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Skidmark

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No heartache after a break up?
« on: December 24, 2013, 01:49:52 AM »
I have been with her for a year and a half, lived together a lot of the time too. Broke up three days ago and I feel nothing. I googled around but most threads say that the shock makes you numb. I am pretty sure i am not shocked. I don't even miss her even though she is a sweetheart, she was a lot of work though. Has this happened to you guys?

TEEEPO

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #1 on: December 24, 2013, 01:56:44 AM »
http://ideas.time.com/2013/12/22/economist-tis-the-season-to-break-up/

economics and signaling relating to relationships is one of my fav topics.

Skidmark

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #2 on: December 24, 2013, 02:12:53 AM »
http://ideas.time.com/2013/12/22/economist-tis-the-season-to-break-up/

economics and signaling relating to relationships is one of my fav topics.

There is so much truth in this analysis, at least i my case.  :)

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #3 on: December 24, 2013, 02:21:19 AM »
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Has this happened to you guys?


1st break up : painful, bad ending
2nd break up : moved onto someone else, didn't care
3rd break up : didn't care at the time, month later i was devestated
4th ... not there yet! ;)
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brawndolicious

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #4 on: December 24, 2013, 04:12:07 AM »
I've only had one real break up and even though  I decided that we should do it, I didn't feel bad about it untl a few months later when I realized that it was all my fault.

Phoenix Dark

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #5 on: December 24, 2013, 10:17:12 AM »
How old are you Skid? If you're young don't sweat it, statistically the relationship was never going to last anyway.
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Skidmark

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #6 on: December 24, 2013, 10:45:37 AM »
I am 25. My first break up was a mayhem. I am going to apply to uni after the summer and i want to enjoy uni life as a single man and that thought helps i guess.

T234

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #7 on: December 24, 2013, 04:57:42 PM »
After my first and only breakup I went on the non-booze bender to end all benders. Lasted 3 days.
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Diunx

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #8 on: December 25, 2013, 09:25:45 AM »
Happened with my last GF I broke it off via IM and then continued watching The Wire :yeshrug
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chronovore

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #9 on: December 25, 2013, 09:59:42 AM »
Last breakup I went through, it was such a relief, it was stunning. No heartache at all. We'd been together 4 years, weren't good for each other. We broke up, and a half year later I moved in together with the woman who would later become my wife.

Skidmark

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Re: No heartache after a break up?
« Reply #10 on: December 25, 2013, 12:43:21 PM »
ok thanks guys, good to know that i am normal.  ;)