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[Broseidon]

Not 100% certain but I'm semi-confident that Messo is ~30yo and has never been in a relationship, and I think the only "dates" he's ever been on were arranged. I may be misremembering, particularly with the latter but

[Raist]

https://www.resetera.com/posts/6170802/

[Sai]

yall a little extra today huh

[Atramental]

https://www.resetera.com/posts/6170802/

Piss steak guy seems to not understand how fire and flammable liquid works.

[Switters]

That Mess Video...

[Propagandhim]

I want to make fun of Messofanego so badly.  That is an arranged motherfuckin' marriage.  I've seen a lot of arranged marriages in my day, trust me folks.    But then I stop myself and think about how I'm trying to dunk on some weirdo on the internet who just got married.  What am I fucking doing with myself?  Mmmmmrghhh but if it turned out to be an arranged marriage, the hypocrisy would be so fucking delicious.    But...it's some random goof on the internet that I have nothing to do with.

.....BUT, BUT,  THATS AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE, FOR SURE.   I CAN SENSE IT.

[Atramental]

Ssssh. No guilt or reservations. Only mocking contempt for strangers to silence your own personal shortcomings. 

[Raist]

It's obviously an arranged marriage.

Which is likely the primary reason why she seems uncomfortable as fuck. Probably first time they ever met.

[nachobro]

jesus christ, it's funny cause he's the uber-feminist engaging in and celebrating an anti-feminist practice. way to make everyone have to explain the joke dummy

[Propagandhim]

It's obviously an arranged marriage.

Which is likely the primary reason why she seems uncomfortable as fuck. Probably first time they ever met.

But it makes no sense -- he's the archon philosopher-king of Muslim progressive feminism.   Why would he acquiesce to that ancient, misogynistic practice that even many religious Muslims today in the West have left behind?  I'm sorry, it's just impossible.  Afterall, he's the one trying to bring everyone up to speed. 

[nachobro]

she cute tho, good for him. take that pussy where you can get it, brother

[Raist]

I'm going to New York for this first time this week. If I find myself lost, and needing to turn around and just so happen to be near a POC, what should I do so I don't come across as an uneducated, racist white man?

Leaving your white guilt at home should do the trick.

Seriously, POC are not paranoid idiots who are jumping at any person who turns around or enters a building in their vicinity as racist. As someone who has no experience with this sort of thing, maybe you can get over the surprising fact that minor racially based reactions like this still happen everyday and that the people who have experienced it most of their lives can tell the difference between someone avoiding them because they're a POC or someone who is just lost. We know all the other possible reasons someone might turn around or cross the street or enter a building briefly in our vicinity. We also know when it's because they're afraid of us.

Brought to you by the "Woman across the crosswalk does a 180 as soon as she sees me, something something white something supremacy" thread.


 

[Skullfuckers Anonymous]

Imagine spending your entire day defending a multinational corporation's products for free.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/isnt-it-time-to-retire-the-narrative-that-ubisofts-games-are-too-similar-gif-warning.33612/

[Uncle]

It's just an arranged engagement!  Nothing wrong with that

[kingv]

Not 100% certain but I'm semi-confident that Messo is ~30yo and has never been in a relationship, and I think the only "dates" he's ever been on were arranged. I may be misremembering, particularly with the latter but

Gives some good advice in that relationship thread tho.

[FStop7]

If you had to arranged marry a borean who would you pick

[Raist]

If you had to arranged marry a borean who would you pick

Dibs on Valkyrie!

[Raist]

Shit, was that sexist?

[MMaRsu]

Imagine spending your entire day defending a multinational corporation's products for free.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/isnt-it-time-to-retire-the-narrative-that-ubisofts-games-are-too-similar-gif-warning.33612/

But where was OP??

Oh right it's CrossingEden I have that nutter on ignore

[Rahxephon91]

Imagine spending your entire day defending a multinational corporation's products for free.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/isnt-it-time-to-retire-the-narrative-that-ubisofts-games-are-too-similar-gif-warning.33612/

And not even doing a good job.

[samfish]

EEEEEEEE what if us laughing at him being in an arranged marriage makes him sign up for the bore and he comes to chat with us Nazis?? How exciting would that be? My penis is erect at the mere thought!

[tummyfat]

Someone wish him congratulations on his arrangem.. er.. engagement

[SmokyDave]

If you had to arranged marry a borean who would you pick

TVC, for sure. I’d struggle with the gay stuff, but the late night chats would make it all worthwhile.

[Raist]

EEEEEEEE what if us laughing at him being in an arranged marriage makes him sign up for the bore and he comes to chat with us Nazis?? How exciting would that be? My penis is erect at the mere thought!

He already posts here.

[Bore Expert]

Perhaps we could chip in and get Mess a wedding gift. It can’t be that expensive to hire Bobby to pop out of the wedding cake dressed up like an Ewok.

[Kurt Russell]

Holy shit. Messofanego looks like an ethnic evilore.

[samfish]

My wife registered here and we already have an arrangement.

My wife and I's arrangement is that I sleep outside the bedroom by the door with my chastity device on when her boyfriends come to visit

[tummyfat]

Holy shit. Messofanego looks like an ethnic evilore.

Dude wtf.

Mess doesn't even realize by entering into a marriage contract with this poor girl he also participated in hashtag PUNISH A MUSLIM DAY

[etiolate]

lol ethnic evilore

why is his belt to the side?

[Raist]

ethnic evilore.

Is that the next Marvel movie?

[TVC15]

I wouldn’t want any of you pieces of shit, aside from filler.

[Uncle]

Doesn't it make that worse, if this wasn't her first time meeting him and she was still reacting like that

[marrec]

30 second search of the dating era thread and you can find messofanego talking about going on tons of dates in the last 6 months;  and then there's this:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-141#post-5179236

It does sound like he meets girls through his family connections, but it's not an arranged marriage you dolts.

I mean, how are these Bore posters gunna be racist if you make logical posts like this?

[tummyfat]

30 second search of the dating era thread and you can find messofanego talking about going on tons of dates in the last 6 months;  and then there's this:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-141#post-5179236

It does sound like he meets girls through his family connections, but it's not an arranged marriage you dolts.

Did you read it? It sounds exactly like an arranged thing

The families all got together for their first three dates before they went on one alone for fucks sake

And he says the entire point of the dates is to work towards a marriage, which is how it played it out in under a month

[Raist]

30 second search of the dating era thread and you can find messofanego talking about going on tons of dates in the last 6 months;  and then there's this:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-141#post-5179236

It does sound like he meets girls through his family connections, but it's not an arranged marriage you dolts.

Yeah, tote sounds like your pretty average "See kids, this is how mommy and I met" story.

spoiler (click to show/hide)

I've been seeing the solicitor girl for a month now.

We met each other four times, and families met each other three times.

I proposed to her in the park today

[close]

[Kurt Russell]

I mean, how are these Bore posters gunna be racist if you make logical posts like this?

marrec
Junior Member
Date Registered: September 02, 2015, 08:45:49 AM

[etiolate]

You can call us racist, but Mess's post there is basically saying "she likes me because I'm not as threatening as other Muslim men".

Which if you're going to stick in that world is a bit of game theory.

[tummyfat]

30 second search of the dating era thread and you can find messofanego talking about going on tons of dates in the last 6 months;  and then there's this:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-141#post-5179236

It does sound like he meets girls through his family connections, but it's not an arranged marriage you dolts.

Did you read it? It sounds exactly like an arranged thing

The families all got together for their first three dates before they went on one alone for fucks sake

And he says the entire point of the dates is to work towards a marriage, which is how it played it out in under a month

Yes I read it; he meets girls via his family.  It's cultural;  he's met like 10 girls that way in the last 6 months.

That's not an arranged marriage where someone is forced to marry someone else, which is what you are all implying with your insane ramblings.

There are many degrees of arranged marriage. This is but one

[Raist]

30 second search of the dating era thread and you can find messofanego talking about going on tons of dates in the last 6 months;  and then there's this:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-141#post-5179236

It does sound like he meets girls through his family connections, but it's not an arranged marriage you dolts.

Did you read it? It sounds exactly like an arranged thing

The families all got together for their first three dates before they went on one alone for fucks sake

And he says the entire point of the dates is to work towards a marriage, which is how it played it out in under a month

Yes I read it; he meets girls via his family.  It's cultural;  he's met like 10 girls that way in the last 6 months.

That's not an arranged marriage where someone is forced to marry someone else, which is what you are all implying with your insane ramblings.  it's families setting people up on dates and seeing what happens.   

Weird as fuck to me but nothing particularly sexist about it considering apparently it's not forced and goes both ways.

Arranged marriage =/= forced marriage you muppet.

[etiolate]

Arranged marriage is not a kidnapping and selling her for a heffer.

[TVC15]

30 second search of the dating era thread and you can find messofanego talking about going on tons of dates in the last 6 months;  and then there's this:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/datingera-this-isnt-like-one-of-your-animes.666/page-141#post-5179236

It does sound like he meets girls through his family connections, but it's not an arranged marriage you dolts.

Did you read it? It sounds exactly like an arranged thing

The families all got together for their first three dates before they went on one alone for fucks sake

And he says the entire point of the dates is to work towards a marriage, which is how it played it out in under a month

Yes I read it; he meets girls via his family.  It's cultural;  he's met like 10 girls that way in the last 6 months.

That's not an arranged marriage where someone is forced to marry someone else, which is what you are all implying with your insane ramblings.  it's families setting people up on dates and seeing what happens.   

Weird as fuck to me but nothing particularly sexist about it considering apparently it's not forced and goes both ways.

Did you see The Big Sick? This is an arranged marriage. He can say yes or no to individual girls, but he’s expected to marry one eventually.

Note that I’m staying out of this—just pointing out you’re wrong. I think it’s kinda icky to pick on someone’s marriage, especially if they may not have total control over it.

[etiolate]

Pretty sure some Jewish communities do a similar setup here.

[Kurt Russell]

[etiolate]

You can call us racist, but Mess's post there is basically saying "she likes me because I'm not as threatening as other Muslim men".

Which if you're going to stick in that world is a bit of game theory.

Most muslim dudes like to think they're "not like most muslims", it's one of the most stereotypically muslim things you can do (that and the outright lie of quranic interpretation earlier in the thread, "it doesn't actually mean this because in arabic it could mean" lol no shut the fuck up, it means beating women").

Messofanego sounds like a lot of losers I know back home, down to how vocal they are.

That sort of thing feels like "well I have the justification to do it if I need it, but don't worry because I won't."

[TVC15]

Did you see The Big Sick? This is an arranged marriage. He can say yes or no to individual girls, but he’s expected to marry one eventually.

Note that I’m staying out of this—just pointing out you’re wrong. I think it’s kinda icky to pick on someone’s marriage, especially if they may not have total control over it.

Except I read a few posts of his where he said the girls didn't want to continue dating him so it didn't work out.

Wow, they must not have even made it past the family dates.

[Atramental]

I hope one day I get with a big tiddy caramel goddess, inshallah.

[TVC15]

I hope one day I get with a big tiddy caramel goddess, inshallah.

Actually, you or filler. I’d go for an arranged marriage with either. I have lots of pills to feed you.

[Raist]

Arranged marriage =/= forced marriage you muppet.

So what's sexist and hypocritical about being set up on dates by your family since that's what everyone has been salivating over the last 50 posts?

Because pretty fucking obvious you guys were implying a forced arranged marriage.. otherwise.. what?

"Set up a date and see what happens"


 

I'm sure the fact that both families had meetings as many times as messo had dates with his fiancée was just purely coincidental, and they were just casually talking about golfing, the price of marmite, and brexit.

Cultures still practicing that shit don't exactly have the best of track records when it comes to women's status. Especially when doubled up with Islam.

[Broseidon]

Riotous do you accept that an engagement/marriage can be arranged between two families and that the bride and groom in question can fully consent to it?

[Atramental]

I hope one day I get with a big tiddy caramel goddess, inshallah.

Actually, you or filler. I’d go for an arranged marriage with either. I have lots of pills to feed you.

Do you have some Special K? Asking for a friend. 

[HardcoreRetro]

Wow, they must not have even made it past the family dates.

In some cases they might always stay family dates. One of my friend's parents tried to push his cousin on him...

[Propagandhim]

My interpretation is that by the 17th girl to say "Ewww, no", Messofanego started interpreting the forced marriages lines from the Koran a little more metaphorically than usual.     

[etiolate]

Thats how islamic arranged marriage works. You can even have sex before marriage as long as you're "engaged". They're being set up to get married, that's what a few month grace period is, it's completely controlled by the parents but it's on the guy or gal (mostly the guy) to decide to go through with it.

Not sure what you're trying to say here.

He had several posts where he said the girl ended the dating; in fact he even made a point to remark on how refreshing it was the one time he was the one to turn the girl down.

What I'm saying is you guys were salivating about how sexist the situation must be; hell several people outright implied and verified that they assumed they'd never met, and actually thought it was their wedding day where they met.   

That's fine some of you seem to know more about how the culture works but that flies in the face of the entire point of people being so excited to shit on the situation for him being allegedly hypocritical.  Clearly several people here thought this was the prototypical cartoonish forced arranged marriage you mentioned.

I'll break it down for you:

-Mess prides himself on being woke, feminist, pro-lgbt and progressive

-Meets his wife via arranged courtship within his Muslim community

Now who's that wokemon?

[tummyfat]

riotous, there are plenty of people who enter into family arranged marriages even though they are professionals.

This isn't something that only happens in the mountains of Pakistan or some shit.

The ones who are being set up are not completely stripped of their agency because they can veto individual girls/guys but they are still expected to marry into their religion and usually someone who their parents set them up with

[Jansen]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/hey-ashodin-whatever-happened-to-your-kickstarter-game.33755/

ashodin played those suckers

[TVC15]

I hope one day I get with a big tiddy caramel goddess, inshallah.

Actually, you or filler. I’d go for an arranged marriage with either. I have lots of pills to feed you.

Do you have some Special K? Asking for a friend. 

I can likely get access to it, though I’ve never tried. It’s not my bag.  However, depending on how my doc’s visit goes this week, I may have to stop drinking completely and expand my bag in other ways.

[SmokyDave]

I wouldn’t want any of you pieces of shit, aside from filler.

Goddamn, that stings. I was just reading up on how to lick your stomach from the inside

Guess I’ll stick with the wife I already have then. Begrudgingly.

[Bore Expert]

Arranged marriage sounds so bad. I’d like to think that his parents just moneyhatted an exclusive
 

[etiolate]

One thing you have to understand about arranged courtship/marriage is it works under the idea of a ticking clock. For men, that clock lasts longer, but for women it is basically "settle down by age X". So in a more.. romanticzed idea of it, the girl has choice but only so much choice as her options exist, and her options are limited by her age and the men her parents pick for her.

[Broseidon]

I hope one day I get with a big tiddy caramel goddess, inshallah.

Actually, you or filler. I’d go for an arranged marriage with either. I have lots of pills to feed you.

Do you have some Special K? Asking for a friend. 

makin me want some ket now man