Actually dude, I used to think the same thing, but all you gotta do is train it. When I first started growing my hair out, all it wanted to do was to lay flat and straight. But since I wanted it to go to the side, I would just run my fingers through it to make it kinda curl that way. Now it just does that naturally.
how long does it take to grow a fine beard like you two have? I didn't shave for a month once and it was still scruff. The worst is that a day after I shave I start having scruff, then a month later I still have scruff.
Well, let's see...I was completely nude there starting around November I think. I then trimmed it in January. It was obscenely long at that point though, so don't go off that...
To get it to the length it is now, it takes me about a month I guess.