When I read Tony Montana saying he had PTSD for 6 months after facing off Kevin Spacey grabbing his crotch all i can manage is an eyeroll
I know why i have little empathy, and I don't think it's justified. Anyway.... One; these stories are appearing in my feed far more than objectively worse, more prolific, examples of rape accusations, two; i've had my crotch (and other areas) groped/fondled numerous times in gay bars, and a few times in reg bars without consent, and barely felt angry bout it. I always figured it was because the problematic power dynamics weren't there. I never felt threatened, and was able to indicate i wasn't into it.
So yeah, idk, kinda frustrates me as it seems these dudes are getting more attention than more egregious acts because 'ew gays' and they're men complaining.