I've never been the biggest turn based jrpg guy. Like, I never really enjoyed the combat of most until Grandia 2. But overall Chrono Trigger is my favorite and people mostly seem down on it (relatively; "overrated" and whatnot). The reason why I like it is pretty much because it lessens or eliminates what I dislike about jrpgs, like the grinding, random encounters, serious(ly stupid) stories, long length, etc. Also, time travel.
I want to play Xenoblade because it seems like another anti-rpg rpg. although xenoblade is supposed to be really long. and because demi, bebpo, and a few others here seem to like it. can't trust other sources.
edit: I just realized that final fantasy 8 is actually everything I dislike about jrpgs, only supercharged.