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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10320 on: March 04, 2019, 01:25:31 AM »
This season has been dreadful.
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« Reply #10321 on: March 04, 2019, 01:26:26 AM »
If your defeatism and constant asking of questions hoping for reassurance seen in this thread are even partially passed on to her then its its no surprise she's edging away dude.
Then she should just say that so we can move on.

People are rarely that blunt

And she's probably not that yet but you're so determined to strangle the possibilities out from this person that her not crushing you yet seems to be dissapointing you
She is very blunt. She even says she is though. She's sad many times that if something happens she'd let me know that it's over or that she dosen't want to do anything anymore.

This season has been dreadful.
Go to hell.

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« Reply #10322 on: March 04, 2019, 01:30:56 AM »
she doesn't want things to be over, but you seem to. this poor girl is going above and beyond for you, but you seem to be looking for any excuse you can find to make her into the girl that doesn't want you. instead of wishing for her to just end things, you should be figuring out how to get her back. send the girl some flowers, make some type of gesture like that.
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« Reply #10323 on: March 04, 2019, 01:38:42 AM »
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But also that having to reassure me makes it seem like I don't trust her.

Seems like? You straight up don't trust her. You're constantly trying to read in between lines that don't exist. Worse yet, through text. Whatever baggage you're carrying weighing down all your interactions with her that isn't outright love.

If you keep carrying on like this she will drop you. Going back to a solitary life, wondering why women suck as you were not to long ago. Wake up and chill out.
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« Reply #10324 on: March 04, 2019, 01:43:41 AM »
So do you still think there's still a chance for this work if I just calm down? That she hasn't dropped me yet.



Serenity Now.



Insanity Later.

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« Reply #10325 on: March 04, 2019, 02:33:22 AM »
Ok you guys are probably correct( I mean when haven't you been). I just hope it's not too late to course correct.

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« Reply #10326 on: March 04, 2019, 02:34:27 AM »
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« Reply #10327 on: March 04, 2019, 02:37:31 AM »
She's got a big thing this week. I'm sure nagging her via text is the best thing to do at the minute. Keep going.

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« Reply #10328 on: March 04, 2019, 05:30:36 AM »
Seriously, stop asking her if everything's ok and is she upset etc, that will come off as really, really annoying to her. She will read your texts as "HELLO M'LADY I HAVE NO CONFIDENCE AND AM UTTERLY PATHETIC AND BY THE WAY DID MY PENIS UPSET YOU GOSH I HATE MY PENIS SO MUCH I ALSO HATE MYSELF PLEASE REASSURE ME, THAT'S ALL YOU'RE GOOD FOR". And I'm being extreme to really make a point.

Soon she'll be thinking that you're going to start sending her threats about harming yourself if she doesn't want you, which some people do send to their partners and maybe she even got shit like that from her clingy ex. Just let her focus on her work thingy, wish her good luck with it and tell her she's gonna kill it and be supportive.

Do NOT send her whiny messages like "r we ok" at a time like this. Messages like that suck hairy ass anyway but when she's stressed out it'll make her flip her shit so yeah I wonder why she doesn't text you back with walls of text of how great you are. She needs to focus on her work thing and get encouragement from you that she'll do great, she doesn't need to be telling you how awesome you are every minute of the day right now. Stop sending her serious texts about your situation, stop "trying to be entertaining", stop thinking she's looking for new dick, just for god's sake LET HER CHILL.


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« Reply #10329 on: March 04, 2019, 05:37:07 AM »
I’m impressed that you’ve seemingly found the most accommodating woman in the world that has been willing to put up with your shit and you’re still trying to do everything possible to fuck it up. I get you have serious issues with insecurity but still.

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« Reply #10330 on: March 04, 2019, 08:00:05 AM »
Is it like...just an accepted thing for women to be outright mean and rude on dating sites/apps now? I've lost track of how many times I've been personally insulted on my face or hair (or lack of it, as it were), height, life, and so on. All for the crime of....reading profiles and starting a conversation about something in them. Are women getting into negging or something?

I actually had a girl last night who started the conversation, gave me her number and texted me even when I wasn't particularly interested or asking for it, just to say I gave off serial killer vibes and not to text her :what

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« Reply #10331 on: March 04, 2019, 08:04:04 AM »
Thirsty dudes go to insane lengths for girls, it's only natural that it escalates to this degree in a buyers market where you can efficiently screen for a "perfect" guy. Though i personally don't use dating apps and don't know people who encounter this problem irl.

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« Reply #10332 on: March 04, 2019, 08:13:44 AM »
I've never encountered the problem in real life either. I get that you'd snap back at weirdo dudes saying weird shit, but I'm talking more like...they just seem bored and want to insult someone because they can. To start conversations themselves just to insult someone is either a new wave of PUA shit for women or just a mean streak that's acceptable I guess.

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« Reply #10333 on: March 04, 2019, 08:32:53 AM »
Gotta get that self-esteem boost somehow i suppose. :doge On the bright side, if a girl does that then it's pretty much a guaranteed "not worth my time and effort"person... So you pretty much dodge a bullet anyways.

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« Reply #10334 on: March 04, 2019, 09:00:27 AM »
I’m impressed that you’ve seemingly found the most accommodating woman in the world that has been willing to put up with your shit and you’re still trying to do everything possible to fuck it up. I get you have serious issues with insecurity but still.
I thought I did too and while I know you all think I’m crazy, I’m sorry if you looked at our texting I think you’d see she’s kind of coming off like a bitch.

All I get is

“Whatever”

“Ok”

And then things like “and” and “why” to simple questions such as “when’s your flight” and “hey saw you talking to the boss what’s that about”.

This is a girl that would go into extreme detail before and answer any question you had with so much bluntness that it would turn you on. Now I’m lucky to even get a reply and even more so if there’s any enthusaim behind it.

It’s a complete 180 from how we use to talk. To the point I don’t even know why we are talking. I’m not trying to ask so many “are we ok” crap because she said we were, but the vibe now is so diffrent . And since it’s coming after a mishap it makes everything feel like I ruined something. I mean I did at first and still kind of think it’s because of her conference. I mean she is also an insecure person and gets anxious and stressed out before. She got very stressed out before about it and yeah all I said was hey you’ll do fine and stick with it and then she calmed down and went back to normal. This time it hasn’t and when she talks to me there’s such a vibe of “why the fuck are you talking to me”. I even said “hey you have a lot going on, don’t worry about my shit” to which I got was a simple “ok”.

It’s just maddening to someone like me. And my plan was to just shut up and ride it out to she gets back. But Jesus Christ has it sucked and honestly at some point I don’t really know wtf is going on. It honestly feels like now she’s taking her stress out on me and it has nothing to do with me.
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« Reply #10335 on: March 04, 2019, 11:25:04 AM »
Is it like...just an accepted thing for women to be outright mean and rude on dating sites/apps now? I've lost track of how many times I've been personally insulted on my face or hair (or lack of it, as it were), height, life, and so on. All for the crime of....reading profiles and starting a conversation about something in them. Are women getting into negging or something?

I actually had a girl last night who started the conversation, gave me her number and texted me even when I wasn't particularly interested or asking for it, just to say I gave off serial killer vibes and not to text her :what

That reminds me of some behavior I see in online games. People do a pre-emptive "fuck you" when they're afraid they might get hurt, so they hurt you before you hurt them.

This may be it. My friend was talking about her online dating experiences and shes so tired of the experience she's all in on this fuck men mentality. A lot of burnt out people on those sites.
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« Reply #10336 on: March 04, 2019, 11:52:12 AM »
gave me her number and texted me even when I wasn't particularly interested or asking for it, just to say I gave off serial killer vibes and not to text her

Send back, "I take good care of the 12 girls I got locked in my basement and I won't stand for this bullshit." Then see if there's a serial killer smiley and add that at the end.

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« Reply #10337 on: March 04, 2019, 11:55:22 AM »
It honestly feels like now she’s taking her stress out on me and it has nothing to do with me.

It could very likely be this and nothing more. When I'm extremely stressed out I'd like to punch anyone who as much as looks at me, let alone tries to start up a conversation. Your best bet atm I'd say is assume it's the stress getting to her and she can't handle it very well but doesn't want to admit it. And every time you text her she gets annoyed because she only wants to focus on not fucking up her work thing and absolutely nothing else. When her work thingy's over and if it went well and she still acts aloof, only then start worrying a bit.

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« Reply #10338 on: March 04, 2019, 01:06:17 PM »
@Stro

I do think it’s a thing that some girls do — throw something negative at a guy and see how he reacts. Used to weed out guys who are gonna fly off the handle

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« Reply #10339 on: March 04, 2019, 01:20:22 PM »
Another thing I didn’t think about is that she’s on diffrent meds now.

I want to show you guys the distinct difference in her. It’s not me being insane.
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« Reply #10340 on: March 04, 2019, 01:34:59 PM »
@Stro

I do think it’s a thing that some girls do — throw something negative at a guy and see how he reacts. Used to weed out guys who are gonna fly off the handle

It's really fucking weird to me. Who would do that :why

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« Reply #10341 on: March 04, 2019, 01:59:38 PM »
:thinking

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« Reply #10342 on: March 04, 2019, 02:11:53 PM »
edit-sorry
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« Reply #10343 on: March 04, 2019, 02:13:27 PM »
Is that her whole name dude

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« Reply #10344 on: March 04, 2019, 02:19:02 PM »
Now demi can really slide in dem DM's
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« Reply #10345 on: March 04, 2019, 02:20:37 PM »
Is that her whole name dude
Yeah I forgot I changed her contact to her full name. It was hidden and I’m only posting on the bore so I guess I wasn’t thinking. I deleted it. Thanks and sorry, but did you see what I mean skull.

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« Reply #10346 on: March 04, 2019, 02:22:19 PM »
Well that’s the end of me.

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« Reply #10347 on: March 04, 2019, 02:22:23 PM »
Yo she said he needs to take a midol. When a woman perceives you as a dude who nags you need to really walk it all back real fast. Rahx, you're poisoning the well with your incessant need to be reassured.
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« Reply #10348 on: March 04, 2019, 02:25:25 PM »
Well that’s the end of me.

I’m not doing shit dude don’t worry lol

I just like to joke.
I was making a Simpsons reference.

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« Reply #10349 on: March 04, 2019, 02:27:05 PM »
Yo she said he needs to take a midol. When a woman perceives you as a dude who nags you need to really walk it all back real fast. Rahx, you're poisoning the well with your incessant need to be reassured.
Uh that’s because I said I was acting like a bitch. I haven’t been nagging her. In fact I haven’t even iniated these conversations. She did.

And that’s your take away? Like you can’t see the distinct difference on how we’ve been talking. Ok then. The funny thing is she has said I don’t nag her.

And while I agree I need to stop asking what’s wrong...I don’t think it’s crazy to ask your friend/gf/bf/whatever is something wrong when it seems like they are off.

It’s funny I’ve crowd sourced this with two female friends. One of them I don’t agree with because she does want her guys always checking up on her.

The other one said she is  trying to be visibly upset so that I  know, but also won’t say anything because I should already know what’s wrong with her because women are crazy.
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« Reply #10350 on: March 04, 2019, 02:40:25 PM »
Its impossible to say whats up with her but all you can do is take control of your interactions with her. Be emotionally available but stop clobbering her with long text when shes obviously not being receptive to your concern.

Also, I've found its best to sit down and talk it out in person. Harder to be dismissive and get down to it. But you're both in an odd space, you've just met and yet are navigating whatever this is.

Go about your life, be there if she reaches out. Stop killing yourself over it. One of those scenarios where the more you struggle the worse it gets.
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« Reply #10351 on: March 04, 2019, 02:49:07 PM »
Well that’s what I was trying to do Blu. That’s why I told her to not worry about me and just focus on her thing. I’m good and I’ll be around. I’m not even texting her. I’m leaving her alone.

But I also a set up a thing with an old female friend. So I’m ready to move on if need be. This girl also at least sucks dick without me having to wear a flavored condom. So..

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« Reply #10352 on: March 04, 2019, 03:05:08 PM »
This girl also at least sucks dick without me having to wear a flavored condom. So..

Lmfao

Greener pastures  :popular
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« Reply #10353 on: March 04, 2019, 03:19:56 PM »
Truth be told, I don’t want to. I don’t actually like this old friend that way. I just know she’s easy. And I really like this girl which is why I’m going insane and having my worst qualities come out.

But anyway I also showed this to my female friend who kind of set this up and has honestly been my guide the whole time.

What she had to add is diffrent from the bore. She said the bitch is crazy. That she probably is really stressed out but it was still rude and bitchy to flip out on me for using a flippint reply like “whatever” when she’s been doing it all the time to me. But I’m not nagging her, I’m trying to explain where I’m coming from and she probably can’t understand because she is in a weird spot. That when her boyfriend is stressed he also acts weird and when she reacts fed up to it he says she’s the one acting weird. But when whatever is stressing him out is over he goes back to normal. She said it’s clear she’s not done with me.

Anyway hopefully when her thing is over she gets back to normal. Then I can stop posting here. I mean the girl is also on lots of drugs like Adderall and other anti-depressants. Maybe some new one is also messing with her. Again this isn’t the first time she’s got stressed and gotten pissy. Maybe this is just one of her faults.

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« Reply #10354 on: March 04, 2019, 04:56:22 PM »
Is that her whole name dude
Yeah I forgot I changed her contact to her full name. It was hidden and I’m only posting on the bore so I guess I wasn’t thinking. I deleted it. Thanks and sorry, but did you see what I mean skull.

Well benji's back so you gotta be careful with these doxxing opportunities!  :doge

Anyway yeah I did read the texts and I did see a difference, yeah, but she said it herself that she's worrying about the work thing and doesn't have time for anything else. I bet she just can't handle stress like at all and like I said, I can be that way too and could see myself snapping like that at someone who's texting me and trying to be supportive or take my mind off it or whatever. She might even feel like a dick about it but is too engulfed in her own shit to say sorry or act nicer.

So yeah she was a bit rude lol but if she's still initiating the texts she obviously wants to keep in contact but can't help slipping into bitch on wheels attitude. I know that feel. Like you want to make sure the other person doesn't think you're ignoring them but at the same time it's almost like a chore at a time when you really don't need it so you might say insulting shit because it makes you feel better to get some of that stress rage out. She wouldn't take it out on a semi-friend but on a boyfriend, yes. She likes you enough to be pissy at you because she's expecting that it won't make you run away because you like her too. If it was a meaningless fling to her she'd just block you if she found you annoying. Just wait until you have a fight irl and then have angry make up sex  8)

But also, you shouldn't make fun of your dick not working, don't remind her especially by wallowing in it, even though you framed it as a joke. Just don't do that. It's not good for you either. Your dick is fine. Women's bits aren't always cooperative either and the mind can play a huge factor in it for them too. When that happens you just do other stuff and don't start beating yourself up about it.

And while she is stressed out like that don't send her multiple texts in a row or long texts in general, she probably doesn't have the energy to read them and reply to them. Better just do what I guess she does, let her know that you're thinking about her but don't try to start a conversation since she clearly doesn't want one. She seems to want a fight. Some women like fighting btw and think guys who won't argue back are pussies. You can't have angry sex with a pussy. But please don't fight with her over text since there's so much missing nuance and you may say something you think is satirical but she won't get it and woo boy, then you're in real trouble.

I still think she'll be back to her normal self after the work thing is over but in the mean time, don't give her any ammo or reason to think you're a pussy or annoyingly needy like her ex. But I guess it's good to know she sucks at handling stressful situations so you know to try and avoid getting into them with her.

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« Reply #10355 on: March 04, 2019, 07:52:01 PM »
Well the bore has never really lead me astray. So I’m going to try and take the advice here as much as possible. I don’t want to fuck this up beyond whatever I’ve alreadt done. I just think she’s a very stressful and anxious person and right now my mishap was bad timing. So I’m going to chill as much as possible. Maybe not even text her. I talked to my female freeness and none of them think she wants to end anything and I don’t either.

And I got a “I’ll miss you too reply” so it must not be that bad.

Hopefully I won’t be posting here for a bit and hopefully she comes back and wants to ride my bones.

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« Reply #10356 on: March 04, 2019, 09:20:20 PM »
Well I don’t know how to answer that. This is a learning experience for me yknow and it’s a real trial by fire. This isn’t the first time she’s gotten moody about her event, but they were easily calm down and well lead to sex. But they were calmed down probably because the event could be pushed away. Now it’s here so maybe that’s why she’s getting real anxious.

She does have one of those dogs for anxitity so it’s not like this isn’t an actual thing.

But I’d also say this seems to be her first actual relationship. So maybe she dose t know how to handle it either. I mean she’s only had 4 previous partners and she’s said I’m the one who’s treated her the best and been mindful of her feelings. The 37 year old virgin I get the impression was not healthy from what’s she said. He was her supervisor and as she said the sex started as a quid pro quo thing. He also had access to her apartment and would just show up. It seems like something she just got comfortable with and then it was ok. But I have a feeling it didn’t end well even though it lasted two years. The other guys sound pretty bad as well. One of them just stoped talking to her after they did it. An older guy just ended there thing after revealing he was seeing somebody else. And last guy was in his 20s while she was in her teens and they just used drugs anyway. I mean she even said our sex is one of the few times she was able to do it while not drunk or on something. This isn’t even mentioning the abuse she suffers in her early teens from a friends uncle.

So I do t know she’s been through some shit. And while we’ve only been talking for 4 months with it escalating to sex only recently I mean I feel it’s been good and so I think it’s worth dealing with her anxitity if that is what this is. I mean even in four months I know when I’m talking to her and somethings wrong or not. While I am crazy I mean I could tell this was not her usual attitude.

So I don’t know it’s worth it now if we can get past this then I’ll be pretty happy. I am just going to try and give her her space. Hence I told to not even worry or think about me. Yes I have a problem with being reassured but I mean I don’t know I’ve got issues.

I think things are ok for now....

We’ll see in a week I guess.

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« Reply #10357 on: March 04, 2019, 09:23:53 PM »
never mind everything we said before. run, bitch!! run for your life!
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« Reply #10358 on: March 06, 2019, 01:46:04 PM »
WAIT
WAIT

CATCH ME UP

RAH GOT LAID?!?!
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« Reply #10359 on: March 06, 2019, 02:17:33 PM »
Oh yeah but wait til you find out what happened next :esports

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« Reply #10360 on: March 06, 2019, 02:20:33 PM »
what page do i start to catch up on this
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« Reply #10361 on: March 06, 2019, 02:32:31 PM »
196 was when the first sex happened but there's probably pages and pages of waffling before that. And after.

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« Reply #10362 on: March 06, 2019, 02:51:22 PM »
It starts on 183.

Also I'm a decent looking person who isn't trash, is awkward, but not creepy, takes care of themselves hygiene wise anyway, is'n't dumb, and though you won't believe me I do have an ok personality in real life. It's not impossible for me to have sex.

I have plenty of problems. Maybe more or no more than the average person, I don't know. I'm picky, judgemental, very hard on myself, have an incredibly fluctuating and fragile ego/confidence, am prone to self sabotage. But every once in a while I'm able to at least hide those things for a bit and socialize with people.

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« Reply #10363 on: March 06, 2019, 02:53:03 PM »
It starts on 183.

Also I'm a decent looking person who isn't trash, is awkward, but not creepy, takes care of themselves hygiene wise anyway, is'n't dumb, and though you won't believe me I do have an ok personality in real life. It's not impossible for me to have sex.

I have plenty of problems. Maybe more and no more than the average person, I don't know. I'm picky, judgemental, very hard on myself, an incredibly fluctuating and fragile ego/confidence, and prone to self sabotage. But every once in a while I'm able to at least hide those things for a bit and socialize with people.

omfg

OMFG

RAH SAYS HE'S DECENT LOOKING AND NOT UGLY.

I'VE BEEN TELLING YOU THIS FOR YEARS

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« Reply #10364 on: March 06, 2019, 03:00:24 PM »
Anyway, I think everything is ok right now. After the conversation where I told her to not worry about me as I'm not going anywhere, focus on yourself. She seemed to calm down a bit and return to herself. I actually got answers beyond non-starters like "ok", "whatever", and '?". Maybe she also realized that she was being a little pissy. Before she boarded her plane we had a decent text conversation that was like they normally are and she'd let me know when she landed. Which she did and then she even followed up on whats going on later.

So I actually think your post was right on the money Skullstorm. Complete with she probably feels the need to message just to let me know she's still talking to me. I'm just hoping when she comes back everything goes back to normal and we can get fuckin again.

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« Reply #10365 on: March 06, 2019, 05:06:53 PM »
Why did all the Tinder bots go to college in Colorado or Iowa?

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10366 on: March 06, 2019, 05:21:07 PM »
Because boring bitches live in those two states. So a boring nonsensical conversation between a real Iowa girl and a bot is nearly indistinguishable

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10367 on: March 06, 2019, 06:02:37 PM »
 :ohhh

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10368 on: March 06, 2019, 06:18:49 PM »
Maybe she also realized that she was being a little pissy.

Oh yeah, must be that.

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« Reply #10369 on: March 06, 2019, 06:42:21 PM »
Maybe she also realized that she was being a little pissy.

Oh yeah, must be that.
I'm aware you're being sarcastic and trying to make a dig at me. But seeing as how I actually know the person and can tell when they are giving off a diffrent vibe. I'm going to say they were being a bit miffed. Was it understandable why they were? Yes, but it wasn't entirely my fault.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10370 on: March 06, 2019, 07:31:11 PM »
With women, first you gotta mea culpa outta that fucka
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« Reply #10371 on: March 06, 2019, 07:40:16 PM »
Oh I already know that with women. I'll accept any blame and expect no apology, acknoldgement, or whatever as long as things can move past any rough patch. Hence I did'nt say "you've been acting bitchy" just "you've been a bit off".

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« Reply #10372 on: March 07, 2019, 06:20:57 PM »
https://imgur.com/a/AvSgYVu

I think we are good.

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« Reply #10373 on: March 07, 2019, 06:25:19 PM »
i mean you can hit that :lol

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10374 on: March 07, 2019, 07:36:13 PM »
https://imgur.com/a/AvSgYVu

I think we are good.

So are you done overreacting over shit yet or
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10375 on: March 07, 2019, 07:59:13 PM »
Probably not.

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« Reply #10376 on: March 07, 2019, 08:33:31 PM »
I’m genuinely happy things are working out for Rahx.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10377 on: March 07, 2019, 08:50:31 PM »
Me too!
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10378 on: March 07, 2019, 09:31:37 PM »
Can't wait for the epic 'she wants Wendys but I want McDonalds' fallout. Until then, split them cheeks.
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #10379 on: March 07, 2019, 09:56:33 PM »
Rahx that shit made me smile. If you gotta do your over thinkin shit, keep it at the bore, we got you