It's a queer act, yes. Gay, depending on one's sexual preference. Gay is not only sexual preference but also relationship/romantic preference.
The definition for homosexual is "romantic and/or sexual attraction or behavior between members of the same sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectional, or romantic attractions" primarily or exclusively to people of the same sex"
So yes, I'll admit I'm queer.
Gay? No.