Author Topic: Today, I got suspended from clinic by email. FML (Read 9000 times)

CurseoftheGods · « **on:** June 23, 2010, 10:14:01 AM »

I can't even book patients because I've been denied from Axium (computer program used to book patients and list all of their treatments). I can't even work on typodonts (pre-clinical mannequins).

I have a meeting this afternoon to see what's going on.

Dentistry bites.

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #1 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:27:56 AM »

Woohoo. It's a one month suspension.

And they're fearing a lawsuit, because I'm a double minority (international gay arab dental student).

Bacchus7 · « **Reply #2 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:33:20 AM »

Quote from: CurseoftheGods on June 23, 2010, 10:27:56 AM

Woohoo. It's a one month suspension.

And they're fearing a lawsuit, because I'm a double minority (international gay arab dental student).

Are you promised off to someone yet or can I still lock that down?

archie4208 · « **Reply #3 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:35:31 AM »

What did you do?

Barry Egan · « **Reply #4 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:35:33 AM »

why are they suspending you

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #5 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:36:25 AM »

No idea. I have a meeting with them this afternoon to find out what's going on.

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #6 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:43:33 AM »

Yeah, I finished and passed all of my exams. It's all just clinic duties.

I had no idea what's going it. It's such a slap in the face.

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #7 on:** June 23, 2010, 10:51:48 AM »

It looks like I fucked up a filling on a kid due to poor documentation from other students (it's the first time I've seen the patient), and the paediatric dentist who was supervising got really pissed and wrote a negative skills assessment and a report about me. She became really vindictive and wanted retribution.

Oh, well. A one month suspension seems kind of counterproductive in my opinion, but I realize that I have to bend over for my superiors to get what I want.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #8 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:05:20 AM »

lol I've been filing patients for like 6 years. n00b :p

Smooth Groove · « **Reply #9 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:06:09 AM »

Sorry, dude, but just hang in there and stay calm. A friend was in a similar situation as you but he got expelled. He basically went nuts and contaminated the surgical tools in an operating room by rubbing his dirty hands everywhere. It was a shame because he was one of the top students academically.

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #10 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:12:11 AM »

Quote from: Smooth Groove on June 23, 2010, 11:06:09 AM

Sorry, dude, but just hang in there and stay calm. A friend was in a similar situation as you but he got expelled. He basically went nuts and contaminated the surgical tools in an operating room by rubbing his dirty hands everywhere. It was a shame because he was one of the top students academically.

Thanks, man. It's nice to know that you've got my back. The medical field is really stressful, and it's a shame that a lot of people don't know about it and can't emphasize.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #11 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:18:20 AM »

You told them you were gay?

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #12 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:21:04 AM »

Yup, since I was getting a lot of dirty looks as I was coming out.

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #13 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:23:37 AM »

All of my grades were just pulled online. I can't even see them anymore.

This is just too awesome.

chronovore · « **Reply #14 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:37:54 AM »

Jinfash, you het pet.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #15 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:39:43 AM »

If they fear a lawsuit why are they dicking you around like this? Pulling your grades wtf

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #16 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:49:36 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on June 23, 2010, 11:39:43 AM

If they fear a lawsuit why are they dicking you around like this? Pulling your grades wtf

They're trying to cover their asses.

I'm too nice of a guy, and they know that. I don't give lip or speak up, so they think they can fuck around with me.

Not sure what I'm gonna do next.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #17 on:** June 23, 2010, 11:54:23 AM »

Quote from: CurseoftheGods on June 23, 2010, 10:51:48 AM

I realize that I have to bend over for my superiors to get what I want.

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gay arab dental student

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #18 on:** June 23, 2010, 12:49:34 PM »

Quote from: CurseoftheGods on June 23, 2010, 11:49:36 AM

I'm too nice of a guy, and they know that. I don't give lip or speak up, so they think they can fuck around with me.

Until finally he SNAPS and this becomes the beginning of The Dentist 3.

Barry Egan · « **Reply #19 on:** June 23, 2010, 02:51:48 PM »

Is this Dalhousie Dental that's dicking you over Curse?

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #20 on:** June 23, 2010, 03:52:04 PM »

Yup.

I've just been told due to those write ups, I've been given an F in Clinical and Comprehensive Patient Care and have been selected to repeat the entire year.

Woohoo!

Smooth Groove · « **Reply #21 on:** June 23, 2010, 03:55:41 PM »

1 F and you have to repeat? If that's not stated in the college rules, maybe you should threaten a lawsuit.

BlackMage · « **Reply #22 on:** June 23, 2010, 03:57:20 PM »

wait a minute. you are gay? like gay gay or evilbore gay.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #23 on:** June 23, 2010, 04:00:58 PM »

So what exactly went wrong?

brawndolicious · « **Reply #24 on:** June 23, 2010, 04:06:26 PM »

curse, so you did a filling wrong because some other student made a mistake? are you the only one getting in trouble?

OptimoPeach · « **Reply #25 on:** June 23, 2010, 04:06:39 PM »

Yeah is there any way for you to appeal that decision? From what you've said it doesn't seem justifiable to have you repeat a WHOLE YEAR because of one mistake. But I dunno how stringent the requirements are for dental school, so maybe I'm wrong here

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #26 on:** June 23, 2010, 04:23:05 PM »

I also got 3 negative skills assessments as well:

1. Overpreparing a tooth
2. Messing up an endo diagnosis
3. Cutting (papercut like) a patient's lip with a finishing strip - even though the patient told the instructor it was her fault, because she moved
4. Retreating a tooth (doing a filling two times, because of poor documentation)

The last one was the straw that broke the camel's back.

There is an appeal process, but it doesn't really work.

Bloodwake · « **Reply #27 on:** June 23, 2010, 04:32:05 PM »

I didn't know Berea College taught dentistry.

Sucks dude. I know how it feels to be fucked over by a higher learning institution. Give them hell.

Barry Egan · « **Reply #28 on:** June 23, 2010, 04:32:42 PM »

Fucking crooks.

Send a letter to The Coast and the Dalhousie Gazette explaining the situation. And you should absolutely appeal those grades.

Powerslave · « **Reply #29 on:** June 23, 2010, 05:22:53 PM »

My prayers are with you NurseoftheGods.

muckhole · « **Reply #30 on:** June 23, 2010, 06:46:06 PM »

That's horrible, Curse. Terribly unfair.

Quote from: My F*cking Grandpa on June 23, 2010, 04:32:42 PM

Send a letter to The Coast and the Dalhousie Gazette explaining the situation. And you should absolutely appeal those grades.

Absolutely. I know you said the appeal process doesn't work, but you should definitely try.

chronovore · « **Reply #31 on:** June 23, 2010, 08:13:22 PM »

Appeal! And tell them there is a brigade of gay lawyers riding in from Montreal to try your case.

BlackMage · « **Reply #32 on:** June 23, 2010, 08:16:55 PM »

and thus CotG's journey to become a lawyer started that day.

Kestastrophe · « **Reply #33 on:** June 23, 2010, 09:46:23 PM »

This sucks dude. Its been a rough couple of months for boritos :'(

lennedsay · « **Reply #34 on:** June 24, 2010, 12:33:26 AM »

Wow utter bullshit! So glad I'm done with school... For now... :'(

T234 · « **Reply #35 on:** June 24, 2010, 01:26:32 AM »

whoa dude

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #36 on:** June 24, 2010, 01:28:50 AM »

holy shit that's some bullshit. Sorry to hear that man $:-\$

Bildi · « **Reply #37 on:** June 24, 2010, 01:50:22 AM »

Quote from: CurseoftheGods on June 23, 2010, 10:51:48 AM

She became really vindictive and wanted retribution.

That's terrible dude.

The bitch'll get what's coming eventually.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #38 on:** June 24, 2010, 01:54:28 AM »

Eh they never usually do, sadly.

I'd look for another job in the mean time.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #39 on:** June 24, 2010, 01:57:15 AM »

How far into the semester are you?

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #40 on:** June 24, 2010, 09:25:16 AM »

I just finished third year, but I just have been told that I should repeat it.

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #41 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:40:00 AM »

I got the report and the negative skills assessment. She circled the "0" seven times.

Positive Touch · « **Reply #42 on:** June 24, 2010, 03:44:08 PM »

what in the fuck

did she hear you calling her a bitch one day or something? surely there's some way you can work this out without having to repeat an entire year's worth of work

Barry Egan · « **Reply #43 on:** June 24, 2010, 03:48:05 PM »

No wonder the field of dentistry has such a high suicide rate

lennedsay · « **Reply #44 on:** June 24, 2010, 05:24:46 PM »

Tell her that you could receive a perfect score in the Dealing With A Total Cunt category.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #45 on:** June 24, 2010, 06:37:29 PM »

Quote from: CurseoftheGods on June 24, 2010, 10:40:00 AM

I got the report and the negative skills assessment. She circled the "0" seven times.

Damn. Do you have any idea why she's pissed off?

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #46 on:** June 24, 2010, 08:45:14 PM »

This is the note I wrote to my classmates.

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Dearest Colleagues,

I have had a lot of time to think about this. I just wanted to thank you all for being supportive.

I realize that I'm not the best in class clinically. I do wish that I got notice further ahead, but it really is no fault but my own since I'm so sensitive and thin-skinned.

I do appreciate you guys trying to reach out to me, even though I admit I haven't been responsive enough in that regard.

Without naming too many names, I do want to thank Karim, Rammi, Jonathan, John, Sam, Jordon, Ian, Dav, Alexandra, Elizabeth, Sarah, and Erin for being so helpful.

I really am going to miss you all so much. It really hurts that I can't continue the year with you guys even though it's due to my own incompetence and shortcomings.

I haven't asked much of the class, but I do hope that I keep getting invited to social events. Please don't forget about me.

If I didn't mention your name, don't take it personally. I have no grudges against anyone in the class. I do love you all, but I just want the people who bent over backwards for me to be recognized.

You are the reason that I'm still alive today. When I first got the email of my suspension, I contemplated suicide. Your support has talked me out of it.

I could make an appeal, but I'm just going to bend over and take it (since that's what I do best, LOL! I MADE A FUNNY). I'm just tired of fighting.

Thank you. I wish you all the very best.

XXX

muckhole · « **Reply #47 on:** June 24, 2010, 09:39:15 PM »

You know your situation and school best Curse, but I still wish you'd try to appeal this.

Purple Filth · « **Reply #48 on:** June 24, 2010, 09:45:32 PM »

Quote from: CurseoftheGods on June 24, 2010, 08:45:14 PM

This is the note I wrote to my classmates.

Quote
Dearest Colleagues,

I have had a lot of time to think about this. I just wanted to thank you all for being supportive.

I realize that I'm not the best in class clinically. I do wish that I got notice further ahead, but it really is no fault but my own since I'm so sensitive and thin-skinned.

I do appreciate you guys trying to reach out to me, even though I admit I haven't been responsive enough in that regard.

Without naming too many names, I do want to thank Karim, Rammi, Jonathan, John, Sam, Jordon, Ian, Dav, Alexandra, Elizabeth, Sarah, and Erin for being so helpful.

I really am going to miss you all so much. It really hurts that I can't continue the year with you guys even though it's due to my own incompetence and shortcomings.

I haven't asked much of the class, but I do hope that I keep getting invited to social events. Please don't forget about me.

If I didn't mention your name, don't take it personally. I have no grudges against anyone in the class. I do love you all, but I just want the people who bent over backwards for me to be recognized.

You are the reason that I'm still alive today. When I first got the email of my suspension, I contemplated suicide. Your support has talked me out of it.

I could make an appeal, but I'm just going to bend over and take it (since that's what I do best, LOL! I MADE A FUNNY). I'm just tired of fighting.

Thank you. I wish you all the very best.

XXX

If this is really true then $:-\$

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #49 on:** June 24, 2010, 09:48:36 PM »

WrikaWrek · « **Reply #50 on:** June 24, 2010, 09:52:12 PM »

Quote from: Smooth Groove on June 23, 2010, 11:06:09 AM

Sorry, dude, but just hang in there and stay calm. A friend was in a similar situation as you but he got expelled. He basically went nuts and contaminated the surgical tools in an operating room by rubbing his dirty hands everywhere. It was a shame because he was one of the top students academically.

You know, this post seemed posed for great heights, it was gonna be legendary. And then instead of turning going straight ahead to CK it bailed out on the RTY exit.

WrikaWrek · « **Reply #51 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:02:38 PM »

Oh motherfucker please, suicide over that shit? Snap out of it bitch.

Cunts will be everywhere, so what man, feed on that shit. Next year you own that shit, you slam the grade on the bitch. A professor flunked me two classes at the same time in front of everybody in the University bar, not because i had bad grades, but simply because i didn't appear during classes for like 3 weeks. What the fuck right, there's no regulation regarding those particular classes that would result in a flunk due to skipping classes, fact is the motherfucker didn't like my ass and that's about it, it happens a whole lot with me, half of the professors hate my guts with a passion.

Whatever, so because of this asshole i can't finish university in 3 years, ok. This semester, i took the same classes, and chose to have the classes under the same professor. Guess what baby, i'm riding a 16/20 so far, and i've been cruising that shit.

Smile back shit head, smile back

chronovore · « **Reply #52 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:13:23 PM »

Quote from: WrikaWrek on June 24, 2010, 10:02:38 PM

Oh motherfucker please, suicide over that shit? Snap out of it bitch.

Cunts will be everywhere, so what man, feed on that shit. Next year you own that shit, you slam the grade on the bitch. A professor flunked me two classes at the same time in front of everybody in the University bar, not because i had bad grades, but simply because i didn't appear during classes for like 3 weeks. What the fuck right, there's no regulation regarding those particular classes that would result in a flunk due to skipping classes, fact is the motherfucker didn't like my ass and that's about it, it happens a whole lot with me, half of the professors hate my guts with a passion.

Whatever, so because of this asshole i can't finish university in 3 years, ok. This semester, i took the same classes, and chose to have the classes under the same professor. Guess what baby, i'm riding a 16/20 so far, and i've been cruising that shit.

Smile back shit head, smile back

The professor was probably just jealous of your loquacious and articulate elucidation.

WrikaWrek · « **Reply #53 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:19:09 PM »

Quote from: chronovore on June 24, 2010, 10:13:23 PM

Quote from: WrikaWrek on June 24, 2010, 10:02:38 PM
Oh motherfucker please, suicide over that shit? Snap out of it bitch.

Cunts will be everywhere, so what man, feed on that shit. Next year you own that shit, you slam the grade on the bitch. A professor flunked me two classes at the same time in front of everybody in the University bar, not because i had bad grades, but simply because i didn't appear during classes for like 3 weeks. What the fuck right, there's no regulation regarding those particular classes that would result in a flunk due to skipping classes, fact is the motherfucker didn't like my ass and that's about it, it happens a whole lot with me, half of the professors hate my guts with a passion.

Whatever, so because of this asshole i can't finish university in 3 years, ok. This semester, i took the same classes, and chose to have the classes under the same professor. Guess what baby, i'm riding a 16/20 so far, and i've been cruising that shit.

Smile back shit head, smile back

The professor was probably just jealous of your loquacious and articulate elucidation.

Every kind of writing has its place and uses, it all depends on the effect you want it to have. Funny thing, i always get props for my writing and for my oral presentations. In literature, the professor singled out (along with other 4) my answer in the test as one of the best amongst 100 students answers. In his words, my answer was an almost perfect text, only lacking in actual content regarding the specific question.

I hadn't read the book. I kept my mouth shut!

Cormacaroni · « **Reply #54 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:30:24 PM »

Quote from: chronovore on June 24, 2010, 10:13:23 PM

Quote from: WrikaWrek on June 24, 2010, 10:02:38 PM
Oh motherfucker please, suicide over that shit? Snap out of it bitch.

Cunts will be everywhere, so what man, feed on that shit. Next year you own that shit, you slam the grade on the bitch. A professor flunked me two classes at the same time in front of everybody in the University bar, not because i had bad grades, but simply because i didn't appear during classes for like 3 weeks. What the fuck right, there's no regulation regarding those particular classes that would result in a flunk due to skipping classes, fact is the motherfucker didn't like my ass and that's about it, it happens a whole lot with me, half of the professors hate my guts with a passion.

Whatever, so because of this asshole i can't finish university in 3 years, ok. This semester, i took the same classes, and chose to have the classes under the same professor. Guess what baby, i'm riding a 16/20 so far, and i've been cruising that shit.

Smile back shit head, smile back

The professor was probably just jealous of your loquacious and articulate elucidation.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #55 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:44:00 PM »

I'm pretty sure the professor tried to sleep with Wrika but Wrika declined until he saw the professor's wife which looked the professor but with tits and now came to agreement that they would sleep together and is now passing the course 16/20.

Bloodwake · « **Reply #56 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:56:03 PM »

Don't let TOTAL FUCKING CUNTS get you down.

It's not worth ending your life over. Bullshit never is.

WrikaWrek · « **Reply #57 on:** June 24, 2010, 10:56:37 PM »

Quote from: Fresh Prince on June 24, 2010, 10:44:00 PM

I'm pretty sure the professor tried to sleep with Wrika but Wrika declined until he saw the professor's wife which looked the professor but with tits and now came to agreement that they would sleep together and is now passing the course 16/20.

I'm actually pretty sure the guy is gay.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #58 on:** June 24, 2010, 11:00:44 PM »

Quote from: Bloodwake on June 24, 2010, 10:56:03 PM

Don't let TOTAL FUCKING CUNTS get you down.

It's not worth ending your life over. Bullshit never is.

yea man, hang in there. :'(

CurseoftheGods · « **Reply #59 on:** June 24, 2010, 11:07:46 PM »

I didn't contemplate suicide for repeating a year, but it did feel like the final nail in the coffin.

I've just had a rough life, and the past year has been horrible for me. I've had way too much shit thrown my way, personally and academically.

I'm seeing a therapist for a few months now. She has diagnosed me with clinical depression. It's helpful, but it's really hard to shake this feeling of inadequacy and loneliness.

To people who don't understand how depression works -- it's simply not feeling being bummed out, it really feels like physical pain ALL the time.

But I'm not going to end myself. I'm not going to take the easy way out.

Anyway, I've got the summer off. I'm thinking of going to Amsterdam to do some reflection and think about what I should be doing next. I think there are a lot of things that I should consider changing about me.

P.S. Coming out and being gay sucks.

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Author Topic: Today, I got suspended from clinic by email. FML (Read 9000 times)