I haven't been up to anything. I feel like I took the advice to stop caring so much and just carry on. Not in a fatalist way, just a whatever happens happens kind of way. Stop being so concerned with things and I guess it's improved.
I've stopped really using tinder or bumble. Not because of any garbage reason, more so because it's not an avenue I want to meet anyone. I've gotten decent matches and sent some messages, but nothing has come of them which is fine. It's just an amusement thing if anything. Trying to not take that stuff serious at all.
The Starbucks girl and I have been talking forever a month which I'm not sure what it means. I asked for advice from resetera(yes I know) and they said I should stop talking to her after she said she wasn't looking for a relationship. But after I pulled that lame move, everything went back to normal and we continued talking. Pretty much 1 or 2 messages between us a day. My female friends say this is a positive and while I don't think anything will come of it, that's just the negative part of me. Maybe something will. Maybe something won't, I should avoid just saying it absolutely won't. Anyway she's nice and I enjoy talking to her. If anything I learned from the last real tinder girl is to not get too serious about messaging and shit. If she replies or doesn't it's whatever.
She occasionally gets more flirty when she's drunk but beyond a moment where she seemed to imply we should get food together, nothing else. We just talk about Star Wars recently. The balls in her court so whatever happens is up to her.
But I'm not waiting around or anything. I have nothing else going on.
There was a nice Italian girl who was really flirty, so much that even my dumb ass could tell she was intersted. But it was so strong I was kind of turned off. She told one of my female friends she was "fond" of me whatever the fuck that means. I don't know, I have to ease into people. I think my lack of obvious interest in her killed that off. We just talk a bit on Snapchat. She has a bf anyway.
I'm also over my Mexican friend and am kind of very happy I didn't get involved with her. Her situation and self doesn't really mix. I guess I was just blinded by the ass.
But anyway, I guess the bore was right and one of the things was I just needed to stop caring. I've noticed a lot more positive things in the women area by not being so botherd by it.