neck
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Back hug best hug.
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Chose the first and special fellow options.
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Real talk, this is something I've spent more time thinking about than most. I like getting hugs from people, but I rarely ever initiate them and I'm worried that people see me as distant or cold because of it. I've gotten better at it, but I don't really put my hands on people much in general when I'm socializing. I read all the studies about the positive effects of physical contact, but when I try to make the conscious effort to do so I come across articles like the one in the OP.
The only time I've ever had someone refuse a hug though was when they were upset at me. It's also a little annoying to watch people who've known you as a life-time non-hugger react to your hugs. For a couple of friends I've made more recently I can say hugging a lot definitely brought me closer (I mean that figuratively. We got physically closer too, duh.) to some of them.
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I like getting hugs from people, but I rarely ever initiate them and I'm worried that people see me as distant or cold because of it.
They do. Especially when you don't register that they're initiating and see them give up on you and all you do is smile like an idiot because you're made of wood. :fbm
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Did we ever find out what rhymes with hug me?
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off key
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I :heartbeat hugs!
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Back hug best hug.
My wife does that to me all the time. I freaking love those.
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yIm filipino so we do the kiss on the cheek thing in addition to the hug, I sometimes forget to turn it off for other races so that shit getsts awkward :gaben
So whe I get introduced to other pinay chicks it gets weird having to initiate contact. Its awkward :brazilcry
I hate it. Lets shake hands instead
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I'm a big fan of the back hug, that way you don't breath into my face.
People get very confused when they approach to hug me and I turn my ass to them and start backing into them.
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I'm a big fan of the back hug, that way you don't breath into my face.
People get very confused when they approach to hug me and I turn my ass to them and start backing into them.
#shortpeoplesproblems
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http://getfuzzy.wikia.com/wiki/Chubby_Huggs
:noah
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Get Fuzzy
:lawd
(http://images.fanpop.com/images/image_uploads/Talking-Money-get-fuzzy-77700_520_514.jpg)
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All Friends = Hug
Female Acquaintances = Hug
Male Acquaintances = Handshake
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Wife: Big hugs, from behind hugs, etc
Kids: Big hugs (sons) pick up from behind hugs and big hugs (daughter)
Close male friends: Bro double backpat
Close female friends: Hug with hands on middle back
Family: Regular hugs
Males who I know and respect; Handshake or dap
Females who I know and respect: Side hug
Anybody else: Meh
edit:
Mama: Pick up hugs and kisses while she bitches for me to put her down :rejoice
We really need to coach on this?
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bros: mutual masturbation
workmates: air wank
kids: middle finger
wife: all fingers
strangers: ass slap
prole: side hug
joe: face down ass up
anybody else: oops just got a phone call excuse me
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bros: mutual masturbation
workmates: air wank
kids: middle finger
wife: all fingers
strangers: ass slap
prole: side hug
joe: face down ass up
anybody else: oops just got a phone call excuse me
:noah
I hope you have big hands
:mynicca
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I'm all about the hug. BIG HUGS.
Handshakes are weird outside of work and formal events.
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...nobody dumpster hugged me :( :'(
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...nobody dumpster hugged me :( :'(
I'll give you a reach around/forward pull, short stuff. And all you'll do is smile.