I find the whole "omg women can ruin our lives" shit so fucking far fetched.
Well, it's just a matter of what's relevant to them. Like, if we are looking at me specifically, rape isn't a big concern in my life. I don't plan to rape anyone, nor do I foresee getting raped. As such, rape isn't a very scary threat. It IS theoretically possible that a woman could accuse me of rape (though I'm personally not all that worried about that), so, from a selfish standpoint, it's easy to understand why people in my demographic would focus more on this scary story than scary stories of rape.
I just caution not to get carried away with that narrow worldview and lose perspective. I mean, yes, false rape charges should be discouraged, but how do we make sure that stories like this don't happen again? Because that would be swell. But before focusing on just that, how do you do so without adding undeserved skepticism towards anyone who presses rape charges? Furthermore, are false rape charges even as pervasive and dangerous as one story might lead us to suspect that it demands such urgency?