Please new members, post your gaf names so I will know what to think of you.
I'm Opiate

Dennis, your particular situation is absolutely unfortunate, and I'm sorry. Really, I mean that; I am sorry you had to go through that.
But perhaps precisely because of the intimate personal affect this has had on your life, you may be particularly incapable of discussing this topic objectively and rationally. Not because you're a bad person, just because it has had such a serious impact on your life.
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i never tire of this