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Phoenix Dark

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Goin' on a date (WIN)
« on: November 14, 2008, 07:40:44 PM »
So yeah, I'm going on a date with someone I grew up with back in the days (1990-1993 to be exact). Her mom recently ran into mine, played matchmaker, now we're going out to dinner, and who knows what else  :o

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She's a marketing major (:piss2) but she likes a bunch of stuff I like :bow

Give me tips EB, I haven't been on a formal, serious date in ages. Should I play it cool or introduce myself to the max?
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« Reply #1 on: November 14, 2008, 07:41:50 PM »
Just have a good time and relax. This isnt the 60s anymore. Black people are liberated now. Kind of.
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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #2 on: November 14, 2008, 07:42:09 PM »
Just be yourself and all should be fine.
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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #3 on: November 14, 2008, 07:42:33 PM »
the chick in Junpei's avatar what
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« Reply #4 on: November 14, 2008, 07:43:13 PM »
Just apply all the advice Prole was giving to Arby's about job interviews.

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« Reply #5 on: November 14, 2008, 07:43:46 PM »
Whatever you do, try not to mention you play WoW
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« Reply #6 on: November 14, 2008, 07:44:35 PM »
good luck. i'd give you advice but yeah...
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« Reply #7 on: November 14, 2008, 07:45:00 PM »
Actually it's better if you just look at your feet the whole time and not talk much. Hopefully your looks will skate you by.
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« Reply #8 on: November 14, 2008, 07:45:32 PM »
Make sure that you ask a lot of questions about her.  Women like to talk about themselves and if you can make sure they do that, you should be in pretty solid shape.  Don't make it seem like an interview though, keep those questions open ended.

I'm sure she does things in her spare time, ask her about them.  I'm sure one of them you can build on with a follow up question.

Make it a casual and relaxing experience for her.
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« Reply #9 on: November 14, 2008, 07:46:02 PM »
whip out your BBC
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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #10 on: November 14, 2008, 07:46:29 PM »
Damn, I was hoping that "introduce myself" link was gonna be dick-in-a-box.
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Brehvolution

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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #11 on: November 14, 2008, 07:48:23 PM »
Tell her you wished her boobs were a little bigger but it should be fine for "practice".
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« Reply #12 on: November 14, 2008, 07:51:47 PM »
She looks pretty good though. You're gonna blow it, unfortunately. Better JO now and be done with it.
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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #13 on: November 14, 2008, 07:54:02 PM »
nvm i dont read threads

protip the penis goes into the vagina

Phoenix Dark

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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #14 on: November 14, 2008, 07:55:39 PM »
tell that twisted balls story when things are going good. If she laughs at it, that's your cue to FHUTA.

yeah just be yourself, ask her about herself, act interested, listen etc etc.

EDIT: tinyurl.com is blocked here, what did you post?
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can you see it now?

Of course this isn't my first date. I just haven't been on a formal one in awhile. Usually my dates revolve around going to the movies with the person after a study session, nothing fancy or particularly serious.
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« Reply #15 on: November 14, 2008, 07:58:23 PM »
Dude, she's cute. You should be happy.
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« Reply #16 on: November 14, 2008, 08:02:11 PM »
Dude, she's cute. You should be happy.

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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #17 on: November 14, 2008, 08:03:08 PM »
she's pretty hot. hey, if you need a dp partner let me know :teehee
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« Reply #18 on: November 14, 2008, 08:04:19 PM »
don't forget the alcohol!  :teehee
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« Reply #19 on: November 14, 2008, 08:06:35 PM »
Don't talk about yourself a lot.  Women hate guys that constantly talk about themselves and so many people (not just men) think that the easiest way to carry a conversation is to talk about themselves.  Ask her questions, but don't make it seems like you're reaching for something to talk about.  You'll be able to tell when it's something she enjoys talking about and just keep going down that route.  

And be yourself (most imporant).

And don't listen to the cock and funny shit.  Seriously.  Just be confident.  You are who you are.  Even if you bring up something that she finds nerdy or stupid, her reaction will depend on how you carry yourself when you bring it up.  

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« Reply #20 on: November 14, 2008, 08:07:02 PM »
Don't be a cheap ass and not pay for her dinner. Also, do not bring up high school. Especially if you were a nerd.
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Phoenix Dark

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« Reply #21 on: November 14, 2008, 08:09:08 PM »
EDIT: what's stopping this date from being fun, nothing fancy or particularly serious? I'm sure you'll much less nervous if it was.

I'm wearing a blazer, we're going to a nice restaurant (that'll go UNNAMED considering EB's petty hatred of fine establishments)
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« Reply #22 on: November 14, 2008, 08:10:11 PM »
Red Robin
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« Reply #23 on: November 14, 2008, 08:11:55 PM »
Bob Evans?
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« Reply #24 on: November 14, 2008, 08:12:07 PM »
I recommend the T6.
2 Chalupas, a soft taco, and wash it down with some Mountain Dew.
Recommend to her the spicy chicken crunchwrap. She will love you for it.
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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #25 on: November 14, 2008, 08:16:33 PM »
Olive Garden?  It is terrible, but who cares what we think, PD.  You shouldn't worry about naming it.

Phoenix Dark

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« Reply #26 on: November 14, 2008, 08:17:15 PM »
Olive Garden? 

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« Reply #27 on: November 14, 2008, 08:23:44 PM »
PD's date

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« Reply #28 on: November 14, 2008, 08:31:42 PM »
Us black people don't like the olive garden.

I'm thinking Applebee's.
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« Reply #29 on: November 14, 2008, 08:35:27 PM »
i can't believe pd didn't notice you following him around with a camera. nice candid footage--girl was a freak.
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Re: Goin' on a date (success pending)
« Reply #30 on: November 14, 2008, 08:49:26 PM »
Don't get drunk on McDonald's wine.
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« Reply #31 on: November 14, 2008, 09:51:21 PM »
she has DSLs... good shit bro!
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« Reply #32 on: November 15, 2008, 01:29:55 AM »
tell her about your dick cheese problem.
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« Reply #33 on: November 15, 2008, 01:33:40 AM »
What a cutie
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« Reply #34 on: November 15, 2008, 01:34:04 AM »
dont be a menace to south central!

i got my first bj after that movie

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« Reply #35 on: November 15, 2008, 01:34:40 AM »
don't be a menace is a classic
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« Reply #36 on: November 15, 2008, 01:44:53 AM »
Dude it's like my childhood. All we did was watch and quote that shit. I love it. I would buy it in HD with the quickness.
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« Reply #37 on: November 15, 2008, 01:48:18 AM »
That shit is still hilarious, oh my god. Is it on Netflix streaming? I need to christen the NXE
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« Reply #38 on: November 15, 2008, 02:03:12 AM »
"dp with pd"

oh man I lol'd

and whatever happened to that weekend chick?
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« Reply #39 on: November 15, 2008, 01:10:21 PM »
PD FTW.

Good luck, man.
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« Reply #40 on: November 15, 2008, 02:02:33 PM »
Olive Garden? 

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Thank God, you really had me worried there!!!

Good luck on your date, the girl is very cute. The advice in this thread is good, but make sure to do a bit of gentle touching (i.e. touch her arm, give her a hug and a kiss goodnight) too.
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« Reply #41 on: November 15, 2008, 02:04:05 PM »
Olive Garden? 

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Thank God, you really had me worried there!!!

Good luck on your date, the girl is very cute. The advice in this thread is good, but make sure to do a bit of gentle touching (i.e. touch her arm, give her a hug and a kiss goodnight) too.

hey this advice sucks i did this once and i still got fucking owned god i hate everything

my HDTV > chicks
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Re: Goin' on a date (WIN)
« Reply #42 on: November 15, 2008, 02:05:29 PM »
win is good

even before you say details Iam happy for you
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« Reply #43 on: November 15, 2008, 02:06:05 PM »
I arrived at the restarant around 9:16, thinking I was late but she had only arrived a minute before me. Like I said yesterday I wore a nice blazer, white shirt (first button unbottoned :bow) and some Dockers. She looked amazing in a nice red sweater and some jeans.

VERY easy to talk to. As advised I asked a bunch of questions I had thought about while driving to the place. School, interests, hobbies, movies, music, etc. Each thing was interesting and never forced, and I transitioned well from one Q to another. We spent a lot of time talking about school and music. She's a marketing major but does't think it's as interesting as it should be, and like me she's thinking about law school after she gets her MBA. Her music taste mimicked mine, and she's a huge Wu Tang fan hahaha, and agrees that Liquid Swords is the best Wu album (36 Chambers is #2!). She likes Fiona Apple too :bow

It was weird because she remembered all this stuff from our childhood. I remember next to nothing about my early childhood and didn't even remember growing up with her. But she was going on about how one time I got sprayed by a skunk and another time I fell off some monkey bars because I saw a spider smh. None of which I remember.

We left after about an hour and a half, then walked downtown. It's been raining here for the last couple days so there were puddles everywhere. Then while we were talking she'd randomly stop, pick up worms from the pavement, and put them back into the grass because she didn't want anyone to step on them. So we did that for a bit  :lol

I didn't realize she had taken the bus to dinner that night so I offered to drive her home. We almost went to see QoS but both of us didn't have enough money lol, and she wanted to rent a movie. So we went to Hollywood Video and she picked Chinatown which I had never seen before. Watched it at her place. VERY good movie. By that time it was past 2am and I was like oh shit, I forgot the time. I walked to the door, then tried to give her a handshake but she was moving in like she wanted a kiss, so I kissed her on the lips which wasn't that great because I'm not great at it. She laughed and I said bye, and headed out the door.

I feel too lucky right now, which is how I felt about my last quasi relationship which ended in failure. I'm going to try to make this one work. :bow
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« Reply #44 on: November 15, 2008, 02:06:53 PM »
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« Reply #45 on: November 15, 2008, 02:11:29 PM »
nice dude :D  I'm happy for you.

but now, a handshake?  seriously?  is that how you end all dates?  what the hell?  anyways, at least she corrected it!

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« Reply #46 on: November 15, 2008, 02:11:31 PM »
a childhood friend huh

this is gonna sound homo but that was a cute story

again, happy for you

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Re: Goin' on a date (WIN)
« Reply #47 on: November 15, 2008, 02:14:58 PM »
I hope by handshake you mean she shaked your penis with her hand.
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« Reply #48 on: November 15, 2008, 02:15:48 PM »
handshake

never change PD

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« Reply #49 on: November 15, 2008, 02:19:07 PM »
Strictly business.  I like your style.

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« Reply #50 on: November 15, 2008, 02:22:37 PM »
pick up worms from the pavement
nasty bitch

I kid, I kid, but you spend the whole night with a chick and you try to give her a handshake? >:(

Even if she's just a friend, give her a hug or a kiss on the cheek.

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« Reply #51 on: November 15, 2008, 02:23:11 PM »
Pathetic with girls-bore is FTW and 2/2 now this weekend.

PD finds a possible girlfriend, I get my dick sucked last night. WHOOO
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« Reply #52 on: November 15, 2008, 02:25:07 PM »
LOL you picked up WORMS off the ground? That's fucking nasty.
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« Reply #53 on: November 15, 2008, 02:30:21 PM »
handshake?  it's not a business transaction.  :lol

good going though, she's hot...keep it up and you'll be stomping her wedding dress in no time.

and yeah, why is junpei using your girl for his avatar?

Phoenix Dark

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« Reply #54 on: November 15, 2008, 02:30:43 PM »
I might ask her to come to Thanksgiving dinner but then again I can't guarantee my family would act nice
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« Reply #55 on: November 15, 2008, 02:32:02 PM »
I might ask her to come to Thanksgiving dinner but then again I can't guarantee my family would act nice
Wtf, don't do that. She's not even your girl yet.

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« Reply #56 on: November 15, 2008, 02:32:48 PM »
just ask her out on another date. 

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« Reply #57 on: November 15, 2008, 02:33:18 PM »
I might ask her to come to Thanksgiving dinner but then again I can't guarantee my family would act nice

too soon. 

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« Reply #58 on: November 15, 2008, 02:34:15 PM »
Call her tommorow though. So she doesn't know you're desperate.
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« Reply #59 on: November 15, 2008, 02:35:41 PM »
Yea another date is a better idea.

Ok no call today...what about an email?
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