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Jerry

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5400 on: March 13, 2018, 07:03:51 AM »
Our office has speakers connected to a shared playlist and some of the utter shite that people put on is nearly enough to drive you mad.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5401 on: March 13, 2018, 09:05:43 AM »
My thyroid was acting up yesterday and somewhat today. Took a bunch of iodine supplements last night.

My throat feels less puffy this morning but I think it's about time I went to a doctor to get this shit checked out.  :-\

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5402 on: March 13, 2018, 10:33:38 AM »
Between not getting that job and work spiralling I can feel myself getting back to that nervous breakdown neighborhood. This time I know the signs so I can at least TRY to do something about it. But I'm not sure if that's a benefit, because it sorta feels like the dread before a storm. Sure, you gotta go through the storm either way, but if you don't know the storm was coming you sorta skip all that worrying about the storm bit.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5403 on: March 13, 2018, 10:36:39 AM »
My thyroid was acting up yesterday and somewhat today. Took a bunch of iodine supplements last night.

My throat feels less puffy this morning but I think it's about time I went to a doctor to get this shit checked out.  :-\

Have you considered Super Male Vitality drops?

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5404 on: March 13, 2018, 11:58:23 PM »
Stephen Hawking died
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5405 on: March 14, 2018, 02:51:55 AM »
Between not getting that job and work spiralling I can feel myself getting back to that nervous breakdown neighborhood. This time I know the signs so I can at least TRY to do something about it. But I'm not sure if that's a benefit, because it sorta feels like the dread before a storm. Sure, you gotta go through the storm either way, but if you don't know the storm was coming you sorta skip all that worrying about the storm bit.

You're gonna be fine. This is just a speedbump. My biggest worry is that your boss, who appreciates you and knows your worth, is also an unhealthy worker. Have you considered looking at other places?

Valkyrie

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5406 on: March 14, 2018, 04:20:04 AM »
Stephen Hawking died
We lost one of the greatest minds in our lifetime.

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5407 on: March 14, 2018, 04:28:10 AM »
Stephen Hawking died
We lost one of the greatest minds in our lifetime.

You still have me.

Child-on-child sexual assault cases on military bases are under reported and rarely prosecuted
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5408 on: March 14, 2018, 05:44:30 PM »
Between not getting that job and work spiralling I can feel myself getting back to that nervous breakdown neighborhood. This time I know the signs so I can at least TRY to do something about it. But I'm not sure if that's a benefit, because it sorta feels like the dread before a storm. Sure, you gotta go through the storm either way, but if you don't know the storm was coming you sorta skip all that worrying about the storm bit.

You're gonna be fine. This is just a speedbump. My biggest worry is that your boss, who appreciates you and knows your worth, is also an unhealthy worker. Have you considered looking at other places?
Yeah, but the thing is I've become so specialized that I've had possible employers say they feel I'm a bit of overkill. As a mentor once told me, "You can learn a dozen industries and talk about them quickly. The only companies that need that are other consulting firms." And he's been largely right. Most companies are worried that I'd get bored and leave, either that or they're paying peanuts.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5409 on: March 14, 2018, 08:42:16 PM »
So, for jerb reasons, I'm looking for remote housing. I worked in Silicon Valley, graduated from UC Santa Cruz, so I'm familiar with the long history of "geek houses" there: one person who inherited money or made it through their first IPO, or had Cisco stock at the right time buys a house with more rooms than they need. They rent out the remaining rooms to other like-minded people, so they have a group of similarly-interested peeps sharing the bills. It works great, but it's hard to get the smell of geek out of the woodwork if the owner ever decides to sell.

I am looking for a geek house in Tokyo, and Japan has half-assedly imported the term to rooms with wifi or something, and mainly applying it to AirBnB listings. This is more offensive to me than mayo/squid/corn pizza.

There is at least ONE actual Geek House I've found, and it looks like there is a good amount of shared housing available, though I was hoping it'd be similarly minded geeks with video games and movies, rather than drunken NZlanders on working holiday, or Disney Resort staff on furlough.

The main listings I bumped into, possibly due to their site being overly SEO'd, are for places where THERE ARE LITERALLY THREE LOFT BEDS in a single, Japanese-sized bedroom, and they want $700/month plus utils for this. What in the ACTUAL FUCK IS GOING ON?

:oldmanyellsatclouds.gif sure, I know, but this is fuckballs ridic.

chronovore

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5410 on: March 14, 2018, 08:44:32 PM »
Between not getting that job and work spiralling I can feel myself getting back to that nervous breakdown neighborhood. This time I know the signs so I can at least TRY to do something about it. But I'm not sure if that's a benefit, because it sorta feels like the dread before a storm. Sure, you gotta go through the storm either way, but if you don't know the storm was coming you sorta skip all that worrying about the storm bit.

You're gonna be fine. This is just a speedbump. My biggest worry is that your boss, who appreciates you and knows your worth, is also an unhealthy worker. Have you considered looking at other places?
Yeah, but the thing is I've become so specialized that I've had possible employers say they feel I'm a bit of overkill. As a mentor once told me, "You can learn a dozen industries and talk about them quickly. The only companies that need that are other consulting firms." And he's been largely right. Most companies are worried that I'd get bored and leave, either that or they're paying peanuts.

This trips me up frequently as well. But we don't need several companies, we just need one job, one company to recognize it. It's hard when several places turn me down for whatever reasons, valid or no. But in the end we only need one company to hire us.

Or have the unappreciative company hire us back at consultant rates after we quit.

BisMarckie

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5411 on: March 14, 2018, 08:47:28 PM »
My gf made a dentist appointment for me for tomorrow. I have avoided dentists for 7 years now since I had no problems with my teeth. Still, I expect the worst :goty2

toku

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5412 on: March 15, 2018, 12:09:16 AM »
hope you been flossing and don't have sensitive gums


Tasty

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5413 on: March 15, 2018, 12:13:00 AM »
My gf made a dentist appointment for me for tomorrow. I have avoided dentists for 7 years now since I had no problems with my teeth. Still, I expect the worst :goty2

:thinking You still need bi-yearly cleanings at the very least breh. Wouldn't be surprised if they found a shitton of cavities on you.

Reb

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5414 on: March 15, 2018, 04:35:41 AM »
Last year I went after 6 years and everything was fine.
Turns out, adults (and even children) can clean their own teeth by spending up to 5 minutes a day on them.
« Last Edit: March 15, 2018, 04:45:54 AM by Reb »
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5415 on: March 15, 2018, 05:44:36 AM »
My dentist always gave me props for how beautiful my teeth were and the way I was brushing them, and then proceeded to critize me for not flossing them enough because he'd still find some calculus in those parts where my brush doesn't reach. But I hate flossing, because I always bleed like a pig when doing it  :doge

It's been three years since my last visit to the dentist tho and I'm kinda afraid to make an appointment  :-\

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5416 on: March 15, 2018, 07:37:30 AM »
Last year I went after 6 years and everything was fine.
Turns out, adults (and even children) can clean their own teeth by spending up to 5 minutes a day on them.
This was me.  I've still only ever had one cavity and I don't think it ever actually existed.  I went to some clinic when I was 18 and the dude told me I had two cavities and then filled one.  When I moved and went to a different dentist a couple of months later he told me my teeth were pretty healthy and I had 0 cavities.  The first clinic was some free/sliding scale clinic that seemed shady - it was basically in a trailer - but I was 18 and thought "hey, it's New Mexico."

I went last year, 13 years later and I still have zero cavities.  I just brush my teeth twice a day and use mouthwash occasionally.

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5417 on: March 15, 2018, 07:48:27 AM »
 :yuck

Go to the dentist, brehs.
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desert punk

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5418 on: March 15, 2018, 08:09:00 AM »
I think some people just have more luck with their teeth than others. Some have to run to the dentist all the time even tho they brush and floss daily, while others haven't seen one in years and still got no problems.

Tho I brush my teeth twice a day, I think I got lucky thus far. I also think the older you get, the more problems you're gonna have with your teeth.

Mupepe

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5419 on: March 15, 2018, 08:46:10 AM »
That’s probably true. I go regularly now but I didn’t have insurance for a long ass time which is why I didn’t go.

BisMarckie

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5420 on: March 15, 2018, 11:00:14 AM »

:thinking You still need bi-yearly cleanings at the very least breh. Wouldn't be surprised if they found a shitton of cavities on you.

2 cavities :trumps

Actually it wasn't that bad, but still, dentists rank #1 on my list of irrational fears.

Tasty

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5421 on: March 15, 2018, 11:33:07 AM »
My dentist always gave me props for how beautiful my teeth were and the way I was brushing them, and then proceeded to critize me for not flossing them enough because he'd still find some calculus in those parts where my brush doesn't reach. But I hate flossing, because I always bleed like a pig when doing it  :doge

You know that stops after like 3-4 days of consecutive flossing, right...?

Unless you're a hemophiliac or something.

desert punk

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5422 on: March 15, 2018, 12:20:15 PM »
My dentist always gave me props for how beautiful my teeth were and the way I was brushing them, and then proceeded to critize me for not flossing them enough because he'd still find some calculus in those parts where my brush doesn't reach. But I hate flossing, because I always bleed like a pig when doing it  :doge

You know that stops after like 3-4 days of consecutive flossing, right...?

Unless you're a hemophiliac or something.

I know, I was just looking for reasons not to do it  :lol

Tasty

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5423 on: March 15, 2018, 12:27:45 PM »
Ha, fair enough.

toku

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5424 on: March 15, 2018, 01:31:54 PM »
I think some people just have more luck with their teeth than others. Some have to run to the dentist all the time even tho they brush and floss daily, while others haven't seen one in years and still got no problems.

Tho I brush my teeth twice a day, I think I got lucky thus far. I also think the older you get, the more problems you're gonna have with your teeth.

Part of it seems to be where you were raised/born too? Last time I went my dentist clocked that I was from the islands because apparently our tap water is better so we tend to have stronger teeth and that gum diseases is what we need to watch for.

brawndolicious

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5425 on: March 15, 2018, 01:59:17 PM »
Why would you be more susceptible to gum disease? Genetics?

I assume drinking tap water vs distilled/bottled makes a big difference because of fluoridation. On the downside some mid century home plumbing ends up having high lead and copper but that just fucks you up on the inside, the vanity parts still look good.

toku

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5426 on: March 15, 2018, 02:13:26 PM »
yeah genetics

Tasty

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5427 on: March 15, 2018, 02:57:43 PM »
Yeah we had a well so I didn't get the fluoride water that makes frogs gay. :goty2

Still turned out gay though. :playa

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5428 on: March 15, 2018, 08:11:17 PM »
Not sure if this is an inconvenience or struggle, but allergies are really bumming me out. I took two Benadryl at 1AM, went to bed at 01:30. Woke up with a sneezing fit at 02:20, where the antihistamines should have had my allergies on the ropes, but seemingly all it did was make me bamboozled and incoherent. Really sleepy now. I have an appointment with my accountant in less than an hour and I can barely function.  :'(

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5429 on: March 15, 2018, 10:40:25 PM »
Yeah we had a well so I didn't get the fluoride water that makes frogs gay. :goty2

Still turned out gay though. :playa

What kinda filtration did you have on it? Most of the fluoride in groundwater is naturally occurring.

Proof that mother nature decides who should be gay.

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5430 on: March 16, 2018, 12:07:44 AM »
I’ve eaten Popeyes for the past 4 days and my ass has stopped functioning again.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5431 on: March 16, 2018, 12:34:13 AM »
Yeah we had a well so I didn't get the fluoride water that makes frogs gay. :goty2

Still turned out gay though. :playa

What kinda filtration did you have on it? Most of the fluoride in groundwater is naturally occurring.

Proof that mother nature decides who should be gay.

None AFAIK.

shosta

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5432 on: March 16, 2018, 05:08:13 PM »
For some reason I don't mind JSX in React Native but it feels icky to me in the browser. Vue does it a bit better.
So, uh, picking this up again and...
does every stateful html element need to be converted, so to speak, into a controlled component in order to integrate properly into React? Seems like an annoyance.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5433 on: March 16, 2018, 05:43:32 PM »
I mean I'm sure there are workarounds, but it definitely has more of a blessed path than a lot of other libraries.

shosta

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5434 on: March 16, 2018, 08:15:31 PM »
Quote
It can sometimes be tedious to use controlled components, because you need to write an event handler for every way your data can change and pipe all of the input state through a React component. This can become particularly annoying when you are converting a preexisting codebase to React, or integrating a React application with a non-React library. In these situations, you might want to check out uncontrolled components, an alternative technique for implementing input forms.
...oh
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5435 on: March 17, 2018, 01:00:56 AM »
losing my internet soon so I might be gone for a while
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Huff

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5436 on: March 17, 2018, 01:02:13 AM »
Oh thank god
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Valkyrie

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5437 on: March 17, 2018, 01:21:26 AM »
losing my internet soon so I might be gone for a while
Don’t go! You’re odd, but interesting.

shosta

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5438 on: March 17, 2018, 01:23:41 AM »
tell that to my ISP
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5439 on: March 17, 2018, 01:50:39 AM »
Traded half of my spicy beef durum for better social leverage tomorrow. Competing with your best friend's other best friends :flabbypd

Valkyrie

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5440 on: March 17, 2018, 02:30:33 AM »

shosta

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5441 on: March 17, 2018, 02:47:21 AM »
Nice post edit
I have a penchant for the saccharine, which necessitates both restraint and revision.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5442 on: March 17, 2018, 04:38:06 AM »
University of Maryland-Baltimore County

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5443 on: March 17, 2018, 03:02:57 PM »
Today I was shocked to find out the JWs will indeed make the trek to my front door to invite me to their death rituals

Purrp Skirrp

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5444 on: March 17, 2018, 04:21:55 PM »
My thyroid was acting up yesterday and somewhat today. Took a bunch of iodine supplements last night.

My throat feels less puffy this morning but I think it's about time I went to a doctor to get this shit checked out.  :-\

A sore throat? Been sucking off hobos lately? Could be strep.

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5445 on: March 17, 2018, 04:28:28 PM »
Having one of those days where my heart hurts for no reason.
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warcock

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5446 on: March 17, 2018, 04:31:04 PM »
ur heart can't rly hurt,  :-*

its probz anx based on ur previous posts.

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5447 on: March 17, 2018, 04:31:40 PM »
losing my internet soon so I might be gone for a while


TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5448 on: March 17, 2018, 04:35:15 PM »
ur heart can't rly hurt,  :-*

its probz anx based on ur previous posts.


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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5449 on: March 17, 2018, 04:40:16 PM »

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5450 on: March 17, 2018, 04:42:46 PM »
I’ve also received a hot new tip on Stosta’s identity. I’ve not finished (or begun really) researching it, but if I’m about to have a heart attack, I will write his/her new suspected identity on my wall in feces or semen, whichever is immediately available.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5451 on: March 18, 2018, 08:03:59 PM »
Not sure if this is an inconvenience or struggle, but allergies are really bumming me out. I took two Benadryl at 1AM, went to bed at 01:30. Woke up with a sneezing fit at 02:20, where the antihistamines should have had my allergies on the ropes, but seemingly all it did was make me bamboozled and incoherent. Really sleepy now. I have an appointment with my accountant in less than an hour and I can barely function.  :'(

Allergies are consistently getting worse as spring continues its stealthy approach on Osaka. Oh, to live in Los Angeles again, bereft of trees or bushes or any grass that wasn't part of an over-watered lawn…

I'm on two different meds right now and my brain is at 50%.

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5452 on: March 18, 2018, 09:06:19 PM »
I only remember to call my mom when it's too late and she's likely already asleep. :/

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5453 on: March 18, 2018, 09:37:15 PM »
My mom is dead :(
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5454 on: March 18, 2018, 09:43:33 PM »
My mom is dead :(

That's more of a real struggle. :(

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5455 on: March 19, 2018, 12:15:33 AM »
Wow, I’m sad for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5456 on: March 19, 2018, 12:17:32 AM »
Oh, she died like 6 years ago. I was just jealous Tasty has a mom to call :( I really miss her. I try not to think about her.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5457 on: March 19, 2018, 12:20:14 AM »
Sending hugs your way breh.

TVC15

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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5458 on: March 19, 2018, 12:21:47 AM »
Thanks. It’s not fresh, but I really do miss her at times like this when I’m in a crisis. It’s hard going through shit when you don’t have family left.
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Re: minor inconviences that are not struggles
« Reply #5459 on: March 19, 2018, 12:27:03 AM »
Oh, she died like 6 years ago. I was just jealous Tasty has a mom to call :( I really miss her. I try not to think about her.

My dad died just as my son was about to turn 1 year old. The other day, I felt like I should call him. As the cognitive dissonance settled in, I felt pretty sad but also warm at the same time.