Well she texted me again to play video games again. Albeit with her friend. Though she stayed online a bit afterword to talk for a few.
Maybe things are going ok. Maybe she like to take things slow. I think I do to as I’m a reserved person who doesn’t like to rush into things and finds it more natural to slowly get to know people. I don’t know, but the flip side of my brain also gets nervous and wants to simply know but even if she said she liked me or whatever I’d probably find something else to worry about.
Everyone’s advice is to just not overthink things. And it’s something I really need to do.
So I want to come back t this. I'm sure everyone here will say "just ask her again" and whatnot, but I want to to crowd source this. I kind of want to see what people here think because usually people here are more harsh about these things. So despite my whining here I do actually take people's advice here.
So with that said I kind of want to come back to this a bring it up again, because well I don't know it's odd. This girl is basically Daria and well very weird. So as far as I'm aware I made it clear I was interested in her. I mean I asked her out basically twice. So what happen after that is she did'nt really bring it up again and I haven't brought it up again.
But see since then well we've talked a lot.
I mean a lot of texting. Good texting. Texting that hasn't gotten weird on my end or whatever yet. Because I'm socially awkward I've read those dumb "How to tell she likes you through texting articles". The ones were you read in whatever you want. Well I mean looking at them it kind of comes off positive and I'm not sure I have to add my own bias to it.
https://www.lovepanky.com/men/understanding-women/signs-that-a-girl-likes-you-over-text1. Quite honestly she texts me more then I text her and I haven't really initiated the conversations. It's 90% of the time been her texting me first.
2. She texts frequently. To the point I kind of have a feel and expectation when I'm going to get texts. It will be on her breaks, when she gets of work, and so on. Some days like clockwork.
3. And she'll respond immediately when it's clear she's not busy.
4. She texts me updates on whats shes doing and she's usually detailed. Yesterday she sent me a story of what happen to her at the store.
5. Though if she's working she dosen't text.
6. These aren't one word texts.
7. Haven't done that.
8. No she doesn't.
9. Lots of emoji use and lmao. Almost after every joke.
10. Sometimes.
11. Lots
12. Nope. Beyond saying I'm funny, but an ass. But she's said that during our Battlefield time.
13. No.
14. I mean she has asked me questions about my life. Not a lot though.
15. No
16. She's sent me pictures of her older looks.
17. Kind of.
18. Nope and it hasn't come up.
So yeah I know that was super lame, but the thing is we've texted a lot. I mean a lot. Everyday and its fun. It's not just meme shit like I've experienced with tinder girls and it dosen't feel forced. Most of the time it feels like two sarcastic people just vibing and talking about thier day. Though IRL it's a bit harder to vibe with her, she's very dry and sarcastic and I'm awkward. Most of the time though it's her talking about her stuff, so she must be comfortable with me. I mean one day at 3am I guess she had night terrors and felt the desire to text me.
But we've also been playing Battlefield together often until like 3 am.
So I already know what the answer to my problem is. I just want to see if the bore, people who know how shitty I am about these things, thinks what I'm saying is positive. But I also I want to say it's not like she's asked to hang out or implied that she wants to, but I don't know why she wants to play video games and is constantly texting a person who asked her out if she is'nt slightly interested. And except for one instance(that happen today) I've played this chill and sane with her. Maybe this girl just wants to take it slow.
