Random talk thread: It just keeps happening

[TakingBackSunday]

you don't think I feel bad about it 

[Cindi Mayweather]

why would you feel bad about it. jeez, it's a learning experience man.

[The Sceneman]

this thread is seriously giving me wood

[Positive Touch]

jesus man it's not like you got her pregnant and left

seriously tho, like someone else said - make it your goal to make out with the girl you actually like by the end of this week.  and for god's sake please try to do more than make out if you can.  eating pussy/getting a bj does not always imply commitment, and you'll feel more confident once you start doing/getting it, especially since you're starting so late in the game

[Madrun Badrun]

seriously, why make out with someone you don't like?

Because she's good looking?

Nah it's so New can convice himself that he's not gay gay gay.

[TakingBackSunday]

and she's got bangin' legs.  she was straddling me and it was wonderful

she's nice and everything she's just...not really my type, personality wise.

[Madrun Badrun]

gay gay gay

[lennedsay]

seriously, why make out with someone you don't like?

Because she's good looking?

Nah it's so New can convice himself that he's not gay gay gay.

Hey how's your dating escapades working out for ya?

[demi]

and she's got bangin' legs.  she was straddling me and it was wonderful

she's nice and everything she's just...not really my type, personality wise.

homo

[The Sceneman]

once those delicious pungent vaginal secretions flow into your mouth you will never go back

[BlueTsunami]

I'm a romantic myself but you gotta take it when its there, Brandnew. You're young, just fuck fuck fuck like you gotta repopulate your area.

[chronovore]

You probably made out with her to see if you would start feeling more for her. Like, maybe, if the chemistry was actually working, you could see it going somewhere else. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't fuck her though, or you will almost certainly feel bad.

[Madrun Badrun]

Totally gone homo.  That's how I can spot that New is triple the homo.

[demi]

nice guys finish last. scenester is gonna move to america just to fuck that bitch while you watch.

[TakingBackSunday]

You probably made out with her to see if you would start feeling more for her. Like, maybe, if the chemistry was actually working, you could see it going somewhere else. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't fuck her though, or you will almost certainly feel bad.

thank you, some logic itt

I should learn not to discuss my dealings with women here

[Cindi Mayweather]

Who said to fuck her aside from a few? Most of us are saying that you shouldn't feel bad about making out with her. The girl likes you, you admit you lack experience, common sense says it's a great way of gaining said experience. getting a bj/eating her pussy/titty suckin' is not on any level, the same as fucking.

[BlueTsunami]

The thing is sometimes girls just wanna bang it out, sex isn't always an enlightening this is the man I want to be with forever situation for a girl. This is the post Sex in the City generation. SMH

Lennedsay should weigh in on this sheeit

[TakingBackSunday]

Yeah I guess you guys are right.  I just don't want her to get the wrong idea is all

[Bacchus7]

You gave her a more wrong idea already than if you had just banged her. #FM

[MyNameIsMethodis]

any man who passes on sucking on titties is not a man but a child in a world of pilgrims killing innocent indians

[Van Cruncheon]

pics or stfu

[Cindi Mayweather]

I'm researching this disease my girlfriend has, celiac disease. It makes cooking for her harder than it should be. It must be hard living with this disease. Every where we go, she has to make sure she's not taking in any wheat or gluten. She can't even eat hamburgers.

[Mr. Gundam]

I've got a good friend who is completely gluten free. It took some time to adjust, but she said it's really not that hard.

And also, why do you have to make sure she isn't taking in any gluten? She's an adult, she should be responsible enough to figure this shit out.

[TakingBackSunday]

I'm researching this disease my girlfriend has, celiac disease. It makes cooking for her harder than it should be. It must be hard living with this disease. Every where we go, I have to make sure she's not taking in any wheat or gluten. She can't even eat hamburgers.

We have special drinks and food at Seattle's Best Café just for this purpose.  I really feel bad with people who have problems with gluten.

[MyNameIsMethodis]

Seattle's Best Cafe is awesome if you work there I am now your firen.d

I like theo ne at burget king with the whip creme that is really like cake frosting lol

[Cindi Mayweather]

I've got a good friend who is completely gluten free. It took some time to adjust, but she said it's really not that hard.

And also, why do you have to make sure she isn't taking in any gluten? She's an adult, she should be responsible enough to figure this shit out.

I cook for her, mostly.

[fistfulofmetal]

hey brandnew. you and kosma should start club where whiny bitches and come together whine about their whiny bitchy problems.

[TakingBackSunday]

sounds good.  can father mike join?

[demi]

No - 1 female problem requirement

[The Sceneman]

le sick burn

[Madrun Badrun]

No - 1 female problem requirement

But I can complain about my lack of problems!  Or I can always facebook-stalk a girl and complain that she never notices me.


Ya I'm an outcast to even the girl-problem socal club

[MyNameIsMethodis]

heh heh facebook stalking  cute girls heh heh

[Cindi Mayweather]

OK I'll stop being sarcastic for a moment and be serious with you BN. Its alright if you don't really want to fuck her, even if she's hot. These things happen and you shouldn't feel bad that you made out with her, you like that other girl and you should try to with that one. But if you are still thinking you might want to have sex with the girl you made out with, make it clear that you don't want any relationship out of this and it's all primal humping is all. But if you don't you should stop dicking around and try to get with the girl you like.

Seriously. Like I said, make it a goal to make out with the girl you like before the end of this week. Grow some balls and ask her the fuck out.

[lennedsay]

The thing is sometimes girls just wanna bang it out, sex isn't always an enlightening this is the man I want to be with forever situation for a girl. This is the post Sex in the City generation. SMH

Lennedsay should weigh in on this sheeit

My serious thoughts are 1.) Don't feel bad 2.) Don't let her make you feel bad later when you hit it & quit it for the new girl 3.) This won't be the first time this will happen to this girl, so she needs to just have it happen and learn to suck it up. Happens to guys and girls all the time. She just needs to bum out, hang out with her girlfriends, eat some ice cream out of the container, and get over it. If she's weird about it for an extended length of time, then she's the one with the problem, not you BN. Maybe she could be more pissed if you actually banged that shit out, but at this point, just act like it was a minor lapse of judgment and it never happened. Girls are crazy, and the feelings of those you should really, really care about are family, close girl friends, and people you actually have chemistry with.

With that said... if you don't make out with that new girl by the end of the week, I will subject you to daily updates of my sex life. That caramel you dip apple slices in may or may not have been involved today. I'll let you know in 9 months when I'm posting pics of our little fuck trophy.

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That probably won't be happening though.

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I guess we'll find out soon enough.

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[TakingBackSunday]

little fuck trophy

birth certificate name for sure

[lennedsay]

Can't get those kinds of trophies playing PS3.

So did you fuck this new girl yet, or what?

[TakingBackSunday]

no

[lennedsay]

Ok, well less commenting on fuck trophies, and more hitting on new girl.

[Phoenix Dark]

Since we're all talkin bout ladies..

My best female friend just broke up with her bf. This is the second time they've broken up, each time after like a year of lubbie dubbie stuff. The guy always struck me as an asshole due to some of the stuff he's said to me, but it seemed like he treated her well.

Anyway a couple days ago she texted me saying she wants to go out to lunch. We go back a long way, and we almost screwed everything up going from friends to more but I turned her down a few years ago. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe the lunch is just to hang out but I have a feeling she wants to get together. It always happens in November too, I swear.

[lennedsay]

Ugh... awkward. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, she's looking for the most nearby and nicest guy she can find to try to convince herself that she belongs with this nice guy, since it didn't work out between her and her boyfriend, who is a total dick in her eyes right now.

Avoid, avoid, avoid dating. (Well unless you want to get laid, but PD? Yea, avoid.)

[Barry Egan]

Since we're all talkin bout ladies..

My best female friend just broke up with her bf. This is the second time they've broken up, each time after like a year of lubbie dubbie stuff. The guy always struck me as an asshole due to some of the stuff he's said to me, but it seemed like he treated her well.

Anyway a couple days ago she texted me saying she wants to go out to lunch. We go back a long way, and we almost screwed everything up going from friends to more but I turned her down a few years ago. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe the lunch is just to hang out but I have a feeling she wants to get together. It always happens in November too, I swear.

pics or stfu

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[Phoenix Dark]

Nah, I don't want anything to do with that. In high school she was kinda odd (granted I had a fucked up afro back then so I can't talk shit) but now she's pretty cute. But I wouldn't risk our friendship with a quick lay, even if I could.

She used to tell everyone, including my parents, that we were gonna get married one day. Pissed me off in high school, but given the trajectory of things I wouldn't be surprised if we wind up together in our 40s or something  

[Diunx]

Ugh... awkward. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, she's looking for the most nearby and nicest guy she can find to try to convince herself that she belongs with this nice guy, since it didn't work out between her and her boyfriend, who is a total dick in her eyes right now.

Avoid, avoid, avoid dating. (Well unless you want to get laid, but PD? Yea, avoid.)

Yeah she is gonna dump whatever guy she gets into a relationship now in like two months a go back to the old boyfriend.

[Fresh Prince]

In the end you settle. Most guys get married because they want children.

But now PD, you're young.

[lennedsay]

Ugh... awkward. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, she's looking for the most nearby and nicest guy she can find to try to convince herself that she belongs with this nice guy, since it didn't work out between her and her boyfriend, who is a total dick in her eyes right now.

Avoid, avoid, avoid dating. (Well unless you want to get laid, but PD? Yea, avoid.)

Yeah she is gonna dump whatever guy she gets into a relationship now in like two months a go back to the old boyfriend.

Exactly. And then a year from then, she'll be cheating on a new guy with the same jackass.

PD, give it like 6 months. Obviously she's not going anywhere as a friend since you guys have known each other this long. But there needs to be a little buffer room between guys or every time she gets pissed at the new bf, she'll go running back to the last one.

But who knows. Maybe when you hang out with her, she simply dumped the guy and has no feelings for him anymore. When I started dating my husband, I was in the same situation. But he could tell I wasn't hung up over the last guy at all. I'm also not like a normal girl, and most of my dating "career" was spent in long-term relationships that I ended long after the feelings were gone, and the rest was dating guys like I was the guy, breaking hearts, taking names. Except for sleeping around. I was never really into all that, and I usually dumped them long before that. My patience level with men is very high, until we start dating and then it's non-existent.

[Fresh Prince]

Guys I think PD realise whatever relationship he has with this girl it would be short lived.

Nah, I don't want anything to do with that. In high school she was kinda odd (granted I had a fucked up afro back then so I can't talk shit) but now she's pretty cute. But I wouldn't risk our friendship with a quick lay, even if I could.

[lennedsay]

Lennedsay must name her little boy yazeed or wrath when she ever has one.

Both are on the short list along with fuck trophy.

[Diunx]

What about Soda?

[lennedsay]

Pony Boy

Yazeed can be his middle middle name, after Boy.

[MyNameIsMethodis]

Oh god fuck you guys for bringing the Outsiders into this.

LETS DO IT FOR JOHNNY

[lennedsay]

Nothing gold can stay. 

[Fresh Prince]

Pls name after a FF7 character.

[Diunx]

She isn't married to himuro ffs.

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that said, I want to name my first boy Gohan 

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[TakingBackSunday]

I'm naming whatever child that happens to come from my seed Miracle

[Diunx]

I would bully a kid named Miracle.

[Fresh Prince]

Seprioud or Clorioth would be an awesome name.

[TakingBackSunday]

I would bully a kid named Miracle.

it's fitting!

[lennedsay]

Pls name after a FF7 character.

My husband would be so happy.


But fuck him, if I have to push this watermelon out, I get final say. And final say might be FF2/4. Rydia That's not a bad name... Twins will definitely have to be Porom and Palam!

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Honestly, FFX/X2 has awesome names and place names. Luca Auron Where'd you think I got Lenne from. 

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[Fresh Prince]

It's like if I met her in the bar, I'd be like, 'Rydia? I'd like ryd-ya.'

That sounds all Jacob 

[etiolate]

So fellahs

Why are black girls the most socially isolated of ethnic dating partners? Why don't they cross the color line? Tell me about the sistahs.