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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23160 on: January 21, 2014, 06:35:19 PM »
The world doesn't need people playing devil's advocate for everything bruh. There is no way to have a valid conversation when one party seriously thinks "Well she shouldn't have let him sexually harass her so much, then it wouldn't be such a big deal" is some realistic shit. Nobody should have to debate the finer points of not blaming victims for how they react to being victimized. It's stupid and asinine and deserves to be treated as stupid and asinine.

If people aren't contributing with topics germane to the conversation and are actively holding it back with their spergtastic inability to read any form of subtext, discern context, or suss out human emotion, absolutely keep that shit moving with a ban. More of that would keep GAF from having ten threads a day that are basically "Why do human beings do the things that human beings do?".

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23161 on: January 21, 2014, 06:35:30 PM »
though it is kinda funny he's getting kid-gloved a little. joe shmoe junior wouldn't last a second.

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I refuse to believe it was one of the NuMods that did him in, but whatever: Good moderation happened this day.

Edit: Oh already talked about. But the image just makes it worth it.

Edit2: Not gonna be back. Good, I think.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23162 on: January 21, 2014, 06:57:21 PM »
The world doesn't need people playing devil's advocate for everything bruh. There is no way to have a valid conversation when one party seriously thinks "Well she shouldn't have let him sexually harass her so much, then it wouldn't be such a big deal" is some realistic shit. Nobody should have to debate the finer points of not blaming victims for how they react to being victimized. It's stupid and asinine and deserves to be treated as stupid and asinine.

I guess my view is that if you find a view objectionable or even abhorrent, you should always open yourself to confronting it where civil conversation is still a possibility. I don't think it's conducive to mutual understanding or affords you any hope of getting through to people if you just attack people and censor discussion completely. As society, I believe we are encouraged to understand causes and consequences of things like criminality and forms of social prejudice as a prerequisite to combatting them, we don't affect change purely through public shaming and punishment.

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If people aren't contributing with topics germane to the conversation and are actively holding it back with their spergtastic inability to read any form of subtext, discern context, or suss out human emotion, absolutely keep that shit moving with a ban.

...so Evilore should shut down the forum, I agree.

I personally think there would have been a way to talk civilly about the social dynamics in play during that discussion. We probably would have arrived at the exact same conclusion - that this guy was letting his dumb dick run his mouth and that there should be no levy of expectation on her part to do anything to dissuade him - but at least people would have talked that out and understood it. People are too quick to shut down conversation or dominate things with their own agenda in my view. I don't wanna hold hands and sing cumbaya, but it would be nice to let people be honest in their assessments and discussions, and self moderate sometimes.

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« Reply #23163 on: January 21, 2014, 07:03:08 PM »
I understand that you're finding value in hashing things all the way out, but we should all have figured out the right answer here already, no need to show the work

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« Reply #23164 on: January 21, 2014, 07:19:05 PM »
I understand that you're finding value in hashing things all the way out, but we should all have figured out the right answer here already, no need to show the work

And even then Jaffe's showing of his work is scattershot and doesn't hold a point. His whole entire argument was based around "BUT SHE SAID SHE WAS DIVORCED, THAT MEANS SHE DIDN'T WANT IT TO BE TOTALLY PROFESSIONAL RIGHT!?"

Basically, a non-comic version of that Doug Raped Patti comic:

"But listen, she didn't say 'stop talking like that, you're making me uncomfortable' enough, so it's not really sexual harassment!"
"No, Jaffe. No. She was being professional."
"I don't disagree bu--"
"No. Jaffe, what you're doing is victim blaming. You are blaming her for not saying "no" forcefully enough."

HONK HONK.

(And all that)

Devolution gave Jaffe plenty of outs and even attempted to educate him and find out what his point is. But he continued with that line of logic of "she didn't say she was really uncomfortable enough!" Which is downright scuzzy.

There's having a discussion and there's being a complete jackass that isn't learning anything. Jaffe continued to be a jackass and got banned. Now he's catching hurt feelings for being caught being a dick and supporting someone that tries to be scuzzy to women.

I feel sorry for his kids (he has two daughters, IIRC he mentioned it in GAF I think) if that's truly how he feels in regards to stuff like this.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23165 on: January 21, 2014, 07:19:37 PM »
Thread has now been taken over by

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« Reply #23166 on: January 21, 2014, 07:27:29 PM »
Radiohead: Once again, did you read his posts? Fully? To the end?

Because this is reason enough to ban his ass after he continued to go "I don't disagree it isn't scuzzy, but she could've said something a bit more forceful/let him know."

That is straight up victim blaming. No beating around the bush.

And this is after he "went to bed" to get some sleep before work.

If he doesn't come back to GAF over this, the IQ of the board only goes up slightly with one less brain-dead game developer being there spouting shit that shows there's an issue in the industry in regards to the sexes. There's no "devil's advocate" here, simply straight up stupidity.

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« Reply #23167 on: January 21, 2014, 07:35:14 PM »
He pretty much epitomized the problem while thinking he's good at making women feel welcome and safe.

He owns no mirrors.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23168 on: January 21, 2014, 07:40:16 PM »
Gurl, seriously though: The fact he's catching feelings despite "having no issue with GAF. I love the site. It's their rules. The ban is fine. But I'm not going back" is reason enough to call this a winning day for you.

Where's that Ash Caught Feelings .gif though, Esch has it I'm sure.

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97971152&postcount=1704
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97978910&postcount=1731
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97990001&postcount=1797

These are good posts.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23169 on: January 21, 2014, 07:45:24 PM »
I guess my view is that if you find a view objectionable or even abhorrent, you should always open yourself to confronting it where civil conversation is still a possibility. I don't think it's conducive to mutual understanding or affords you any hope of getting through to people if you just attack people and censor discussion completely. As society, I believe we are encouraged to understand causes and consequences of things like criminality and forms of social prejudice as a prerequisite to combatting them, we don't affect change purely through public shaming and punishment.

...so Evilore should shut down the forum, I agree.

I personally think there would have been a way to talk civilly about the social dynamics in play during that discussion. We probably would have arrived at the exact same conclusion - that this guy was letting his dumb dick run his mouth and that there should be no levy of expectation on her part to do anything to dissuade him - but at least people would have talked that out and understood it. People are too quick to shut down conversation or dominate things with their own agenda in my view. I don't wanna hold hands and sing cumbaya, but it would be nice to let people be honest in their assessments and discussions, and self moderate sometimes.

You want to know the worst part of Political Science as an academic field? In every class, every single fucking class, there's at least one moment where someone--for God only knows what reason--will try and turn the lecture into a discussion on conspiracy theories.

"What is terrorism? Can terrorism be enacted by a state institution, or does it become an act of war, or something else entirely? If you'll refer to the sinking of the Rainbow Warrior in 19...yes?"

"9/11 was an inside job, I think that makes the American government terrorists!"

Conspiracy theory guy does not deserve a seat at the table. Conspiracy theory guy does not deserve a ticket into the venue. Conspiracy theory guy does not deserve to be taken seriously at all, ever, not once. And victim blaming guy is right next to him. If you enjoy debating the pros and cons of Euro-centrism on Stormfront, that's your deal. But you are only serving to legitimize the conversation surrounding those painfully stupid elements when you take them seriously. Jaffe had his shot at being taken seriously and he blew it by repeatedly failing to...well, he failed to even make sense for the most part. That's his own fault, and the internet at large shouldn't burden itself with stooping down to coddle him when he fails to step up with meaningful input.

The best part is, if this woman had confronted the guy, and that resulted in him blowing up at her, people like Jaffe would be doing the same shit. Instead of "She should have confronted him" it would have been "She should have just ignored him, it couldn't have hurt her to just let it pass by". There is ALWAYS something the victim could have done for people like this. Because the event that took place is something they have a fucked up desire to defend.

On the other end, you can have constructive and even enlightening debate about complex issues. Even on GAF! The Dr. V's Magical Putter thread shows that, despite the fact that it becomes the same arguments treading water for a few pages.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23170 on: January 21, 2014, 07:49:24 PM »
My post in the Superman Vs. Batman thread is being posted on Latino Review and other movie sites :what

I never asked for this.

http://latino-review.com/2014/01/superman-v-batman-release-date-change-triggers-massive-plot-rumors/
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« Reply #23171 on: January 21, 2014, 07:59:17 PM »
Cosby's commanding cock is finally famous.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23172 on: January 21, 2014, 08:15:13 PM »
you're James Woods? :rofl

that's my top 10 poster
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« Reply #23173 on: January 21, 2014, 08:18:27 PM »
:mynicca
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« Reply #23174 on: January 21, 2014, 08:36:00 PM »
:mynicca

was that post true or did it come straight from your ass  :lol

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« Reply #23175 on: January 21, 2014, 08:38:12 PM »
:mynicca

was that post true or did it come straight from your ass  :lol

It's true. I was told these things by someone that was basically fired from the production.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23176 on: January 21, 2014, 08:49:49 PM »
I'd imagine Affleck is constantly on set thinking man, I could have directed this so much better.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23178 on: January 21, 2014, 09:01:43 PM »
David Jaffe is as much of an "industry figure" as any of us at this point. He's about as effectual as that Space Giraffe lunatic.

Hey, Jeff Minter is awesome!
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23180 on: January 21, 2014, 10:04:16 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=755822

Well, at least GAF some-what agrees that the censorship is just.

Goddamn it, Takao~!  :heart
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« Reply #23181 on: January 21, 2014, 10:07:33 PM »


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« Reply #23182 on: January 21, 2014, 10:17:49 PM »
:mouf
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« Reply #23183 on: January 21, 2014, 10:25:00 PM »
Play spot the loli avatar decrying censorship.

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« Reply #23184 on: January 21, 2014, 10:29:00 PM »
Etna's the only loli I'm close to standing on that borderline of "nearly wearing nothing at all."  :-\ Thankfully, NISA doesn't go out of their way to sexualize the Disgaea cast. ...Okay, there was "Etna's Panties and finding them, d00d!" in Prinny 2, but that isn't really sexualizing them like this game.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23185 on: January 21, 2014, 10:29:50 PM »
That's not even one of the censored ones.
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« Reply #23186 on: January 21, 2014, 10:31:22 PM »
Etna was just weird in general and the main dude was a little shirtless boy too so it didn't stand out much.

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« Reply #23187 on: January 21, 2014, 10:34:27 PM »
Right, but I think in comparison Nippon Ichi's "loli"s are pretty tame compared to Idea Factory and other such Japanese companies.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23188 on: January 21, 2014, 10:39:10 PM »
Almost got banned in the IndieSpark thread, I'm not touching the loli shit. Pedos gonna pedo.

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« Reply #23189 on: January 21, 2014, 10:41:03 PM »
Almost got banned in the IndieSpark thread, I'm not touching the loli shit. Pedos gonna pedo.

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« Reply #23191 on: January 21, 2014, 10:45:30 PM »
I guess I just didn't see anything wrong with either of those which is why I couldn't really process why he'd be banned.

 :yeshrug

Especially after how aggressive I was, lol.

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« Reply #23192 on: January 21, 2014, 10:46:30 PM »
I think those are the only two he posted, I didn't see the others in browsing the carnage of Jaffe.  :lol

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« Reply #23193 on: January 21, 2014, 10:47:43 PM »
Almost got banned in the IndieSpark thread, I'm not touching the loli shit. Pedos gonna pedo.

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« Reply #23194 on: January 21, 2014, 10:52:05 PM »
Oh yeah. You kept it real son. Too real but real.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23195 on: January 21, 2014, 10:53:28 PM »
Dyack was more relevant when he was banned. How fucking tragic. Jaffe seriously coasted off the first GOW, the second worst of the mainline series, for how many years?

The question I have is this: If Jaffe had a really popular AAA title in current release what would his punishment have been, if any?
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« Reply #23196 on: January 21, 2014, 10:54:05 PM »
Dyack was more relevant when he was banned. How fucking tragic. Jaffe seriously coasted off the first GOW, the second worst of the mainline series, for how many years?

The question I have is this: If Jaffe had a really popular AAA title in current release what would his punishment have been, if any?

A WiiU release date.
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« Reply #23197 on: January 21, 2014, 10:58:28 PM »
Dyack was more relevant when he was banned. How fucking tragic. Jaffe seriously coasted off the first GOW, the second worst of the mainline series, for how many years?

The question I have is this: If Jaffe had a really popular AAA title in current release what would his punishment have been, if any?

What's funny is that he's leaving the site because of this. It's a minor two week ban and you'd think he'd learn something from it. But apparently he won't and doesn't want to because "GAF turned against me and the moderators banned me for being a 'celebrity jackass.'"/caught feels.

That conversation in his twitter photo basically says he doesn't get it. Sad, really.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23198 on: January 21, 2014, 11:06:04 PM »
All these loli avs replyin', I'm dyin'.

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« Reply #23199 on: January 21, 2014, 11:22:08 PM »
that reminds me i need to update my gaf avatar
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23201 on: January 21, 2014, 11:25:15 PM »
i don't get this loli business, but that senran kagura game people were getting mad about seems aight   :shaq

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« Reply #23202 on: January 21, 2014, 11:28:32 PM »
bore help

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« Reply #23203 on: January 21, 2014, 11:29:33 PM »
bore help

i stumbled onto toddlercon

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Nuke your house from orbit.

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« Reply #23204 on: January 21, 2014, 11:30:50 PM »
will do

after i make my avatar
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« Reply #23205 on: January 21, 2014, 11:31:28 PM »
I'm not even going to google that.
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« Reply #23206 on: January 21, 2014, 11:34:11 PM »
Cross reference this or any other threads about that game with posts like "ephebophilia and pedophilia aren't the same thing guys derp."

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« Reply #23207 on: January 21, 2014, 11:37:19 PM »
bore help

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First Google result: Guro Toddlercon > Regular Toddlercon

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« Reply #23208 on: January 21, 2014, 11:40:33 PM »
:aah

now the cleansing can begin
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« Reply #23209 on: January 21, 2014, 11:41:28 PM »
Your new GAF av. :dead

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« Reply #23210 on: January 21, 2014, 11:46:21 PM »
i-i did it for you :> :uguu
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« Reply #23211 on: January 22, 2014, 12:01:32 AM »
@mac's new av

#allthedeadmsmileysinexistence

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« Reply #23212 on: January 22, 2014, 12:04:13 AM »
brb using imagination since no pics


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« Reply #23215 on: January 22, 2014, 12:08:38 AM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=98017541&postcount=372

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« Reply #23216 on: January 22, 2014, 12:15:14 AM »
rofl mac
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« Reply #23217 on: January 22, 2014, 12:19:31 AM »
:rofl @ mac

I wanna take you out for drinks if you're ever in boozetown.
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« Reply #23218 on: January 22, 2014, 12:25:55 AM »
bb i'm only one man  :-[
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« Reply #23219 on: January 22, 2014, 12:26:59 AM »
Jaffe gonna Jaffe still...

https://twitter.com/davidscottjaffe/status/425817791610892288

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