Got to NO yesterday and it is absolutely beautiful. I've lived in multiple states in the south, and I never realized just how rich New Orleans' culture was. It's refreshing to have a city in the south whose history and culture moves beyond "WE HAD SLAVES". The beautiful architecture, even the swamps had a hint of grace not seen in Houston. It also has natural beauty. I could definitely live here.
Meeting my boyfriends family was both scary and exciting. I've really gotten off well with his mom and sister in particular. They accepted me, and while I realize it's partly/mostly because they don't know I'm trans, it's still a relief. Here in NO I don't know anyone, unlike in Houston. Unlike in Houston where everyone I know knows my trans status, I'm treated like a woman without pretense. I get a sample of that when I'm out at home and go to restaurants or the store, but not with people I fraternize with. Here they don't know I'm trans, don't think I'm trans, and won't know I'm trans, and it's really freeing. It gives me a sense of ease that's absent, and I can finally live as a woman without judgement from people I know. It gives me a lot of confidence I've done this transition thing right and that moving to LA or anywhere else really, is the right decision.
Today we went to brunch at IHOP, which was the whole family - only 9 people including me. This was a big thing even though it was a brunch because I had to impress my boyfriends family, especially his mom. Then we back home, and cooked. The ladies mostly cooked so I helped. Despite my misgivings they did nothing to not include me into every part of their Christmas.
Christmas is almost over and I have never felt the emotions I feel towards my boyfriend right now. The way he has supported me and backed me, wanting me to meet the family that raised such an amazing person means a lot to me. I am definitely in love.
