RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011

[MMaRsu]

I just wanna send her that I don't want to play any games with her, that I'm feeling her but if she doesn't feel the same then I'm out

[Rahxephon91]

If she was feeling you, you wouldn't have to 2nd think it.

She's not.

[I'm a Puppy!]

No. No. She just needs reminding! Send her what you just said.

Pls post results.

[MMaRsu]

@Rahx : The fuck do you know, arent you a virgin?

I wanna send her something like this

"But if you really want to know if Im serious about you, because I think thats what you want to know..Id like to get to know you and we'll see where it goes from there. If you said you felt that positive energy between us then I'm sure that's reason enough. If you don't feel the same let me know."

I probably wont send this but if I do send something ill post results anyway

[Beezy]

Why can't I stop reading this thread?

[MMaRsu]

Bore bro's is that a good idea to send some honest shit like that or not

[Rahxephon91]

Um....that post wasn't a comment on Assimilate, having to be an asshole(which if you actually read my posts I did'nt say that or even think that), or anything. It was a reply on the frustration of yours and another poster's points about how "nobody wants to date someone who wants a relationship". The point was how contradictory, vague, and a balancing act the advice seemed.

You literally praised Assimmilate's advice in one post.. then whined about the exact same advice (because clearly you aren't actually reading Assimilate's advice, you are praising him for shitting on women.)

"That post wasn't a comment on Assimilate" are you too stupid to figure out what I'm pointing out?

He's giving the same advice as the rest of us.. read the posts.  You then whine about that advice while praising Assimilate.

The point was how contradictory, vague, and a balancing act the advice seemed.

Assimilate might as well have just said to you "it's a balancing act" right before you praised him then whined about balancing acts.

Get it yet?

Assimilate's framing of women being irrational and the game's they play and whatnot being rigged against you was appealing. Misgonstic? probably, but I don't believe the rest of the bore was on a better level either. The bore's advice is constantly confusing and dosen't really match up with what I experince in real life. But pointing this out(maybe frustratingly) only gets the rest of you to piled on. If I say this is my experience on tinder, asshats like "Atra go oh no you're wrong, I could use your tinder and get matches like I do". At some point maybe you have to admit I'm right?

Assimiliate was the only one not parading the usual "eventually if you just keep going...blah blah" nonsense. Now I don't believe in leagues, chads, and all the other stuff he was talking about. I don't want to, but again I just find everyone's advice really confusing.

He really needs to listen to patrice, sounds like he has hatred for the game which I can understand, but he needs to understand the philisophy that why women are the way they are and that they are just emotional creatures that are looking for a general. And that it's not always malicious in how they act, it's just how they are.

I like this guy.

https://www.youtube.com/user/DrNerdLove

And where has DrNerdLove gotten your ass so far bro

trust me

listen to all those black phillip shows and it will give you new perspectives you didnt think of before

Actually I found his advice pretty helpful and it made me feel better about dating. Because at the end of the day Dr Nerd Love's advice summed up is "women are like and like the same things you do". He is'nt big on this "game" nonsense and he dsoen't seem to think you have to treat or view women differently then you would view other people you'd want to associate with. That makes sense to me.

[MMaRsu]

But women are vastly different from men

[Rahxephon91]

@Rahx : The fuck do you know, arent you a virgin?

No.

And I know when women are interested in you that they will actually want to talk to you and you can tell when you're actually vibing with someone.

[Rahxephon91]

You just met this chick once and you already feel the need to send her ultimatums.

Yeah this is the start of something great.

[Rahxephon91]

Why don't you send her a paper note with something like this:

Do you like me?

Yes? No?

[Assimilate]

Rahx, you still haven't posted your Tinder profile pics.

[MMaRsu]

I havent sent her any ultimatums lol.. I've actually been pretty casual in my messaging towards her.

I'm pretty sure we had a great vibe during the date, and we talked from 8 till like 12, nonstop  . Then making out with tongue heavily for about 45 minutes. Me grabbing her ass during the makeout sesh, she not stopping me etc.

I think I got a handle on when there is a vibe going on.

Is it possible she's dating other dudes and lost interest in me? Sure thing 100%. But if she asks me if I'm a serious type and that's why she's hesistant to meet up again, because during the date I said I had a girl on the side I am seeing casually. At least I'm pretty sure that's why she's thinking that. She also asked me about if I had one night stands etc. She also told me some intimate details about her own sexlife. So if I can at least convince her I'm sincere with her, she might see that I'm not being your typical guy who's looking for an easy fuck.

So I'd rather just tell her straight up listen I'm feeling you, but if you don't think the same way about it then just say so

[mormapope]

Why can't I stop reading this thread?

The amount of energy and stress humanity puts into finding a hole to play with, or for someone to play with their hole, is astonishing. Romance is the most addictive drama.

To ye all lads, realize that women can be just as stupid as men and be just as foolish. Hold the woman you want to bang to the same standard you'd have for a garbage man or bus driver.

[Atramental]

Why can't I stop reading this thread?

It's infinitely more entertaining than the GAF and RE relationship threads ever where. 

[Rahxephon91]

"But if you really want to know if Im serious about you, because I think thats what you want to know..Id like to get to know you and we'll see where it goes from there. If you said you felt that positive energy between us then I'm sure that's reason enough. If you don't feel the same let me know."

Yeah that's not an ultimatum at all.

If it was a yes do you really think you'd have to even ask?

And you think someone would respond positive to someone putting that kind of pressure on them?

[Assimilate]

The amount of energy and stress humanity puts into finding a hole to play with, or for someone to play with their hole, is astonishing. Romance is the most addictive drama.

Pussy is on my mind more than 75% of the day. Only when something dire happens then i'm like "omg chasing pussy is so stupid and meaningless there's so much more to life" and then when whatever occurred passes i'm right back to thinking "god i'd fucking rip that"

[MMaRsu]

"But if you really want to know if Im serious about you, because I think thats what you want to know..Id like to get to know you and we'll see where it goes from there. If you said you felt that positive energy between us then I'm sure that's reason enough. If you don't feel the same let me know."

Yeah that's not an ultimatum at all.

If it was a yes do you really think you'd have to even ask?

And you think someone would respond positive to someone putting that kind of pressure on them?

At least you are being honest and sincere isn't it? Im not saying hey bitch you gotta fuck me

[MMaRsu]

I'll tell what I sent her last verbatim here;

"Hey x! Haha I was up early indeed yesterday, trying to stay busy. It's no big deal that you couldn't meet up today, someone has to sell those balloons, otherwise it'd be a little sad for those little kids haha( she works in small store where they sell balloons )  . And museums.. I said it depends on who I go with haha..I totally understand putting your focus towards your new job, it's a pretty big deal! No worries.. how are things at work? Regarding the last thing you said.. I don't know that about you either haha. There's only one way to find out right "

That is a text containing fewer emoticons than she used in her previous text, is shorter than hers as well. I also sent it one day after receiving her message ( which may have been a stupid mistake but I also didnt know what to respond honestly )

Now tell me that's not a bad txt

[Rahxephon91]

You can call it being honest if you want.

But I don't think it comes off that way.

If you went on a low risks no commitment tinder date(which is what tinder is). Had a fun time, but just that really.

Would you like the person constantly sending you messages?

Asking if you are into them?

Probably not. You'd be like. Hey calm down. You'd think this person kind of seems clingy? This person seems to be taking this too seriously. I'm not sure if I want to see this person who is already getting overly serious over one tinder date again.

I hate to repeat advice that I did'nt like earlier in the thread, but it's true. If a girl was doing this to you, would you really like it? I guess maybe you'd like thier straightforwardness, but I know in my own experince when girls who you have just met once, had little interactions with, or have just talked a lot too on tinder or getting overly familiar already. I'm really not interested, because it seems like "wtf is wrong with you, you don't even know me". I had one tinder girl start calling me bae after a few dies of talking. It wasn't cute.

And this is why I like Dr Nerd Love. He says basically talk and interact with women how you would want them to talk to you. That makes sense to me.

The last tinder girl talked to me and would make all these "You're going to hate me comments" and other self-deprecating comments. It wasn't sexy, it just made me think she dosen't have a lot of confidence. And well I know not to make those kind of jokes with girls I don't know that well either when we are still on first impressions.

[team filler]

SHE CAN SUCK MY HOG

[MMaRsu]

I'm not "constantly" sending her messages 

I met her on Tinder, asked her straightforward to meet up, she didnt respond for awhile then I sent a snarky assholish msg and then she still wanted to meet up. I gave her my number and she and i texted for awhile before meeting up.

After our date I sent her like two three normal messages which she replied to, then two days later I asked her out again. No response.. two days later I sent her a long message asking whats up, posted earlier here itt. The same day she replies with a long ass message stating why she was busy and that she was sorry for not responding earlier. And that she is apprehensive about meeting up again cause shes not sure im a serious type ( understandable considering I told her straight up I was seeing someome else )

Maybe if you actually read my posts you would understand better

[Rahxephon91]

Ok sure whatever. Continue wasting your time on someone who's not interested in you.

[team filler]

you told her you were seeing someone else 

breh, despite what they will tell you. bitches prefer to be lied to about shit like that. now if you get into a serious relationship, then take it serious and stop doing shit that you will have to lie to her about.

when things are just starting, yes, lie to her ass. it's perfectly fine.

[MMaRsu]

I know it was stupid. I was drinking too much and felt way to comfortable around her.

Filler if she hasnt responded tomorrow do you think it would be smart to tell her straight up im digging her and want to get to know her better, and that we can see where it goes from there? And if she doesnt want to thats cool too?

[MMaRsu]

Imagine a nerdy girl who's last serious relationship broke up because he went to prostitutes and she found out.

Its possible she is very wary of player type men. So on that front i might have fucked up bigtime.

So it could be that she is interested but that she is scared of being hurt.

[team filler]

be patient. let her message you first. if she likes you, she will. if she doesn't message you again, then 99% chance you were toast anyway.

[team filler]

can't believe you didn't smash her pisser already on that first date. she let you grab the ass and make out. the bih should be pregnant with your babies right now tbh 

[Atramental]

Imagine a nerdy girl who's last serious relationship broke up because he went to prostitutes and she found out.

Its possible she is very wary of player type men. So on that front i might have fucked up bigtime.

So it could be that she is interested but that she is scared of being hurt.

Even if you weren't coming across as a "player type" you're deluding yourself into thinking you're the only "non-player" guy out there for her.

Something that online dating and psychedelics have taught me is that there are multiple versions of ourselves out there.

For example, there's a chad doppelgänger version of me with a 7 inch hog and a super fit body. 

[MMaRsu]

can't believe you didn't smash her pisser already on that first date. she let you grab the ass and make out. the bih should be pregnant with your babies right now tbh 

If I stayed and kept making out with her it might have happened. Instead I said ok I really have to go now cause ur making me crazy

and I just left after kissing her goodbye and asking when we should meet up next, she said later this week? I said sure sounds good

No u guys are right I dont want to force an answer out of her. If she wants to then thats cool if not thats cool too. I guess maybe she has to think about it

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Time to burn this thread down to the ground

[BisMarckie]

What the fuck?

The show was back on track, introduced an intriguing new character with Liberty, just to go completely off the rails again like in recent seasons.
The writers should be fired on the spot.

[Atramental]

What the fuck?

The show was back on track, introduced an intriguing new character with Liberty, just to go completely off the rails again like in recent seasons.
The writers should be fired on the spot.

Liberty vanished when I woke up the next morning. So it goes.

But I no joke got 4 more weed thots in her place. A thot hydra, if you will.

[BisMarckie]

A woman ia not allowed to make an honest living on tinder.

[I'm a Puppy!]

I'm so sad

[TakingBackSunday]

This certainly is a thread that belongs in the hall of shame

Assi, rahx, MM, all of you need to fuck right off already.  This is pathetic.

[Assimilate]

This certainly is a thread that belongs in the hall of shame

Assi, rahx, MM, all of you need to fuck right off already.  This is pathetic.

What's pathetic is your girl getting piped behind your back without you even knowing

[I'm a Puppy!]

you know, when I think about it and the couples I know, the ones that have the enviable relationships, the ones that REALLY work. Are the all the people that are a little weird. The weirdos, geeks, outcasts. The normies I know, even the ones that have "successful" relationships tend to not attain the level of "togetherness" that I see the non-normies attain. It's an odd realization but in looking at it, I think it might be right.

[Rahxephon91]

But I have nowhere else to go!

[TakingBackSunday]

This certainly is a thread that belongs in the hall of shame

Assi, rahx, MM, all of you need to fuck right off already.  This is pathetic.

What's pathetic is your girl getting piped behind your back without you even knowing

Again, this is all you have. This is the only thing you can come up with. You know nothing about her or me, but just because I’m happy and “white knight” for women, I must be being cheated on.  You suck at this and life in general, you sad sack of shit.

[brawndolicious]

you know, when I think about it and the couples I know, the ones that have the enviable relationships, the ones that REALLY work. Are the all the people that are a little weird. The weirdos, geeks, outcasts. The normies I know, even the ones that have "successful" relationships tend to not attain the level of "togetherness" that I see the non-normies attain. It's an odd realization but in looking at it, I think it might be right.

I feel hope again.

[shosta]

Again, this is all you have. This is the only thing you can come up with. You know nothing about her or me, but just because I’m happy and “white knight” for women, I must be being cheated on.  You suck at this and life in general, you sad sack of shit.

Why is he getting you so mad? It's trivial to skip over the posts of ignored people.

[Atramental]

TakingBackSunday’s gimic is driveby virtue and concern signaling. It’s annoying but he does it infrequently so it’s generally easy to ignore.

[Atramental]

Time to burn this thread down to the ground

You may be saying this in jest but it's the people in this thread and not the thread itself that need to be cleansed.

This certainly is a thread that belongs in the hall of shame

Assi, rahx, MM, all of you need to fuck right off already.  This is pathetic.

This thread has another 300 pages to go before that happens. Perhaps more.

Also:

[BlueTsunami]

MM, I say go all the way

spoiler (click to show/hide)

jk, the balls in her court, let her dribble a bit

[close]

[Rufus]

you know, when I think about it and the couples I know, the ones that have the enviable relationships, the ones that REALLY work. Are the all the people that are a little weird. The weirdos, geeks, outcasts. The normies I know, even the ones that have "successful" relationships tend to not attain the level of "togetherness" that I see the non-normies attain. It's an odd realization but in looking at it, I think it might be right.

How confident are you about those normies being normies? They might be complete freaks cultivating a facade of normalcy.

[Atramental]

(some) normies probably have all sorts of fucked up thoughts and secrets.

The reason why they're normies is they bottle all that shit up and squish deep deep down in their subconscious in order to fit in and be accepted by their normie peers and colleagues.

And then there's other normies that are basically NPC characters. They just fall in line and are content with their status quo existence. No truly controversial thoughts or opinions from them.

[Nabbis]

you know, when I think about it and the couples I know, the ones that have the enviable relationships, the ones that REALLY work. Are the all the people that are a little weird. The weirdos, geeks, outcasts. The normies I know, even the ones that have "successful" relationships tend to not attain the level of "togetherness" that I see the non-normies attain. It's an odd realization but in looking at it, I think it might be right.

How confident are you about those normies being normies? They might be complete freaks cultivating a facade of normalcy.

Many people who score high on a psychopathy test are mistaken for normal if you just casually look at their outward appearance and general behavior. Generally, socially accepteptable behavior and appearance correlates with "normal" mental health but you can't really say anything other than that about people if you know nothing else about them.

[Rahxephon91]

Yeah the thread will get a lot better when Atra gets back on tinder for real and talks about the mental manitplations he has to use to get women to like him.

[MMaRsu]

This certainly is a thread that belongs in the hall of shame

Assi, rahx, MM, all of you need to fuck right off already.  This is pathetic.

Haha fuck off, I'm not quite sure what's exactly pathetic about my situation.

[MMaRsu]

Except for the fact im fawning over someone who might not be into me at all 

She's seen my msg, she's been online but she isnt responding :<

[MMaRsu]

MM, I say go all the way

spoiler (click to show/hide)

jk, the balls in her court, let her dribble a bit

[close]

Honestly its what I want to do, except bring a rose instead of a ghettoblaster. Mind you Ive never done that before.. but it would be creepy af I imagine. Not that im a creepy dude but whatevs

[nachobro]

atra blaze it with that girl Iz and then stick it in her

[Atramental]

atra blaze it with that girl Iz and then stick it in her

I'll message her tonight after I get done with work. 

[chronovore]

Why don't you send her a paper note with something like this:

Do you like me?

Yes? No?

(Image removed from quote.)

[BlueTsunami]

Atra is gon a follow this rabbit hole to its extreme conclusion, becoming The Bores Walter White. A drug empire born from bad pussy.

[MMaRsu]

MMaRsu is going to this girl's house and waiting for her ass with a fucking rose

 

[MMaRsu]

May the lord have mercy on my creepy soul

[Atramental]

Atra is gon a follow this rabbit hole to its extreme conclusion, becoming The Bores Walter White. A drug empire born from bad pussy.

It'll sure beat wasting away at a wagecuck office job. That's for damn sure.

[skullstorm]

MMaRsu is going to this girl's house and waiting for her ass with a fucking rose