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Title: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2017, 05:59:23 AM: i think i'd be more ok with sex etc if there were more alternatives, like the fact it gets this whole physiological system doesn't seem fair

if there were like physiological system2, system3 ... sysN for any kind of relationship or modality of being you might want to have ... i feel it could take some of the pressure off and make life a lot more tolerable.

so i hope we can get this working soon.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 19, 2017, 06:08:09 AM: Expand that out a bit. What do you mean by system2, system3, sysN? You mean the "Kinsey scale" or the scatterplot of feelings in regards to relationships? (You: I really like you. Them: Oh, I only see us as friends. But we could probably date and see if something happens?)
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: FatalT on April 19, 2017, 06:12:33 AM: How high are you right now?
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Atramental on April 19, 2017, 08:43:42 AM: >female friend asks me why I don't try to get laid
>Say that physical pleasure is a temporary distraction on the road towards long-term contentment, and for that reason, casual sex is harmful if not degenerate
>Explain that relationships in general exist to alleviate the anxiety of existence, but often lead us to become comfortable with who we are and lose sight of who we should be. Romantic relationships exist solely for pleasure and mutual self affirmation, and they are for this reason harmful if not degenerate.
>To make sure my argument is air tight, I remind her that 1) sex can lead to reproduction and 2) to have a child is to kill a person several decades in the future. For these additional reasons, sex is potentially harmful, selfish, and degenerate.
>"Omg are you serious, you read too much"
>"Haha yeah"
>TFW you're too smart to have sex

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Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Valkyrie on April 19, 2017, 08:46:06 AM: A Gaf Virgin(tm) copy pasta
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 19, 2017, 10:53:07 AM: >Green text tho

So 4chan.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2017, 11:41:08 AM: Quote from: thisismyusername on April 19, 2017, 06:08:09 AM
Expand that out a bit. What do you mean by system2, system3, sysN? You mean the "Kinsey scale" or the scatterplot of feelings in regards to relationships? (You: I really like you. Them: Oh, I only see us as friends. But we could probably date and see if something happens?)

well i think the very notions of a "scale" or a "plot" along one or two axes both seem to already implicitly assume romance/sex/etc as a fixed telos, which relationships are measured according to how much they do or don't approach.

so that's what we're trying to get away from by introducing new systems. these could all have their own independent scales/plots/etc., if you like.

the problem is that sexuality has a whole system with stuff like genitals and sexual intercourse and reproduction associated with it. it's like a physical projection of a particular range of soul states. i think it would be helpful if analogous (though not necessarily 1:1 corresponding), distinct and independent systems existed to project alternative soul states, that's all.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 19, 2017, 11:52:58 AM: I think I get what you're saying. But at the same time: Wouldn't your system be similar to the scatterplot of relationships right now? That's what I'm trying to wrap my head around: What makes your system different? You're still "slotting" (oh god the phrasings for this) people into distinct boxes on a scatterplot. But instead of a scatterplot, you're putting them into a tree hierarchy, I'd guess?

Basically like:

Sexuality->Gender(2 trees: Male/Female)->Prefered Genitals to Sex up (4 trees: Penis/Vagina, M/F)->Transgenders allowed?(2 trees? 6?: Yes/No)

Basically a "root" system?

I mean looking at it like that, you'd still be lumping things in scientifically and boxing folks in. Sexuality in general is fucking weird and all over the place. I'm a case-in-point on that.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2017, 12:03:54 PM: yeah that's prob not wrong, but I think it's still better than what we have now. I'm just thinking of this as part of getting to the next stage. then we or others can critique the reality to get to the stage after that etc
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: toku on April 19, 2017, 02:00:49 PM: (http://i.imgur.com/V3HxxFO.gif)
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2017, 02:30:31 PM: don't agree.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: toku on April 19, 2017, 04:01:48 PM: (http://i.imgur.com/DoZxLZR.gif)
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Raist on April 19, 2017, 04:46:17 PM: Thi is why you shouldn't do drugs, kids.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: TakingBackSunday on April 19, 2017, 05:39:28 PM: this is certainly a recursive thread
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: I'm a Puppy! on April 19, 2017, 05:49:41 PM: How can you have all this brain power, yet Bing still sucks?
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 19, 2017, 06:31:02 PM: Honestly, I only think there is 4 legit sexualities.

Gay,
Bi,
Hetero,
A.

Anything else is funky. You start to "3D"-ize the scatterplot (Kinsey sliding scale of how straight-gay you are) with transexuals.

Gender assignment and preferred gender pronoun IMO don't count in this categorization, despite a lot of folks wanting it to.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Huff on April 19, 2017, 06:34:53 PM: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydrtF45-y-g&feature=youtu.be
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: chronovore on April 19, 2017, 07:10:32 PM: Quote from: Jack Remington on April 19, 2017, 06:41:25 PM
I hate that I can just assume what someone has in their pants by looking at them. It shouldn't be like that, IMO. If we had more options and more potential combinations, it would always be a surprise.

Move to Japan! You guys all see the adult videos with mosaics, thinking it's censorship. That mosaic is actually physically present once you get their pants off.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2017, 07:17:37 PM: Quote from: chronovore on April 19, 2017, 07:10:32 PM
Quote from: Jack Remington on April 19, 2017, 06:41:25 PM
I hate that I can just assume what someone has in their pants by looking at them. It shouldn't be like that, IMO. If we had more options and more potential combinations, it would always be a surprise.

Move to Japan! You guys all see the adult videos with mosaics, thinking it's censorship. That mosaic is actually physically present once you get their pants off.

It's juicy intel like this that makes all the hard work I put into my thought threads worthwhile.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Joe Molotov on April 19, 2017, 09:06:23 PM: I'm cutting through all the bullshit...who here wants to fuck?

Seriously, all this simping bullshit has got to stop. I'm going to ask flat out, who wants to fuck? We'd probably do it in a hotel, somewhere classy. Or in the back of my 97 Grand AM GT. However you want it you can get it. But nothing below a 7 I'm single, not desperate.

I have clear skin, so you can tell I am free of diseases. Women, feel free to hit me up.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2017, 09:30:28 PM: Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on April 19, 2017, 05:49:41 PM
How can you have all this brain power, yet Bing still sucks?

reported for offensive searchist content.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: curly on April 19, 2017, 11:11:23 PM: It does seem unfair that there's all these kinds of asexual reproduction that we can't do.
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Post by: Kara on April 19, 2017, 11:13:47 PM: So you want sexuality put back in Plato's appetitive, cur?
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: curly on April 19, 2017, 11:32:03 PM: I just think if you had the option to reproduce via expulsion-from-forehead it would ease a lot of the anxiety of relationships between the genders.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Valkyrie on April 20, 2017, 01:30:50 AM: Welcome to Sexbore, the home of the sex deprived.

:goty2 Don't get married if you like sex.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: chronovore on April 20, 2017, 09:39:13 PM: Quote from: butt on April 20, 2017, 01:30:50 AM
Welcome to Sexbore, the home of the sex deprived.

:goty2 Don't get married if you like sex.

ESPECIALLY don't marry a Japanese person if you like sex. The culture wants to shift from "coupledom" to "parents" the moment you have your first kid. It's a SERIOUS negotiation to subvert their assumption on this point. Big time. :-\ :japancry
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Valkyrie on April 21, 2017, 02:04:23 AM: Quote from: chronovore on April 20, 2017, 09:39:13 PM
Quote from: butt on April 20, 2017, 01:30:50 AM
Welcome to Sexbore, the home of the sex deprived.

:goty2 Don't get married if you like sex.

ESPECIALLY don't marry a Japanese person if you like sex. The culture wants to shift from "coupledom" to "parents" the moment you have your first kid. It's a SERIOUS negotiation to subvert their assumption on this point. Big time. :-\ :japancry
I just don't understand how my husband is okay with such a sexless marriage. It's not like I require it daily, but I do have human needs, and only he can help me with them. It's sad I've been resorting to toys and a crazy mind because he's always "too tired" or already asleep. It's not healthy for us. Plus, sex is great. Why won't he do it with me anymore? Makes me question whether he still finds me attractive or not, even though I know that isn't the case. The one time I tried dressing up in sexy lingerie, he just kinda laughed it away. I guess I am a desperate housewife now.

Glorious Nippon
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Raist on April 21, 2017, 03:46:12 AM: Quote from: chronovore on April 20, 2017, 09:39:13 PM
Quote from: butt on April 20, 2017, 01:30:50 AM
Welcome to Sexbore, the home of the sex deprived.

:goty2 Don't get married if you like sex.

ESPECIALLY don't marry a Japanese person if you like sex. The culture wants to shift from "coupledom" to "parents" the moment you have your first kid. It's a SERIOUS negotiation to subvert their assumption on this point. Big time. :-\ :japancry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=867T06XEn20
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: chronovore on April 21, 2017, 10:06:53 AM: Quote from: butt on April 21, 2017, 02:04:23 AM
Quote from: chronovore on April 20, 2017, 09:39:13 PM
Quote from: butt on April 20, 2017, 01:30:50 AM
Welcome to Sexbore, the home of the sex deprived.

:goty2 Don't get married if you like sex.

ESPECIALLY don't marry a Japanese person if you like sex. The culture wants to shift from "coupledom" to "parents" the moment you have your first kid. It's a SERIOUS negotiation to subvert their assumption on this point. Big time. :-\ :japancry
I just don't understand how my husband is okay with such a sexless marriage. It's not like I require it daily, but I do have human needs, and only he can help me with them. It's sad I've been resorting to toys and a crazy mind because he's always "too tired" or already asleep. It's not healthy for us. Plus, sex is great. Why won't he do it with me anymore? Makes me question whether he still finds me attractive or not, even though I know that isn't the case. The one time I tried dressing up in sexy lingerie, he just kinda laughed it away. I guess I am a desperate housewife now.

Glorious Nippon

You can make it. You both have to be committed to communicating first and foremost. Hopefully it won't take you guys as long as it did us.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Atramental on April 21, 2017, 12:36:00 PM: Get married, brehs.

But in all seriousness, I have yet to meet someone that I could imagine spending the rest of my life with.

I'm still surprised at how fast my "infatuation" for someone just died after being around them for more than a week. :doge
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Rufus on April 21, 2017, 02:13:28 PM: Familiarity breeds contempt.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: I'm a Puppy! on April 21, 2017, 03:49:34 PM: Well this thread took a turn for the serious.

My 2 cents is I'd slightly change what Rufus said to "Familiarity breeds complacency" not just in sex but in all aspects of a relationship.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: TakingBackSunday on April 21, 2017, 04:46:25 PM: a wild jaydubya appears
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: PlayDat on April 21, 2017, 09:41:33 PM: Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on April 19, 2017, 05:49:41 PM
How can you have all this brain power, yet Bing still sucks?

I get a $5 Amazon gift card from Bing about once a month. It's my default search engine now. On the rare occasion I don't find what I'm looking for, Google's still there as a backup. So now yet another megacorporation is profiting from my browsing data and it didn't cost them much more.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: I'm a Puppy! on April 21, 2017, 09:55:39 PM: Oh Bing is definitely my default search engine.

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for porn :hitler
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Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 21, 2017, 11:14:50 PM: Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on April 21, 2017, 09:55:39 PM
Oh Bing is definitely my default search engine.

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for porn :hitler
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Now we know why he made this thread. For better porn refinements. :ohhh
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Valkyrie on April 22, 2017, 02:51:19 AM: Don't hide what you search for, use incognito mode for vanilla stuff only. Live a little.

:jawalrus
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Mupepe on April 22, 2017, 03:18:45 PM: The wife and I have been together for 11 years, married for going on 8 years this September. Crisis mode is when we only have sex twice a week. It doesn't have to die.

Sharing fantasies with each other is a big thing that we learned to do early. Communicate.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 22, 2017, 04:27:07 PM: Wait, sex TWICE a week is crisis mode for you? :doge
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Trurl on April 22, 2017, 04:49:22 PM: What's your secret? Compatible schedules? Staying in shape? Cuckoldry?

The SO and I feel pretty ok about it when we're doing it twice a week.

Edit: oh, yeah. Communication.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Valkyrie on April 22, 2017, 05:30:30 PM: Quote from: Trurl on April 22, 2017, 04:49:22 PM
What's your secret?
No kids, I'm betting. If I'm wrong, Mupepe is confirmed not human.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Huff on April 22, 2017, 05:44:41 PM: I have no empathy for breeders :piss2
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Mupepe on April 22, 2017, 06:36:03 PM: No kids together, staying in shape is eh. I work out and shit but I'm not in shape by any means. Our schedules are terrible. She is a nurse with a changing schedule, just finished school. I'm working 40+ hours at my job and taking 4 classes in school. we just communicate thoroughly about sexuality I think. When I think of something in the middle of the day I send it to her. Sometimes it's random shit like "I was just thinking about rubbing you down with massage oil" She will do the same (mine are worse though for sure). I can say at least on my side it's nice to be reminded that you're wanted and in what ways.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Valkyrie on April 22, 2017, 07:22:17 PM: Ye, our sex was pretty nuts (huehue) before we decided to breed. It was actually fine after as well but then last year some stuff happened, marriage almost didn't make it, and now we're working our way back. Things are good, except the sex. I probably shouldn't go too much into details about that though. :lol
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Trent Dole on April 22, 2017, 07:49:38 PM: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMkN0BfRorA
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Post by: CatsCatsCats on April 22, 2017, 11:26:16 PM: If we don't have sex at least every other day my wife is definitely putting me on notice :lol
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 22, 2017, 11:30:08 PM: Quote from: CatsCatsCats on April 22, 2017, 11:26:16 PM
If we don't have sex at least every other day my wife is definitely putting me on notice :lol

This is blowing my mind a semi-grey-Asexual.

I seriously don't know how couples can want to have multiple times a day. I get desire, I get thinking about it. But having a limit of like 5+ times a week blows my mind. I guess I'm just bogged down by too much bullshit currently to think that's even possible in my life.
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Post by: CatsCatsCats on April 22, 2017, 11:42:10 PM: We don't always have sex every other day, but we get a long SO MUCH BETTER when we do
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Post by: toku on April 22, 2017, 11:42:48 PM: bless up thisismyusername
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: Mupepe on April 22, 2017, 11:51:17 PM: Quote from: CatsCatsCats on April 22, 2017, 11:42:10 PM
We don't always have sex every other day, but we get a long SO MUCH BETTER when we do
Most definitely. I notice I am way more irritable when we have gone a couple of days without it. This is including at least a few times a week that I jerk off when she is unavailable.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: CatsCatsCats on April 22, 2017, 11:52:28 PM: :respect
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: thisismyusername on April 22, 2017, 11:57:31 PM: Quote from: CatsCatsCats on April 22, 2017, 11:42:10 PM
We don't always have sex every other day, but we get a long SO MUCH BETTER when we do

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you or Mup's is/are. It's just "we have sex five times a week" is :mindblown to me. There's various life-factors for me to where I couldn't even think of sexing up a partner three times a week. "Every other day" is a pipe-dream to me. (And that's even if you get around my weird-ass sexuality and lust/desire factors)

I'm not knocking either of you two. If that works for you, great. I just... can't see it. :idont
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: demi on April 24, 2017, 11:21:47 AM: Quote from: butt on April 22, 2017, 07:22:17 PM
Ye, our sex was pretty nuts (huehue) before we decided to breed. It was actually fine after as well but then last year some stuff happened, marriage almost didn't make it, and now we're working our way back. Things are good, except the sex. I probably shouldn't go too much into details about that though. :lol

yes u should. thanks
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on July 12, 2017, 04:58:09 AM: bleh
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: toku on July 12, 2017, 06:02:59 AM: hope you're okay buddy

(http://i.imgur.com/axA6QYX.gif)
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: CrankyJay on July 12, 2017, 10:59:02 AM: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k80UQWWUIYs
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: TVC15 on July 12, 2017, 11:02:38 AM: I've been conceptualizing a set of cloaca-inspired sex apparatuses off-and-on for the past several years, originally (loosely) inspired by my reading of what I considered to be an aesthetically idealistic depiction of sex in my favorite book, The Ticket That Exploded (although what I've ended up with is significantly different due to pragmatic design issues).

Man has improved on so many of god's poor designs, sex included. I believe we can go even further.
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: recursivelyenumerable on July 13, 2017, 04:32:43 AM: yes I would strongly encourage continuing work on this project!!!
Title: Re: a thought about sex etc
Post by: TVC15 on July 13, 2017, 04:41:36 AM: Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on July 13, 2017, 04:32:43 AM
yes I would strongly encourage continuing work on this project!!!

I will write up a post over the next few days going into details. I'll send you a PM when it's done just in case you aren't sleazing around the forum as much in the Age of the Fall of Amir0x.